what do u 1st look for in a guy??, im talkin wit my friends n it came up... |
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 Jun 19 2005, 08:16 PM
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yea.... the description says everything..... what do you first look for in a guy?? i was just talking with my friends and this conversation came up...we actually started arguing about it too though...lo
 l. i'm just wondering people!!
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Jun 19 2005, 09:01 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
Ah, personality is first on my list. They've got to be kind, not perverted too much would be nice, and they have to be funny!
Looks are totally a bonus. But of course, I'd love to have those good looks mixed the personality...who doesn't? Well, that's the gist of why I like this guy now. He has all of those qualities. 
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Jun 19 2005, 09:19 PM
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personality...then looks
1. Has to be funny 2. Has be smart but doesn't have to be super smart 3. Has to be nice 4. Has a lot of [guy]friends 5. Has to be cute and maybe hot |
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Jun 19 2005, 09:55 PM
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 Yates Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150 |
well... if im looking at him i'm going to notice his hair first. lol. and then if he seems like a pretty cool guy (good personality) then i would want to get to know him more. but if he's a jerk... i'll just admire his looks from a far. lol.
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Jun 20 2005, 12:46 AM
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 biatch Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,321 |
well the looks because when u first meet a guy you dont kno anything bout him, so i would obviously haf to depend on the looks
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Jun 20 2005, 04:59 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Agreed. Without decent looks, we wouldn't be drawn to him in the first place.
 - looks - sense of humor - semi-similar interests - must be sweet  - not fat 
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Jun 20 2005, 05:18 AM
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Must:
1 Older than me 2 Taller than me 3 Not Stupid (Low IQ) Other: 4 Not perverted/too perverted 5 Not fat/too fat uhh... thats all i can think of
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Jun 20 2005, 06:22 AM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
well. he has to have a GREAT personality. then overall looks like he can't be fat, too skinny, nerdy, etc. he has to be older and taller than me (not necessarily years older) then he has to be funny. i love guys that can make me laugh. he has to be fun too, so i won't get bored lols. he has to be sweet, kinda, loving, etc. he has to be smart. but not smarter than me cause then they might get too cocky. and they can't be too too perverted.
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Jun 20 2005, 10:45 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i`m sorry, but he has to have a nice body (six pack).
then i go for personality. i`m so shallow..
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Jun 20 2005, 12:29 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
If he can make me smile, has an pretty nice personality, taller than me, not skinnier than me, looks pretty decent and is somewhat strong (enough to give me, a 95 pound girl, a piggyback ride).
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Jun 20 2005, 01:12 PM
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He has to...
1) Have nice eyes that will make me feel like im drowning 2) NO LONG HAIR! 3) Funny and Fun. A guy that will make me laugh and cheer me up and who I can have fun with 4) Will Kiss, Hug, Cuddle and Say Sweet Things without me needing to ask. TAKE THE INITIATIVE! 5) Isn't scared to treat me nicely in front of his friends 6) Won't quit our planned-such-a-long-time-ago-and-totally-looking-forward-to-date or stay at his/my house because his friends suddenly thought they should go play soccer or football. PLEASE!!! You love me, REMEMBER??? 7) A Good Personality 8) Honest 9) NO COCKINESS! 10) Will tell me when I am doing something wrong but in a good way and will tell me how to improve Can't think of more, I'll add if I can remember |
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Jun 20 2005, 01:25 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
I look for personality then looks.
If that guy is shy, but friendly once you get to know him, he's my type. If that guy's conceited and is two-faced, nahhh. I want a guy who's mysterious. Not VERY mysterious though, or else I wouldn't get to know him well. I'd like a guy who would go out of his way to do little things that'd make me happy. [No, not buy me things. Just saying 'hi' when he sees me, or abandons his group of friends to hang out with me.] And if he's average-looking, but has an awesome personality, then I'd date him.  But I'm too young for dating, IMO. 13. Jeez.
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Jun 20 2005, 01:35 PM
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eyes. definitely. im a sucker for intense eyes.
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Jun 20 2005, 01:58 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Personality. I don't really care much about looks.
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Jun 20 2005, 02:06 PM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
i seriously go by looks when i first see a guy (come on who doesnt) im mean yeah sure if i know someone for a while and then decided i like them i wouldnt go by looks then. also i like them to be..
-cool -smart (to a point at least) -funny and interesting -skinny (eh i dont pick this one on purpose, just seems like the kinda guys i like) |
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Jun 20 2005, 02:43 PM
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The personality. I had a crush on this one guy but the more I got to know him I was disgusted because he was really mean to everyone and rude. Even if the person is attractive, without a good personality it means nothing.
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 20 2005, 02:56 PM
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The first thing on my list is his personality, but more specifically, whether he's straight edge or not. Heh. Don't want a repeat of my last boyfriend.
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| *suddenly she* |
Jun 20 2005, 03:01 PM
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guys that seem to reek creativity and intelligence. and mild politeness.
by mild politeness i mean some guy who's not going to try and force you through a door he opened. i like opening my own doors. |
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Jun 20 2005, 06:35 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
his hair, then lips, and then his personality. lol I probably sound really shallow right now..oh yeah and if hes cute. =] x] I'm only human.
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Jun 20 2005, 09:29 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
great eyes...
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Jun 20 2005, 09:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Honestly (and there is reasoning behind this) the very first thing I look for is style. Looks aren't a huge thing for me, I mean, if a guy is terrible looking, I take that as a sign of how he takes care of himself. And When I say terrible, I don't mean his actual features, but, if he is very overweight, or isn't very clean looking.
Now, the reason I look for style first, is because you generally have to see someone before you can get to know them. This is thinking logically. Before you get to talk to him, would you rather base him on things he cant control so much (i.e., facial structure, eye color), or the way he chooses to present himself? Naturally, after that, I look for a sense of humor. And then it sort of falls into place, or doesn't. |
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Jun 21 2005, 12:43 AM
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i look at his smile.. .:D
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Jun 21 2005, 10:45 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
His personality and I guess his looks too.
1.) Has to have a great personality. 2.) Has to have humor. 3.) I guess...it would be nice if he was cute too. 4.) Thoughtful and sweet. |
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Jun 22 2005, 03:01 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
The first thing I notice is a guys hair. He has to be funny and smart. Must be a Yankee's fan and support womens lib (and basket ball teams-you wouldn't believe how many guys in my school think the WNBA is bull). He's got to be smart...or at least have some common sense.
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Jun 22 2005, 05:52 PM
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smart guy, with a good personality, who'll make me laugh
and i'm happy |
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