why do people give blow jobs?? (ehhh), i think it sounds gross! Options

[fameONE]

When exploring the pleasures of eroticism, the even exhcange of cunnilingus and fellatio can warrant pleasure for both the performer and recipient.

The recipient is pleasured for obvious reasons. (Woohoo, nerve endings!) But the performer's pleasure and satisfaction will stem from seeing the recipient's pleasure/satisfaction.

Now, this isn't your usual, shameful 'poke a tongue around' sort of thing. This is passionately doing the job (no pun intended) without thinking twice about it.

You could do it because you care about him/her or you could do it primarily for pleasure. Whatever the case; if you do it, do it right and enjoy it.

[edit] Sammi, you can get an STD from receiving fellatio (blowjob just sounds so... ugh, nevermind).

[iheartsimba]

It feels good on the guy. I'm guessing it's either you love him that much, or you want to be cool. I think it's disgusting to! hah. That guy would have to be amazing for me to do that.

[fameONE]

It feels good on the guy. I'm guessing it's either you love him that much, or you want to be cool. I think it's disgusting to! hah. That guy would have to be amazing for me to do that. 

Its similar for guys but guys are much more willing to perform cunnilingus if it leads to a good blowjob.

Have a little fun

[Bobblehead425]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

you can get herpes...but yea that isnt like sex.. i dunno

[XaZnX07]

i hate to post it my self, but i just wanna know. everyone talks about it and i was like yuck! if you want to give him pleasure just feel him and stroke him...uhh..i dont know why i just said that...that was gross!

lmao!!!! haha

i donno why people do it either??? hmm maybe because they just want to do it just to say the did it guess


.:tonY:.

[iheartjohn]

For pleasure. I've done it before, and it's not as gross as they make it sound.

[shushh]

its not that gross....

[fameONE]

its not that gross....

It seems like the ones who think its gross are the ones that aren't ready to embrace sexual freedom.

[iheartjohn]

^^ And you're there to encourage them, right? Hah.

[xxtaintedlips]

oh sorry it took so long for me to respond..i am 15

[biglamchops]

My ex told me that a lot of girls love to give them because it turns them on to know that the guy is enjoying it..and some girls just do it to pleasure their man and didn't really enjoy giving them.

[william]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

STD means sexually transmitted disease..and blowjobs aren't sex.

that's another good thing about giving/getting oral..it's much harder to get pregnant/get STDs from that but it serves the same purpose.

"Unprotected oral sex (without using a condom or other barrier) puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections, whether they are giving or receiving genital stimulation. These infections include gonorrhea, syphilis, chancroid, herpes, hepatitis B, cytomegalovirus, human papilloma virus (HPV), herpes, and, rarely, HIV and chlamydia."
-teenwire.com

yeah.

[sammi rules you]

oh sorry it took so long for me to respond..i am 15

wow..that was unexpected.

i'm also 15, and i've given more than one blowjob. i don't think i should really be having sex at this age quite yet, so it's an alternative to still get the same effect for my boyfriend.

it's really not that bad once you've done it. i have to admit, beforehand, thinking about it, i thought it would be disgusting. and my boyfriend didn't ask me or anything like a horny pig, i just did it. figured "why not?" ..it's not that bad. it's like if you sucked on your arm. (well not exactly of course, but it doesn't..taste any different than any other skin)

it's fine if you don't feel like doing it, but it's not like..gross. you make yourself sound much younger than you are, like a little 3rd grader who's all "ewww cooties!" people have sex and give handjobs and blowjobs, etc. these things happen, even at ages much younger than ours. you have to come to terms with that. it's really not as big of a deal as you're making it out to be.



and true willy, you can, if the guy squirts his load down your throat, but if he doesn't you're at much less of a risk than you are if you have sex or something.

[lilliannnn]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

STD means sexually transmitted disease..and blowjobs aren't sex.

that's another good thing about giving/getting oral..it's much harder to get pregnant/get STDs from that but it serves the same purpose.

you can! you can get herpes.. if he has it on his d*ck, you can get it in your mouth.

[sammi rules you]

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

[xxtaintedlips]

^^ yes u realize that is is not that big of a deal, but well i guess i am just really innocent and stuff. I mean sure i would do it to someone if i loved them and stuff. I just think a hand job is one thing and putting your mouth where your man pees is another. People sometimes wonder why i dont have a boyfriend, and i think i is because i am waiting for just the right person to come along...is this the right thing to do? or is it good to experiment?

[sammi rules you]

you can do whatever you want! if you feel comfortable waiting, then that's fine. no one should push you to be with someone or do anything you don't want to. you should just understand that others do these things, and it's not gross - it's expressing love.

and yes, handjobs are one thing, but my boyfriend actually said that blowjobs are like 1000000 times better. it feels better for them. and it's not like they're actually peeing in your mouth.

if that happened....he'd definitely get a major slap.

[william]

and true willy, you can, if the guy squirts his load down your throat, but if he doesn't you're at much less of a risk than you are if you have sex or something.

yeah, that's true.

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

i think she was reffering to this part of your post:

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

but i could be wrong.

[sammi rules you]

well that was just bad phrasing on my part. sorry for the misunderstanding, y'all.

[HappyHeart]

some people do it because they're drunk. kinda scary

[fameONE]

^^ And you're there to encourage them, right? Hah.

Who me? Of course not! (Unless they want to)

some people do it because they're drunk. kinda scary

Not drinking would solve that problem.

[jue]

its just nasty to me. i dont understand why though; maybe to give there man pleasure. But i mean what if while your giving the man heads and he needs to pee. Then what?

[fameONE]

its just nasty to me. i dont understand why though; maybe to give there man pleasure. But i mean what if while your giving the man heads and he needs to pee. Then what?

How old are you?

[snak3y3z1001]

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

did you know that when a guy has an erection, tiny tiny microscopic blood vessels breaks. you cant see it because its so small. std's can be in the blood ;) lol honestly i learned this a few weeks back in health class. have no clue if thats true. (the breakin of blood vessels part)

[*XLilAznGrl592X*]

omg... i am really dumb... but... wut is a blow job?... yeah... my dumbest question ever..