Boyfriends saying its ok to snog other guys |
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 May 22 2005, 02:31 PM
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Uhmm, no. That's kind of a red flag saying, "HEY! I'VE BEEN SCREWING/MAKING OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS!" BUt I'd probably take advantage of the opportunity.
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May 23 2005, 03:27 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan"  Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
If you like that sort of thing I don't care what you do.
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May 24 2005, 05:43 AM
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haha then it would be time to rethink your relantionship
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Jun 9 2005, 06:51 AM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
No no definately not. When you're in a relationship wih someone you shouldn't go snogging with other guys, it'll just give him areason to break up or to do the same with other girls. I would talk to him if it bothers you this much. And ask him why he said this.
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Jun 9 2005, 11:29 AM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
a total no no
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Jun 9 2005, 11:31 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
He's been snogging, shagging and any other 'ing' with other girls already. Dump him, move on.
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Jun 9 2005, 07:44 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ He might be saying that because he's guilty of doing "those things" with other girls and he wants to say, "Well you can do it too!" I don't know how easy it is for you to just dump him, but I say you have a 1 on 1 with him and get to know him a bit better. If he thinks it's okay for you to snog other guys, maybe he's not ready for a REAL commitment.
It's good that you're not saying, "Oh cool!" and that you're actually analyzing the situation. 
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Jun 9 2005, 07:51 PM
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 Love_101_213 Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 |
Hell to the no thats not okkk
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Jun 10 2005, 02:28 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
what?? ur boyfriend is telling you that it's okay to makeout with other guys? whoa...thats not good. I would def consider dumping this guy. Because if he thinks that it's okay for u to be kissing other guys, then he probably is using that to justify that it's okay for him to be kissing other girls. Why would you want a boyfriend that would want either of those things? yeck! lol very much consider not being in this relationship
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Jun 12 2005, 12:16 PM
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if he says its fine for you to "snog" other guys; it means he is probably snogging other girls. anyway, i voted no cause i would never tell my gf that it was ok to do anything with anyone else but me :) - i trust her so i dont have to worry
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Jun 12 2005, 07:15 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
He's saying that because he just snogged another girl probably. Thats what people do, cover up for what they just did by saying its okay for everyone else to do it..
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Jun 12 2005, 08:22 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(SpedMonkee @ May 16 2005, 4:53 AM) wth?! ur in a relationship and he is telling u its ok to make-out with other people? i dont get that at all...if u really dont like the idea talk to him about it, because to me that sounds really stupid  that is exactly what i was about to say!!! |
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Jun 13 2005, 12:37 AM
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QUOTE(xromanticKISS @ May 16 2005, 12:15 PM) 1) you could talk to him about how you feel. 2) or you break up with him because like this will prolly show that he "snogs" with other girls i totally agree w/ this. This might be true or he was joking. |
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Jun 13 2005, 02:31 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
If you are comfortable with it then go ahead. If not, ask him why he wants you to make out with other boys.
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Jun 14 2005, 03:48 PM
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mmm...he could feel that he's not good enough for you if he says that =\ I say no.
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Jun 14 2005, 10:41 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
He is probably just saying this to you because he wants to "snog" with another girl or already did it. So no!
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Jul 8 2005, 12:07 AM
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snog usually refers to make out, french, ect. (sry if someone else already explained)
hmm to me i think it means he doesnt care about you.. |
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Jul 8 2005, 12:21 AM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
If it means make-out. THEN NO.
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Jul 8 2005, 05:34 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Aha. You must be British. The land of Earl Grey and snogging. "How do you do?"
Lol I say it means he doesn't care, and that means he doesn't love you. |
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Jul 8 2005, 06:33 PM
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often, when we want our bf/gf to do smthn..but we dont wanna tel them we want them to do it. WE do it..and hope that they'd do the same
i think he just wants u to allow him to "snog" with other girls but still..that is just soo wrong in every way possible. |
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Jul 9 2005, 05:25 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Hes probably giving you approval to snog other guys so he won't feel so guilty about snogging other girls. Maybe?
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Jul 9 2005, 08:51 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
maybe hes telling you its okay to snog, because he wants to snog. tell him how you feel. thats really weird tho...
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Jul 14 2005, 12:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
uh NO. That's consider cheating. Feelings might develop & such.
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Jul 14 2005, 01:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions
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Jul 14 2005, 02:51 PM
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Good-Bye. Group: Member Posts: 2,100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 161,149 |
That just weird.
Like Tina said... QUOTE flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions Flirting is totally fine [I guess] but snogging is just plain NO. [Haha I just said what she said] Yes mayb he doesnt love you. I mean you can kiss anyone and a kiss is suposse to be special. |
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