dealing with single-ness, ..when all ur friends hav a bf/gf Options

[DizzyDucky09]

thts the same with me!! Everyone i see has a bf/gf and im juss like... yea it makes me sad so i feel ya

[literemix24]

Either talk to your friends and plan a get together, or get a bf. OR You can hang out w/ your single friends. lol

[muffingirlsays]

I used to feel like that.

Solution number ONE: Get a boyfriend But you shouldn't rush or let anyone (especially yourself) pressure youself to get one.

Solution number TWO: DO SOMETHING. This is the solution I used to get those feelings/thoughts out of my head. Join after-school clubs, if you have a pet, spend more time with it, get a hobby, or do what I'm doing: Go on a fiction site and write stories xD

[yOUCANtSEEmE]

i totally know how you feel. i mean im all for being independent (i mean i broke up with previous boyfriends because i wanted to be more independent) and not needing a boyfriend to be happy but there are those times when you just need the feeling of being "in love" or "in like"... i actually feel that way right now. whenever i hang out with my best friend her boyfriend comes around. dont get me wrong im totally cool with her boyfriend. were all 3 like great friends. he is bomb and im so happy she found a good boyfriend this time but when they start getting all lovey dovey i just get sort of sad and uncomfortable.
there is one guy ive had my eye on. he is friends with my best friends boyfriend and sort of with my best friend too. he actually said he really wants to hang out with me and my best friend and her boyfriend but theres one problem. i tend to go for the bad guys... hes one. id be trying to make plans with him right now but hes grounded for quite a while too (well it was quite a while i think its almost over). i dont know exactly when he gets ungrounded so i have to wait for him to call me but im so impatient.

so no solution really works for me.

[funky_munky]

I kinda understand how you feel...
All the girls in my group of friends has been asked out before or has had a boyfriend before except for me. I'm nearly 18 and I still have never been asked out before.... I used to feel like a complete loser and that there was something wrong with me but I guess the way I got over these feelings is by talking to my friends.
Let them know how you feel and I'm sure they will understand! It really helps too.
Just don't go get a boyfriend becuase you need one... don't rush yourself!

Sorry... I'm good at giving advice... sorry if it doesn't make sense

[Boyfriendless]

OH MY GOD! WELCOME TO MY LIFE!
all my friends have had like 10 millin bfs, Iv never actually gone out or anything!

[redpeony]

You shouldn't have gone:p

Or bring along another single friend to accompany you

You seem pretty young as well...
focus on developing yourself as a person first and foremost... and when you've developed enough, a boyfriend will show up ;)

[Mith]

Like other people said, talk to your friends if its really bothering you. They invite you along because they want to hang out with all their friends, their boyfriends and you too, and probably don't realize how they are hurting you. Remember that it makes it hard on them if they have to split up their time between boy friend time and girl friend time, and they can't hang out with everyone together. But tell them that it bothers you when they are kissing all the time around you. They should have time alone to do that.

To help with boredom/lonliness, go out and do things related to your interests. Conventions, seminars, clubs, teams, lectures even, hang out in places you like and meet some new people and just go out to meet new friends. You never know, you might even find someone while your enjoying your favourite things to do. Definately though, don't focus on finding that perfect someone - you won't know until you've talked to them and become friends anyways. So go out, relax and enjoy the opportunity to meet new people.

[vampireduster]

i hated that feeling with a passion. it sucked so bad for me
it seemed like all my friends had boyfriends and i didnt. i made a promise to my friends if i have a boyfriend and they dont i will hang out with them alot so they wont feel lonely. we try to go guy hunting

[xoStephie93]

the answers easy: get a boyfriend. but dont get me wrong, don't rush into a relationship just because everyone else has a boyfriend and you dont. then you'd be lying to the person who really does like you...that'd be mean. just take ur time with things...cuz sooner or later, you will have a boyfriend.

[lilliannnn]

I'm ALWAYS a 3rd wheel with my friends, I hate it. I know how you feel though.

[kill me please]

yup i know how that feels... it sucks more when everyone says something about it. dont ya just wish it would all go away. the thing is, when i like a guy then if i cant get him then id rather have no one... thats my problem

[angelshortipnai]

ahhhhhhh i know EXACTLY how u feel! man 4 damn couples got together in our school in ONE DAY. yes, ALL IN ONE DAY. o.o they always hug and kiss and all that stuff while i'm like standing there <_< then MORE couples got together later on -_-" i just try to act normal as i can...and umm, not to hangout wit em as much, 'cause if i did, i'll get jealous everytime