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 Jul 4 2005, 03:17 PM
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alright lets say that a friend you cared about (as a friend and nothing more)started liking you.Everyone else notices except me cuz im dense like that.
then he starts hanging around you alot. i mean alot. then you find out he likes you. at this point you're getting pretty annoyed cuz he comes whenever u're tryin to have a conversation with someone else. u tell him u need some space. he says okay and for a while it's all good.then he starts ignoring u. can u still save the friendship or should u just let it go? 
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Jul 4 2005, 04:00 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Best thing to do is to talk to him about it and tell him you don't want to be in a relationship with him but still be friends.
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Jul 4 2005, 05:42 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he's backing off and ignoring you because he thought that you got annoyed with him and don't want him around you anymore.
talk to him about it, tell him that it's alright to hang around each other once in a while not all the time. or maybe that you don't want to start anything with him just yet. but you should def. save the friendship |
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Jul 4 2005, 05:48 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
tell him the truth. you dont like him but you would still want to be friends. maybe when you said to give you a little space you gave him the wrong idea.
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Jul 5 2005, 12:32 AM
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 :] Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 |
well you obvously dont like him
and you <b>never</b> giv up on friendships especially cuz this guy is like a good friend of urs or watev so all i can say is talk to him about it tell him how much you care for him more as a friend and nothing more |
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Jul 5 2005, 12:41 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,769 |
you should tell him your feeling.
let him know that you feel annoying and sad about this. if he is a real friend, he will care about your feeling and change himself. |
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Jul 5 2005, 12:49 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Agree with Mizz Rizza. Don't ever give up on a friendship. It's never worth it.
Like everyone else said, the problem is miscommunication. GO TALK TO HIM. |
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Jul 5 2005, 03:56 AM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
No. It's hard. That's happened to me before and I was seriously uncomfortable and annoyed.
I let go of him. No way would I go out with my guy friend who isn't the least bit attractive. No siree bob. |
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Jul 5 2005, 06:45 AM
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 pish stick! Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,033 |
yes, your right, tell him that you need space and voice out everything you want to tell him.. don't mind it that much, just go with the flow. ;-)
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Jul 5 2005, 07:34 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, that happened to me too; except I was the one ignoring my friend that liked me. And we didn't talk for about a year, until he finally initated some conversation. And now we're good friends again. So I do think it can be fixed. Just talk to him about it.
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Jul 5 2005, 08:17 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Communication is key.
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Jul 5 2005, 09:10 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
its hard, but really you have to turn him down hard so he understands that you dont like him, and just let time heal. eventually he'll come back&be friends.. hopefully.
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Jul 6 2005, 01:58 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,138 |
wow... thnx for all the advice. i really needed some.
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