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 Jun 26 2005, 05:16 PM
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my bf has been really overprotective lately, whenever i talk to my guy friends online he always asks me what i'm talking to them about or are the my ex. and the thing that really bugs me is then whenever i'm out with my friends (mostly girlfriends) he wants me to call him every 2 hours. he makes sure that i stay away from any guys when i'm with him.
it's driving me insane at times, i don't know what to do. are any of your bfs like that? 
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Jun 30 2005, 03:27 PM
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it kinda sounds like he's scared of yoo not wantin him nemore... i had dis bf whos like dis..but now hes mi friend...so ..yeahh y dont yoo talk to him aobut it?! ^^
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Jun 30 2005, 03:34 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Hm.. Your boyfriend's just a bit paranoid. Which means he cares for you a lot, maybe too much. It's good thing you talked to him about it. I wouldn't be able to stand it if he were breathing down my neck like that.
Don't dump him though. He really cares about you and doesn't want to lose you. Splitting up with him would totally crush the poor soul. |
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Jun 30 2005, 06:43 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
thats freaky. set it striahgt with him. tell him to give you room. cause its only going to get worser if you dont talk to him about it.
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Jun 30 2005, 08:01 PM
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^i already did, he's slowly backing off.
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 30 2005, 3:34 PM) Don't dump him though. He really cares about you and doesn't want to lose you. Splitting up with him would totally crush the poor soul.  i agree, i wasn't gonna dump him anyways |
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Jul 1 2005, 09:07 AM
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 ♠Olivia Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,403 |
My boyfriend is kind of like that but once I talked to him about it, it seemed to get better. We've been together for five years and we don't want to lose each other so it happens sometimes when we aren't together or not on the phone. A relationship is better with trust.
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Jul 4 2005, 07:59 PM
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i think that you need to talk it over with him
simple as that :] |
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Jul 6 2005, 02:31 AM
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well first off i completely understand how your bf feels.
with me n my bf...im the more protective one..i get jelous when he talks to other girls our age..but at the same time im proud that all these girls think he's nice. but im only like that because i REALLY CARE about him ALOT, but im just never sure if he cares bout me the way i care about him..so im like in need of CONSTANT reeassurance. it bugs me that hes like so UNDERPROTECTIVE... but i say the only reason he's like that is becuase he care about you alot and he's not sure if you feel the same way. if you tell him that you care about him n stuff more often to reassure him, n nagotiate with him to go easy. sweet talk him..it always works. good luck n keep us posted. |
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Jul 15 2005, 11:51 PM
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damn.what an a-hole.
tell him to stop being so stupid |
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Jul 17 2005, 07:20 PM
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 emaleth Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,513 |
he's just over-protective because he has insecurities about himself and the relationship. he needs to build up his own confidence before pursuing future ones i believe.
i used to have a boyfriend like that. he expected HOURLY calls..and it's really unfair. your boyfriend should embrace whoever you hang out with...it's called TRUST 
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