Love Confusion? Options

[sweet_kisses_ox]

Okay so this is what happened and I dont know what to do...:
So I went to this camp and I met a lot of good friends and a few guys. And I met this one guy and we talked and I lied down on his lap and like we laughed and he makes fun of me and I make fun of him. Anyways we were leaving the next day and I go home and than go online and I talk to him and I tell him I like him (he has a girlfriend) and he says haha I like you too, sorry but youre not the girl I love though. And so I say yeah I understand. Than afterwards I noticed that he talks and communicates with me more than his girlfriend and so I tell him online I feel bad cuz everytime I talk to you I fall for you deeper and I also feel bad cuz you have a girlfriend. He just laughs and says Its okay as long as we dont make out or something cuz I want to stay with my girlfriend for a long time. So than I said but I dont feel alright with this and than we get into this huge fight and than I ask him, Do you really like me? Or did you say that cuz I told you I liked you? And he answers Nah I like you as a Really Close Friend. And Im just in shock and saying wth?! And than he gets all touchy and says so you want me to dump my girlfriend to go out with you? And I just say I never said that and than he talks to me like nothing ever happened the last 30 mins. And now Im really confused.......I asked him today to tell me why he said he ever liked me if he never did and he says I said that? I dont remember saying that? Did I really? And than I said How do you NOT remember?! And than he says Oh right I remember, Ill tell you later. And Im just so confused what do I do? I still Really like him. Help me please?

[Xprezsion]

Hmm well you're in a tough spot. I don't think you should necessarily break this guy up with his girlfriend, if he really like you more than her, he will break up with her and go out with you. For now, I guess you guys could remain close friends and try to keep it not so awkward. Goodluck.

[aznhunnie6o1]

This should go in relationships. Don't make a new topic in relationships though, just wait for a mod to move it.

Well.. he has a girlfriend... You shouldn't ruin there relationship, so just.. try to avoid him or something since you fall deeper for him everytime you talk to him. Find a new guy? That doesn't have a girlfriend?

Sorry that was bad advice but I couldn't think of anything else.

[iheartsimba]

Moved to Relationships.

[dahding]

when he said, "i like you too", are u sure that he meant it as, "i like the same way u like me" or was it more of, "i like you as a friend"? maybe it's a communication problem or something. and why would u be so shocked? he has a girlfriend, and u two are good friends, so it shouldn't really be so surprising. maybe ur just believing and interpreting things one way because u want to hear it that way.. cause it seems like he wasn't playing around with ur feelings, but rather, he was just taking it in a light mood.

i think that he only meant that he liked u as a friend. miscommunication as usual. best thing to do is maybe a little distance from him, but don't cut him off, and try to get over him. lust after some other guy, and maybe it'll help u get over him.

hope it all works out..

[topsyturvy]

maybe ur just believing and interpreting things one way because u want to hear it that way..

^ Agree with that.

If you knew he had a gf, why did you continue to "like him" in the first place?

He made it clear that he won't give up his gf for you. So i guess you should forget him.

[_sarcastic_]

^she probably found out after she liked him and told him.

he already has a gf, so i don't think you should bother him anymore, he already told you he wants to spend a long time with her, so find someone else and he's told you that he likes you as a really good friend, it's actually better than nothing

[SimplicityGirl]

I was in a similar situation...only for me, the guy didn't have a girlfriend. He had a girl that he was after.

I told him that I liked him...but failed to mention that I like him more than just regular friends. He took it as "I like you as a normal friend" so he replied with a "I like you too". Of course, I believed that he liked him and thought that we had a chance at being bf/gf. However, as I found out from my friends, who found out from his close friends, that he only liked me as a good friend, and not in the same way that I liked him. So I confronted him, and we had a long talk about it, and in the end, we ended up laughing over it because it was pretty funny afterwards.

As for you, I think that when he said that he liked you, he meant it as the "I like you in the close friend type of way, not the girlfriend way" And he did tell you that he likes you as a Really Close Friend...and you know, he might be joking around when he said that he likes you. I don't know, but he might be saying it just to please you, because that's what you want to hear from him. I wouldn't break him up with his girlfriend, but I definitely would have a serious talk with him just to see how things are.

And remember, even if you can't be bf/gf with him, sometimes, the best relationship between a girl and a guy is being just friends and I found out the hard way this year.

Sorry if the advice isn't that great =S

[CrazayChristian]

Sounds like a teasing prick.

Or just a guy who thinks of you as a good friend. (Amazing how these two blend together)

He sounds like he kind of likes you, but his real feelings are with his girlfriend. He also doesn't know what actual "Love" is, because he is feeling for other people. He shouldn't have let it get so far as to say "I like you", he screwed up and it sounds like he's starting to figure that out. He's stalling to make an excuse or hes running away completely.

[SSJ Kenshin]

Okay so this is what happened and I dont know what to do...:
So I went to this camp and I met a lot of good friends and a few guys. And I met this one guy and we talked and I lied down on his lap and like we laughed and he makes fun of me and I make fun of him. Anyways we were leaving the next day and I go home and than go online and I talk to him and I tell him I like him (he has a girlfriend) and he says haha I like you too, sorry but youre not the girl I love though. And so I say yeah I understand. Than afterwards I noticed that he talks and communicates with me more than his girlfriend and so I tell him online I feel bad cuz everytime I talk to you I fall for you deeper and I also feel bad cuz you have a girlfriend. He just laughs and says Its okay as long as we dont make out or something cuz I want to stay with my girlfriend for a long time. So than I said but I dont feel alright with this and than we get into this huge fight and than I ask him, Do you really like me? Or did you say that cuz I told you I liked you? And he answers Nah I like you as a Really Close Friend. And Im just in shock and saying wth?! And than he gets all touchy and says so you want me to dump my girlfriend to go out with you? And I just say I never said that and than he talks to me like nothing ever happened the last 30 mins. And now Im really confused.......I asked him today to tell me why he said he ever liked me if he never did and he says I said that? I dont remember saying that? Did I really? And than I said How do you NOT remember?! And than he says Oh right I remember, Ill tell you later. And Im just so confused what do I do? I still Really like him. Help me please?

*Takes a slow, deep breath*

Ooohhh, AWKWARD!!

[nerdxcore]

i think he feels uncomfortable with the situation... because he's acting like he doesnt remember telling you that he likes you. maybe he's scared that he might actually like you more than his girlfriend. i don't know. but if i were you i would remain good friends with him. another guy will come along and get your mind off this guy.