i'm.. slouchy. o_O; Options

[this__love]

o_O; i can't keep my back straight ><;;

my friends keep telling me to sit straight and stand straight o_O; even my parents && teachers tell me to. ><;;

i'm kind of used to be being slouchy and some of my friends keep teasing me going, "stand straight or you'll be a hunchback" ><;;

so yes.. is there any way to help me get used to standing// sitting straight o_o;

one of my friends told me to stand straight against the wall for fifteen minutes or so everyday o_O;

any tips? ^^

[*mzkandi*]

My mom use to have me walk with a book on my head if she caught me slouching

[Looow]

I have exactly the same problem. Well, if you spend a lot of time of the computer, put a pillow behind your back. Putting cushion on my loser back helps me. I'm nto sure that will help you, however.

[hiromi]

Ah, I have that same problem, but not many people seem to mind. I only slouch when I sit though. When it comes to standing, my back is pretty straight

[shortiiex]

i only do that if i sit....but my mom complains about my brother cause he always did that...maybe you should stand straight against the wall for 15 minutes....so it helps and hurts at the same time and it will you teach you never slouch again or another 15 minutes is coming up

[3ssx]

just try to sit up straight n stand up straight.. you'll get used to it.

before i used to be slouchy. (a little) and after i spend like 2 hours sitting up straight . my back started to hurt if i slouched... yes

[IamRad]

i get told the same thing.. its annoying sitting up straight, it looks like im trying to expand my boob size

[Paradox of Life]

^ Lol, o_O

This actually could be a back problem if it's so hard for you to correct it. Maybe you should see a doctor or a chiropractor. Sometimes it helps to think that when you slouch, your organs are pressing together and it makes digesting food harder. And it just grosses you out and makes you want to sit up.

And yeah, try balancing a book on your head. Walk in front of the mirror. If you're slouching, it does not look appealing and you care about your self-image, right? You're not going to fix it if people tell you to and you, yourself don't want to. Fix it because you want to fix it for your own benefit and looking at how unattractive you are when you slouch will help you realize that.

[technicolour]

Yea, i have the issue of when i sit straight it looks like i'm trying to out do pam anderson on my boobs.

I would try the book thing. That's intersting.

[islandkiss]

I have the same problem. ><

My cousin makes me practice standing against the wall everyday. I've only seen a small difference in my posture

[topsyturvy]

Who doesn't slouch?!

Ima gonna grow up to be a hunchback.

[kill me please]

at school when we got on teh computers everyone was like "wow you sit up so straight" i was just like O.o i do? but now i dont i dont know how to fix it though sorry. just try?

[Skyline Drive]

Hope some of this helps.


Standing posture

*Stand with weight mostly on the balls of the feet, not with weight on the heels
*Keep feet slightly apart, about shoulder-width
*Let arms hang naturally down the sides of the body
*Avoid locking the knees
*Tuck the chin in a little to keep the head level
*Be sure the head is square on top of the neck and spine, not pushed out forward
*Stand straight and tall, with shoulders upright
*If standing for a long period of time, shift weight from one foot to the other, or rock from heels to toes.
*Stand against a wall with shoulders and bottom touching wall. In this position, the back of the head should also touch the wall - if it does not, the head is carried to far forward (anterior head carriage).

Sleeping posture with mattresses and pillows

*A relatively firm mattress is generally best for proper back support, although individual preference is very important
*Sleeping on the side or back is usually more comfortable for the back than sleeping on the stomach
*Use a pillow to provide proper support and alignment for the head and shoulders
*Consider putting a rolled-up towel under the neck and a pillow under the knees to better support the spine
*If sleeping on the side, a relatively flat pillow placed between the legs will help keep the spine aligned and straight.

It is important to note that an overall cause of bad posture is tense muscles, which will pull the body out of alignment. There are a number of specific exercises that will help stretch and relax the major back muscles. Some people find that meditation or other forms of mental relaxation are effective in helping relax the back muscles. And many people find treatments and activities such as massage therapy, yoga, tai chi or other regular exercise routines, or treatments such as chiropractic or osteopathic manipulation, etc. to be helpful with both muscle relaxation and posture awareness and improvement.

Improving your posture can solve all kinds of problems you might think have a more serious source. If you have an aching back, a strained neck, rigid shoulders or recurrent headaches, poor posture could be to blame. Try some of these strategies to see if your aches and pains are due to the way you sit, stand and walk.

Walk tall

When was the last time you thought about how you walk? If you're unusually tall, and especially if you're a woman, it's possible you've unconsciously adopted a kind of stoop, in order to compensate for your height. Chances are you don't even realize you're doing it. Regardless of your height, though, think for a moment about the way you stand and walk. Are you aware of having a straight back and a relaxed gait, or do you never think about it?

