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 Jul 7 2005, 07:41 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN  Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013  |
Well, some of you might know but if you don't I'm bi and there's this guy. I think he's straight, but I like him and during the school year we talked a lot and just became friends. One weird thing though is that he always grabs my chest and he likes to touch me a lot (not that I mind) and he doesn't know that I go "that way" and it's just really confusing. After school ended I didn't see him until July 4th because at my township there's this thing where they have fireworks and such and yeah...so any help?
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Jul 7 2005, 08:09 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
well i see guys touch each other alot like playfully. all my guy friends like to joke around alot so i think liek him touching you is completly normal.
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Jul 7 2005, 08:11 PM
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 d@niel Group: Member Posts: 1,267 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,453 |
yeah, touching is normal, or at least that i know of...rubbing and constant touching is kinda weird...not sure what you should do though
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Jul 7 2005, 08:13 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
Well, he grabs my chest a lot like my "boob" and he jokes when he randomly grabs my hand. He gave me a massage when I fell asleep in class once and he also grabbed my ass which was...very akward for me. I saw him at the mall one time with a couple of friends and we were like pretending to kiss and got like 2 inches away from each other but he has a girlfriend. Are guys really that touchy?
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Jul 7 2005, 08:15 PM
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memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
from what i know of yeah i guess lols the guys i hang out with do it all the time they kissed for real once! but they were juss playing around. guys are like that. fooling around and so and so
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Jul 7 2005, 08:53 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it's probably horseplay...guys grab other guys chest area to give purple nurples...
but maybe he's just trying to experiment. since he has a girlfriend, his way of touching you and whatnot can be interest masked in innocence. |
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Jul 7 2005, 08:59 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
Oh well, maybe he'll go the other way in time...I really liked him though
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Jul 7 2005, 10:25 PM
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haha yeah. i think he's just doing that as a guy-thing.
my friends and i fool around all the time like that. it's no big deal 
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Jul 7 2005, 10:40 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
^You grab each other's boobs?
Man. This is confusing. l0l. If your thinking about making a move. Don't do it just yet. Wait a little bit. You know. For more signs or something. |
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Jul 8 2005, 02:01 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 7 2005, 6:13 PM) Well, he grabs my chest a lot like my "boob" and he jokes when he randomly grabs my hand. He gave me a massage when I fell asleep in class once and he also grabbed my ass which was...very akward for me. I saw him at the mall one time with a couple of friends and we were like pretending to kiss and got like 2 inches away from each other but he has a girlfriend. Are guys really that touchy?  Yeah.. Guys slapping eachother's asses and pretending to kiss? Hmm.. Never heard of that. Maybe he likes you as more than a friend? I don't really know how you can ask him that though... I don't know. See if he tries to make a move on you again. |
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Jul 8 2005, 04:05 AM
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QUOTE(bRoKeNxALoNE @ Jul 7 2005, 9:40 PM) ^You grab each other's boobs? Man. This is confusing. l0l. If your thinking about making a move. Don't do it just yet. Wait a little bit. You know. For more signs or something. lol yeah. it's called a titty twister. but yeah. LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAID. if you're not openly bi--or not willing to let everyone know you're bi yet, DONT MAKE A MOVE! if he's not like that, you would deeply regret it. because it risks the chances of everyone knowing--if you haven't told anyone. like she said. wait don't rush into things. the best things always take time and patience. you just have to see if what he does persists or gets more sensual. i mean---the whole fake-kissing part--i don't know any other straight guys that do that. so it's kind of a yes/no push/pull factor going on. just. go with what your heart tells you to do is all i can say. if you're unsure about it, you shouldn't rush yourself. until you are SURE that you have that chance---and are willing to take the consequences that may follow. |
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Jul 8 2005, 12:30 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
^^
Ohh...he's good. Also, I never had a gf or bf or anything so that's what also worries me... QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Jul 7 2005, 10:43 PM) i think it's cool that you're bi  talk to him..get to know him...give him head. you know, the usual  That's so tempting... |
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Jul 8 2005, 01:19 PM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
tch. mayhaps you should ask him what he means by that?
the most blatant, obvious, blunt things generally work best. ^.~ |
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Jul 8 2005, 04:33 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(FailedSense @ Jul 8 2005, 2:19 PM) tch. mayhaps you should ask him what he means by that? the most blatant, obvious, blunt things generally work best. ^.~ Yeah, but I don't want to tell him straight foward because if he gets all freaked out...things change and I know people are going to say "Well then he isn't worth it", but you can't help how you feel. |
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