i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness |
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i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness |
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,849 ![]() |
if you always have bags under your eyes you could try this:
take a really cold spoon [like one that's been in the freezer for a while] and hold it on your eyelids. i think that's supposed to help. getting the right amount of sleep always helps too. plus, you're not cranky and it might make you feel better. |
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![]() i'm an abercrombie girl ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,515 ![]() |
for your thighs, i would suggest you start working out, my dad started working out everyday, and he lost like 30 lbs- so start working out on a treadmill (if you have one) or just go on a diet
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#28
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![]() Love_101_213 ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 ![]() |
when you talk about your self i dont think that your helping your self feel better about how you look i'm shure not every one thinks ur ugly and they probly have worst and that you should be thank ful for i'm shure you dont look as bad as you say "put a smile along"
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yerp! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 ![]() |
Join the club, hun. My self-esteem isn't too high, either.
When I want to feel pretty, I just relax myself - like taking a really long bubble bath, do my nails or experiment with makeup. Or go to a spa. |
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#30
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,466 ![]() |
yeah, its not whats on the outside, hun. its the inside.
if ur nice, caring, honest, and sweet, UGLY does NOT compare to your PERSONALITY. no matter what. PERIOD |
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![]() lick me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 ![]() |
dont worry, a lot of people feel that way about theirselves. really, it doesnt matter because nobody would really say anything to your face; or no one would like them :)
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#32
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![]() strawberry pocky <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 164,885 ![]() |
your personality means 13489735982732x much better than your outer appearance =] if you need to talk im always here for you haha *hugs* things will get better if you dont think about it.
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*chaneun* |
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Go on sloganizer.net, it'll boost your self esteem.
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![]() Yates ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150 ![]() |
well you can do leg work outs. if you aren't happy with the way you look you can change it. i don't mean plastic surgery or anything. just simple work outs. and maybe something to get your self esteem up. you sound very pretty tho! good luck.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 ![]() |
Yeah I have a low self esteem. A really low one, actually but WTH, your signature says hotter than your mom.
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![]() :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,234 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,496 ![]() |
Aww, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't say that about yourself, you're putting yourself down! You need a big ego builder!
Maybe you can try using some makeup if you don't think your pretty? And if your worried about your body weight, maybe you can talk to your parents about joining in the local gym or go jogging on your own if they won't pay the money for you. |
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![]() Fake, liar, cheat ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 164,846 ![]() |
I felt (feel?) that way.... and did soemthing very bad...i tried to make myself seem as ugly to others as I felt. (I couldn't stand being told how cute or pretty I was from adults when ii said how ugly i felt). I don't think ne1 can help you....you can learn stuff to help yourself. Ask for help if you need it.
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![]() Call me Lauren d=] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 ![]() |
If you're really unhappy with your appearance.. Do something about it. Excercise. Eat right. Go help other people.
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I agree with the idea that you look in the mirror a lot, and you get used to what you see. Try doing something new, like putting your hair up different, or doing your makeup different. Just once. You don't even have to be going anywhere. When you change one little thing it will make you see several things differently.
Also: I think big legs are attractive in a way. I don't mean having cellulite hanging off you, but size alone is nothing to complain about. I have really big thighs, and I adore them. People tell me I have sexy legs all the time. Just make sure they're in good shape, and it doesn't matter how big they are. I also think it's a good suggestion to write down your good qualities. Try to think about each and every facet of your body individually. Divide and conquer, right? You might want to do the same thing with your personality traits. Feeling good about the kind of person you are reflects on the way you feel about your appearance. It sounds weird, but it's true. |
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blame it on the parents. </33 ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,046 ![]() |
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first of all,
you should be more confident about yourself. don't always feel that you are ugly. then, you can make up and dress up yourself. you can ask the opinion of your friends about these. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,038 ![]() |
dont even say that, youre probably drop dead gorgeous but you dont even realize it.
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#43
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,912 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,527 ![]() |
You should't put yourself down so much. I'm sure that everyone isn't happy with themselves, because no one is perfect. It's just a part of life. I know that I'm not the best looking guy on the block. But as long as I can still be happy with who I am I don't really care.
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![]() Kermit the frog = <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 ![]() |
eh. I could understand how you feel. I'm just a really self concious person and I ususally feel insecure with myself.
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![]() SCHGEB!SCHGEB! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 ![]() |
right now im going through a phase where i need to get rid of every zit i have on my face to make me feel pretty
a'djasd[asd i hate it.... |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 ![]() |
QUOTE some days i think im really ugly.. but then others im like "wow im actually not that bad looking" its a phase and ull grow out of it eventually... just learn to love what u look like and ull be fine. damn i feel the same way sometimes. yeah, dont worry about it. just drink lots of water, exercise, and get plenty of rest. besides, if youre so hot, every guy will love you for the wrong reasons & it wont be true love. & if looks were the only thing that kept you guys together, what will happen when it's gone? BEAUTY FADES! so dont wish for beauty, it's only temporary. be grateful for what you have. at least youre not blind, missing an arm, or anything like that that unfortunate people out there have. |
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![]() Quand j'étais jeune... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 ![]() |
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![]() Residential Crazy Child ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 ![]() |
This happens to a lot of teenage girls. It's just low self confidence. You should be happy with what you have. Don't take your body for granted. There is always some one who wishes they were you. There is always some one who thinks you're beautiful.
If you really think you're that bad looking start working out, getting more sleep, eat healthy, and drink plenty of water. |
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![]() Quinntastic ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,228 ![]() |
You are still young, and once you get out of the awkward teen years you will see yourself differently. I never liked how I looked when I was in high school, but I love the way I look now.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 ![]() |
sometime i feel like that...you need to go on a diet and put on make-up or work on your self-esteem
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