awkward silencez, ..wht 2 do!? |
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 Jun 11 2005, 07:28 AM
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 07 isz coming  Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490  |
hey guys!! i'm going to the movies w/ my bf in 3 hours....and im freaking out. we weren't really close before he asked me out, and usually we have nothingg2 tlk about. its gonna be a 1/2 hour in the car w/ his MOM & SISTER right there... sorta awkward huh?!
 if any of you have anyyy advice on wht 2 do during awkward silences, its greatlyy appreciated!! i've nvr been anywhere w/ this guy b4, so i really wnt it 2 turn out good....  thanks!! ~paige |
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Jun 11 2005, 07:36 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should know something about him since he is your bf. talk about the stuff you have in common or just talk about school
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Jun 11 2005, 09:10 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
oo...
yeah, that might be kind of awkward :I just... talk to him as you would a normal friend. be casual. talk about school, movies... etc. |
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Jun 11 2005, 09:39 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, talk to him about anything. School, friends, life, etc. And after the movie, talk about that!
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Jun 11 2005, 09:56 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
turn the radio on.
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Jun 11 2005, 10:00 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
oh that wouldnt be too fun. yeah just try adn talk to him.. or his sister maybe, you might have something in common
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Jun 11 2005, 03:11 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
happens all the time to couples. just ask lil questions and they'll turn into big conversations. but remember it all take time. soon you 2 will hit it of
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Jun 11 2005, 03:11 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Ask questions alot. Such as asking his mom where she works, if she does, and simple things like that. You could also say simple stuff like, "Have you talked to _namehere_?"
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Jun 11 2005, 05:39 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Take off your clothes and run around. That way it would only be awkward beacuse you don't have clothes on!
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Jun 11 2005, 05:44 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
a great reationship is one where none of the silences are awkward.
not, contrary to popular belief, on without silences anyways, back on topic turn on the radio. hopefully a song you love or despis wll come on, and it will provoke discussion |
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Jun 11 2005, 05:49 PM
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QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jun 11 2005, 10:56 AM) turn the radio on.  haha...ok. But nah, you can ask how his day was. Did anything interesting happen. And if all else fails, yes, turn the radio on. |
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Jun 11 2005, 06:31 PM
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07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
thanks everyone!! just got back from the movies...it was awesome
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