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 Jul 10 2005, 11:12 AM
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Okay, so I've been hanging out with this 18 year old guy, and I'm 15. And I'm supposed to hang out with him today, but my dad doesn't want me hanging out with him anymore, because it looks bad. How do I tell him I can't hang out with him anymore, without him thinking that I don't want to hang out, when it's really my parents?
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Jul 10 2005, 12:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends
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Jul 10 2005, 12:09 PM
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Yea, Tell him the truth.
And have u indtroduced himto your parents. Maybe they'll change after they've met him. |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:20 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
If you guys are friends, he deserves to know the truth. There's no reason to keep this "secret" from him. Tell him your parents dont' want you two being more than friends. If you can't hang out with him, oh well. There are a lot more fish in the sea your age and it'd be a lot less complicated with your parents.
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Jul 10 2005, 01:41 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
he may understand if ur dad tells him...and most guys know how protective girls parents are.. so yeah
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Jul 10 2005, 01:42 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends QUOTE Yea, Tell him the truth. do that. if you tell him that, and ask if he'd like to meet your parents and make an impression maybe theyd change their minds. |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:46 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
try making a big deal out of how ur dad wont let you hang out...then he will know ur telling the truth
 srry u cant hang out
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Jul 10 2005, 01:48 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
QUOTE(sandy_lumpy_shore @ Jul 10 2005, 12:00 PM) well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends  ^exactly. i would just sneak out and meet with him lols |
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Jul 10 2005, 02:11 PM
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 i know right? Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,129 |
I agree w/ everybody..Tell him the truth.
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Jul 10 2005, 02:40 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Telling the truth is the best option. Or you could try to reason with your dad and try to change his mind.
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Jul 10 2005, 02:45 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
Your parents are probably worried for you, why not try introducing your friend to your parents and maybe they'll change their mind. If not, then tell your friend the truth
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Jul 10 2005, 04:24 PM
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say my parents don't want us to hang around anymore so this is what we do we sneak around
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Jul 10 2005, 04:32 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
"my dad says I cant chill wit you. See ya" then dip out...simple
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Jul 10 2005, 05:20 PM
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^^
how nice.  hehbut yeah just tell him the truth, or try to convince your dad, but that's probably a lot harder so yeah... |
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Jul 10 2005, 05:21 PM
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 The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
lyk everyone else said.. tell him the truth..lol
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Jul 10 2005, 05:23 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I agree with everyone else.. it's best to just tell him the truth. He will understand.
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Jul 10 2005, 10:04 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
tell him the truth liek everyone else said.
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Jul 10 2005, 10:16 PM
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just tell him your parents dont want you to and that your sorry. and you really want to but your parents just wont let you
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Jul 11 2005, 05:29 AM
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well, you like being his friend right? all you can do is tell him the truth no matter how he takes it. tell him straight, "my dad doesn't want us to hangout but I still would like to hangout with you.. I just don't want to go against his wishes because well, he's my dad." and if he doesn't understand, then screw with him. you don't need him. you have many other friends to hangout with. what's one going to do? anyways, you can still prove to your dad that your eighteen year old friend is a good person because maybe your dad thinks he is bad? i dunno.. ask your dad what's wrong with him i guess. three years older isn't much of a difference.
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Jul 24 2005, 07:17 AM
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it's nice how you are listening to your parents... but if you like him that much, dont lie to him. maybe he can come over and have dinner or meet your dad in person or something. or maybe your dad knows hes bad for a reason.
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