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i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness
michelle_07
post Jul 2 2005, 09:45 PM
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if you always have bags under your eyes you could try this:
take a really cold spoon [like one that's been in the freezer for a while] and hold it on your eyelids. i think that's supposed to help. getting the right amount of sleep always helps too. plus, you're not cranky and it might make you feel better.
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 09:43 AM
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for your thighs, i would suggest you start working out, my dad started working out everyday, and he lost like 30 lbs- so start working out on a treadmill (if you have one) or just go on a diet
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 12:13 PM
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when you talk about your self i dont think that your helping your self feel better about how you look i'm shure not every one thinks ur ugly and they probly have worst and that you should be thank ful for i'm shure you dont look as bad as you say "put a smile along" biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 12:39 PM
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Join the club, hun. My self-esteem isn't too high, either.

When I want to feel pretty, I just relax myself - like taking a really long bubble bath, do my nails or experiment with makeup. Or go to a spa.
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 01:48 PM
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yeah, its not whats on the outside, hun. its the inside.

if ur nice, caring, honest, and sweet, UGLY does NOT compare to your PERSONALITY. no matter what. PERIOD
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 03:27 PM
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dont worry, a lot of people feel that way about theirselves. really, it doesnt matter because nobody would really say anything to your face; or no one would like them :)
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 03:53 PM
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your personality means 13489735982732x much better than your outer appearance =] if you need to talk im always here for you haha *hugs* things will get better if you dont think about it.
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 04:13 PM
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Go on sloganizer.net, it'll boost your self esteem.
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 08:33 PM
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well you can do leg work outs. if you aren't happy with the way you look you can change it. i don't mean plastic surgery or anything. just simple work outs. and maybe something to get your self esteem up. you sound very pretty tho! good luck. _smile.gif
 
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post Jul 3 2005, 08:56 PM
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Yeah I have a low self esteem. A really low one, actually but WTH, your signature says hotter than your mom.
 
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post Jul 4 2005, 12:01 AM
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Aww, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't say that about yourself, you're putting yourself down! You need a big ego builder!

Maybe you can try using some makeup if you don't think your pretty? And if your worried about your body weight, maybe you can talk to your parents about joining in the local gym or go jogging on your own if they won't pay the money for you.
 
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post Jul 4 2005, 12:06 AM
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I felt (feel?) that way.... and did soemthing very bad...i tried to make myself seem as ugly to others as I felt. (I couldn't stand being told how cute or pretty I was from adults when ii said how ugly i felt). I don't think ne1 can help you....you can learn stuff to help yourself. Ask for help if you need it.
 
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post Jul 4 2005, 12:07 AM
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If you're really unhappy with your appearance.. Do something about it. Excercise. Eat right. Go help other people.
 
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post Jul 4 2005, 12:08 AM
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I agree with the idea that you look in the mirror a lot, and you get used to what you see. Try doing something new, like putting your hair up different, or doing your makeup different. Just once. You don't even have to be going anywhere. When you change one little thing it will make you see several things differently.

Also: I think big legs are attractive in a way. I don't mean having cellulite hanging off you, but size alone is nothing to complain about. I have really big thighs, and I adore them. People tell me I have sexy legs all the time. Just make sure they're in good shape, and it doesn't matter how big they are.

I also think it's a good suggestion to write down your good qualities. Try to think about each and every facet of your body individually. Divide and conquer, right?

You might want to do the same thing with your personality traits. Feeling good about the kind of person you are reflects on the way you feel about your appearance. It sounds weird, but it's true.
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 04:08 AM
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QUOTE(nyctophiliac @ Jul 2 2005, 1:28 PM)
If you're so ugly, then why do you have "Hotter than your mom" in your sig?
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2 reasons:
1: its a joke with my friend
2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 07:08 AM
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first of all,
you should be more confident about yourself.
don't always feel that you are ugly.

then,
you can make up and dress up yourself.
you can ask the opinion of your friends about these.
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 07:10 AM
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dont even say that, youre probably drop dead gorgeous but you dont even realize it. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 07:16 AM
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You should't put yourself down so much. I'm sure that everyone isn't happy with themselves, because no one is perfect. It's just a part of life. I know that I'm not the best looking guy on the block. But as long as I can still be happy with who I am I don't really care.
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 10:24 AM
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eh. I could understand how you feel. I'm just a really self concious person and I ususally feel insecure with myself.
 
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post Jul 6 2005, 11:08 AM
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right now im going through a phase where i need to get rid of every zit i have on my face to make me feel pretty


a'djasd[asd i hate it....
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 08:24 AM
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QUOTE
some days i think im really ugly.. but then others im like "wow im actually not that bad looking"

its a phase and ull grow out of it eventually... just learn to love what u look like and ull be fine.


damn i feel the same way sometimes.

yeah, dont worry about it.
just drink lots of water, exercise, and get plenty of rest.
besides, if youre so hot, every guy will love you for the wrong reasons & it wont be true love. & if looks were the only thing that kept you guys together, what will happen when it's gone?

BEAUTY FADES!

so dont wish for beauty, it's only temporary.
be grateful for what you have.
at least youre not blind, missing an arm, or anything like that that unfortunate people out there have.
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 09:33 AM
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QUOTE(takeapolaroid__x @ Jul 6 2005, 4:08 AM)
2 reasons:
1: its a joke with my friend
2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.
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Now that is ugly.

You know how it feels to feel ugly and imperfect. You hurt. Why would you want to hurt someone else by saying that she's ugly?
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 10:23 AM
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This happens to a lot of teenage girls. It's just low self confidence. You should be happy with what you have. Don't take your body for granted. There is always some one who wishes they were you. There is always some one who thinks you're beautiful.
If you really think you're that bad looking start working out, getting more sleep, eat healthy, and drink plenty of water.
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 01:32 PM
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You are still young, and once you get out of the awkward teen years you will see yourself differently. I never liked how I looked when I was in high school, but I love the way I look now. wub.gif
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 04:18 PM
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sometime i feel like that...you need to go on a diet and put on make-up or work on your self-esteem
 

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