hanging out with my friends, it seems like i can never. . . . |
 May 14 2005, 07:16 PM
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Okay. . .here's my story. . . .
All of my friends hang out with each other at the movies, mall, etc. and when they always invite me, my parents will never let me go. So, I keep always saying "no." Before, I could always go. . . . . I've tried asking my parents why I can't go, and my parents always say that it's too far, it's on a Saturday (shcool day for me) or its "I just don't want you to go", and they are really ruining my life. Also, because I can't hang out with my friends, I think that they don't want to be my friends anymore. I mean, they are saying things like I'm f******* stupid, and that no one really cares if you show up anyway, or things like I don't like you anymore. The things that they are saying are really hurting me. I can't really move on because there are not many people in my class to make friends with. . . 
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Jul 9 2005, 10:21 AM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Your parents are over protective, that's all. You need to let them know that you're responsible enough and maybe carry a cellphone with you so you can keep in contact with them.
If you assure them, they will usually ease up and help you out. Good luck 
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Jul 9 2005, 09:04 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
those are some crappyass friends and even if theyre the only girls you can make friends with , find some new ones. cos if they treat you like that then that is not right, no matter WHO the hell they THiNK they are.
that happens to me and i think my friends are getting tired of it too, but theres nothing you or i can do. just try to explain to your parents you need to get out and such. |
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Jul 11 2005, 07:06 PM
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QUOTE(KawaiiChobiGirl @ May 14 2005, 7:16 PM) Also, because I can't hang out with my friends, I think that they don't want to be my friends anymore. I mean, they are saying things like I'm f******* stupid, and that no one really cares if you show up anyway, or things like I don't like you anymore. The things that they are saying are really hurting me. \ i know how u feel. my friends always invites me to go and hang out wif them. i ask my parents and they dont let me go! they are so friggen paranoid that i mite die or get kidnapped or raped or something. itz really annoying. i alwais felt like they really are trying to make me a social outcast and end my friendships ( cus they already hate my friends). itz really annoying. i tried talking to them, but they are so stubborn. geez! haha! at least ur friends continue to invite u... some of my friends gave up on me... and i blame it all on my parents. bleh. |
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Jul 12 2005, 06:01 PM
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Ask yourself this. Are they really your friends? If they were really your friends then they probably understand your situation. My parents are like that too. I can go out but not too often. They're juhs over-protecting you & what not. Tell your friends what's up? If they can't understand, find some other friends you can hang out with. No, it isn't ruining your life. Find other things to do at your house.
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