Take a walk around your home or office, and be aware of how your body is moving. If you're wearing high heels, slip them off, and walk in your stockinged feet. High heels are, of course, one of the worst offenders when it comes to throwing your posture out of whack. High shoes tend to pitch the top half of your body forward, as it naturally realigns itself to keep its balance.

As you walk around, try lifting your head until you're looking straight ahead of you, with a relaxed neck and shoulders. Press your shoulders backwards so that your chest is pushed out, and straighten your spine so that you are standing straight, but not too stiffly. You'll notice as you try out this new walk in the privacy of your home or office that you suddenly feel more energetic and confident.

Once you see the difference between slouching along, and striding out, looking directly and confidently at the world, you will want to make a permanent change in the posture you adopt when standing and walking.

Sit straight

What can yo do about posture problems if you sit in front of a computer screen all day? This situation tends to produce one of two extreme conditions. Firstly, it's all too easy to slump like a couch potato when you've been in the same position for hours on end. If you find that you frequently slide down in your chair until your head is almost ready to rest on the edge of your desk, it's time to take action.

As your body has been slouched in your chair, it's likely that your back and neck have been taking the strain of your rounded shoulders and unnatural seating position. Stand up and have a brisk walk around the office. Stop for a drink of water or coffee, have a chat with a colleague and generally rev up your energy a few points, until you feel refreshed enough to sit down again.

You may fall into the second category of poor seating posture. If you've been typing frantically, or focusing intently on paperwork for a considerable length of time, just check how high your shoulders are sitting and how stiff how your neck feels. Many people don't notice that, as they sit still for long periods and their bodies become increasingly rigid and tense, their shoulders become surprisingly raised.

This seated posture represents the opposite problem to the slouching position just described. Both positions, however, place enormous stress on the back and neck. If you find your body adopting the rigid, tense posture while you're seated, take a couple of deep breaths, and relax your muscles as you exhale. Gently rotate your neck, looking from side to side, and roll your shoulders a couple of times to relax your muscles.

Stretch out

Whether you experience such posture problems at home or at work, some simple stretching exercises can really make a difference to the way your body feels, and remind you to take the time to relax. Try some of these.

Take off your shoes if you are wearing high heels, and stand with your feet flat on the floor, about shoulder width apart. Extend both arms to your left and stretch your body gently but fully in that direction. Relax. Repeat the exercise, this time reaching to the right. Now reach with both hands up towards the ceiling, continuing to look straight ahead. Really reach as hard and as high as you can, extending the stretch until you are standing up on your toes.

This one is very good for relaxing sore neck and shoulder muscles that have been strained by poor posture. First move your head slowly to the left, and hold it for a couple of seconds. Roll your head forward, looking down at your chest, until you are looking towards the right. Be careful not to make any sudden, jerky moves, which will strain your neck muscles further. Repeat this gentle rolling and stretching motion a few more times, until your neck muscles feel more relaxed.

Shoulder rolls are also effective remedies for muscles strained by incorrect posture. Make gentle "windmills" with your arms, in a backwards direction, five or six times. Repeat the rolls, this time rotating your arms forward. Finish off by inhaling deeply, and shrugging your shoulders as high as you can, slowly and thoroughly. Relax, dropping your shoulders back to their natural level, and exhale fully.

You may find that correcting your posture has other benefits, too. As you begin to stand tall with your shoulders back, a natural side-effect is to hold in your stomach-muscles, which will give you a slimmer silhouette. You may also start to have more energy, as you lose the fatigue brought on by slumping, and the feelings of anxiety connected with all-over tension.

[mocassinsx29]

You really should take the advice up there ^ seriously. I never noticed but I slouch a lot and my doctor sent me to a hospital to get an x-ray and it turns out that I was getting scoliosis. >_< Now I have to sit straight more often or I'll eventually have to get a backbrace.

[takeapolaroid__x]

apparently when my friend had that problem, she hung upside-down on one of those bars... it straightened it out

[Fallen Fairy]

Your going to form your back into a hump.

i bet your slouching right now aren't you?

sit up straight.

fallen fairy

[laxumaster8]

Ah, I have that same problem, but not many people seem to mind. I only slouch when I sit though. When it comes to standing, my back is pretty straight

same...but im not really sure that the 15 minute-against-wall thing will work...also, it might waste time...it is hard to not slouch...not sure how to stop if though

[EmmalieV]

I only slouch on the computer , I walk normally. But just train yourself , seriously no one likes a hunchback =/

[__xxfrappachino...]

try doing yoga. get one of those yoga tapes and follow along. my mom used to slouch but she does yoga like everyday and now she doesn't slouch as much so yea..try yoga =]

[PinkTrash]

loll..
my parents always tell me that I slouch. I dont think I slouch thoe.. and neither does anyone else, its just i dont walk with my chest sticking out =/
i think it has to do with my heavy backpack .. plus the computer problem.

[enyceXaddiction]

same here. i cant seem to do anything about it so i dont care lols.

[parallel]

Haha.
My back hurts all the time and yada yada.
Ask Angie.
l0l.

