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post Jun 22 2005, 02:55 PM
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I CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE. I'M GOING INSANE.
i just really need to let it out for someone else to see [besides my xanga]

if you like my style, thank you.
if you love my style, thank you very much.
if you like my personality and wish you were more like me, i'm very flattered.
however, if you love my personality and you try to take my identity / orginality, fucken don't.

this one girl's bugging me bcuz she's doing the last thing. me and her hardly even talk yet she thinks that since we made up [we used to have a rocky past], she can do it. she's trying to be more of a hiphop head.. it's just not right when in reality, you don't know anything about it. and i'm sorry but your boyfriend can never be like my boyfriend. you can't make him into something you want.

and please stop stealing my ideas. if you talked to me and actually weren't so fake about being nice to me, i'd respect you more. but the 'oh i love your style.. the way you write is so beautiful' things don't work anymore.

i'm sorry, hun. i can't understand why you have to get your ideas from other people such as me. i put my heart and soul into the things that i create [especially my writing]. you can't just steal somebody's soul and make it your own.


has anybody felt this way? i feel like this girl's trying to take away my identity. it's not cool at all.
 
 
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jue
post Jun 22 2005, 03:19 PM
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my expierience is really alike to yours but i had a friend who tried to be friends with people she dont know and trying ot be friends with my friends friends. And kepy biting off of me. Tell that girl how you feel.
 
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post Jun 22 2005, 03:40 PM
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Yah, I've felt this way before, that's when I got the shirt "I don't need your friends, I've got my own" Haha.
 
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post Jun 22 2005, 03:50 PM
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Eh, I was something like this myself. But that was then, and I changed. I learned to be individual. I think you should tell her, she's never gonna know what's she's doing if you don't.
 
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post Jun 22 2005, 03:59 PM
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Yeah. it happens to me for 2 years ever since i've became a friend w/ that wannabe since 2 years ago. No matter how individual i am, people just jock ..
 
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post Jun 22 2005, 08:26 PM
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tell her how you feel
 
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post Jun 23 2005, 11:48 PM
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i HATE HATE HATE it. i've had this problem with some of my CLOSE friends, too. it's hard for me to trust people now.

talk with them. it helps. it did for me.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 03:47 PM
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I have had that happen before. I hate it as well. But trust is something that is earned, and I don't think that person earned it.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 09:50 AM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jun 22 2005, 8:26 PM)
tell her how you feel
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yea I understand what you mean, some of my friends are like that, they are all clingy and they steal my style and my phrases and stuff. Yea talk to that person and maybe they will get how angry it's making you and perhaps stop. Goodluck.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 03:33 PM
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I know how you feel. I've had this problem with friends before. I talked to them about it. Communication is key in a friendship.. in any relationship for that matter. And, it's about all you can do.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 06:45 PM
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set it straight with the girl my friend Jue [rawrxd] is right we had a friend like that and it bugged me.
 
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post Jul 1 2005, 05:41 PM
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one of my friends was like that
just tell her how you feel
 

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