[sheddingtears]

Who doesn't slouch?!

Ima gonna grow up to be a hunchback. 

HAHA LOL

Improving your posture can solve all kinds of problems you might think have a more serious source. If you have an aching back, a strained neck, rigid shoulders or recurrent headaches, poor posture could be to blame. Try some of these strategies to see if your aches and pains are due to the way you sit, stand and walk.

Walk tall

When was the last time you thought about how you walk? If you're unusually tall, and especially if you're a woman, it's possible you've unconsciously adopted a kind of stoop, in order to compensate for your height. Chances are you don't even realize you're doing it. Regardless of your height, though, think for a moment about the way you stand and walk. Are you aware of having a straight back and a relaxed gait, or do you never think about it?

Take a walk around your home or office, and be aware of how your body is moving. If you're wearing high heels, slip them off, and walk in your stockinged feet. High heels are, of course, one of the worst offenders when it comes to throwing your posture out of whack. High shoes tend to pitch the top half of your body forward, as it naturally realigns itself to keep its balance.

As you walk around, try lifting your head until you're looking straight ahead of you, with a relaxed neck and shoulders. Press your shoulders backwards so that your chest is pushed out, and straighten your spine so that you are standing straight, but not too stiffly. You'll notice as you try out this new walk in the privacy of your home or office that you suddenly feel more energetic and confident.

Once you see the difference between slouching along, and striding out, looking directly and confidently at the world, you will want to make a permanent change in the posture you adopt when standing and walking.

Sit straight

What can yo do about posture problems if you sit in front of a computer screen all day? This situation tends to produce one of two extreme conditions. Firstly, it's all too easy to slump like a couch potato when you've been in the same position for hours on end. If you find that you frequently slide down in your chair until your head is almost ready to rest on the edge of your desk, it's time to take action.

As your body has been slouched in your chair, it's likely that your back and neck have been taking the strain of your rounded shoulders and unnatural seating position. Stand up and have a brisk walk around the office. Stop for a drink of water or coffee, have a chat with a colleague and generally rev up your energy a few points, until you feel refreshed enough to sit down again.

You may fall into the second category of poor seating posture. If you've been typing frantically, or focusing intently on paperwork for a considerable length of time, just check how high your shoulders are sitting and how stiff how your neck feels. Many people don't notice that, as they sit still for long periods and their bodies become increasingly rigid and tense, their shoulders become surprisingly raised.

This seated posture represents the opposite problem to the slouching position just described. Both positions, however, place enormous stress on the back and neck. If you find your body adopting the rigid, tense posture while you're seated, take a couple of deep breaths, and relax your muscles as you exhale. Gently rotate your neck, looking from side to side, and roll your shoulders a couple of times to relax your muscles.

Stretch out

Whether you experience such posture problems at home or at work, some simple stretching exercises can really make a difference to the way your body feels, and remind you to take the time to relax. Try some of these.

Take off your shoes if you are wearing high heels, and stand with your feet flat on the floor, about shoulder width apart. Extend both arms to your left and stretch your body gently but fully in that direction. Relax. Repeat the exercise, this time reaching to the right. Now reach with both hands up towards the ceiling, continuing to look straight ahead. Really reach as hard and as high as you can, extending the stretch until you are standing up on your toes.

This one is very good for relaxing sore neck and shoulder muscles that have been strained by poor posture. First move your head slowly to the left, and hold it for a couple of seconds. Roll your head forward, looking down at your chest, until you are looking towards the right. Be careful not to make any sudden, jerky moves, which will strain your neck muscles further. Repeat this gentle rolling and stretching motion a few more times, until your neck muscles feel more relaxed.

Shoulder rolls are also effective remedies for muscles strained by incorrect posture. Make gentle "windmills" with your arms, in a backwards direction, five or six times. Repeat the rolls, this time rotating your arms forward. Finish off by inhaling deeply, and shrugging your shoulders as high as you can, slowly and thoroughly. Relax, dropping your shoulders back to their natural level, and exhale fully.

You may find that correcting your posture has other benefits, too. As you begin to stand tall with your shoulders back, a natural side-effect is to hold in your stomach-muscles, which will give you a slimmer silhouette. You may also start to have more energy, as you lose the fatigue brought on by slumping, and the feelings of anxiety connected with all-over tension.

these are awesome tips.

[Joanne]

^ Wow, you're bringing back a bunch of old threads...


Anyways, my sister had the same problem about 9 years ago. My mom had to constantly remind her to sit/stand up straight. My mom eventually told my sister that if she didn't straighten up soon, she'd get her a backbrace. My sister hasn't really slouched since.

[thatonegirl143]

i occasionally find myself slouching too..no one else tells me about it tho..i just notice in pictures or while im sitting here i notice..then i just push myself straight back in my chair && sit like that for a bit hahaha. my body eventually got used to it..i just do it when i catch myself now. LoL.