Is my older bro gay? |
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 Jun 10 2005, 04:27 AM
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hey guys - just wanted to run something by you that's bothering me...
my older bro 17 has moved home from boarding school after being away since he was 10. we are sharing a room and bathroom now and he is really open about being nude and getting changed in front of me, he never closes the bathroom door when taking a shower or using the toilet. I also hear him jackin off at night he says all guy do it so we should not be embarrassed! i was wondering if you guys think it's gay to act like this or is it normal? please reply Alex |
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Jun 10 2005, 04:39 AM
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nope he sounds to be just normal. most guys do jack off at night even though it is uterly disgusting
 and most guys don't mind getting changed in front of other guys so yea...
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Jun 10 2005, 04:53 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
how does that make him gay? if your worried about him being attracted to you, id fixate on teh 'incest' point, before we worried about gender, but there you go
also, why are 'gay' and 'normal' mutually exclusive |
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Jun 10 2005, 08:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
your brother isn't gay. Masturbating infront of boys or along with other males is a bonding. Want to know the real truth? Ask him yourself.
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Jun 10 2005, 08:46 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I don't think he is gay but the fact that he is older then you and doesn't mind being naked around you is abnormal. It'd probably be different if you were both little kids but now that his older he should want to have that privacy. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then just leave the room or tell him about it.
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Jun 10 2005, 09:00 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Sounds pretty normal to me, since he's your family member, I don't really think there's anything to be ashamed of. But if I were to take a shower and jack off, I think I wouldn't really expose myself like that...
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Jun 10 2005, 11:03 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Its only gay if you like it.
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Jun 10 2005, 09:30 PM
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Naw, I don't think he's gay. I don't mind being naked infront of my younger brother, and I'm not gay. I also don't mind if he hears/sees me jacking off. I mean, we both have dicks, so there's really nothing to hide.
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Jun 10 2005, 09:35 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
Hes normal.
VERY norma. I know lotsa guys who walk around with no clothes on, constantly. |
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Jun 10 2005, 09:58 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Jun 10 2005, 5:53 AM) how does that make him gay?  exactly... like what other people have said, he's your brother, you're both guys it's not like you haven't seen a ding-a-ling before. he's just comfortable being all "in his glory" ...if it bothers you, you can just tell him, maybe he'll put something on once in awhile. and...it's true that most guys masturbate, it's normal, nothing to be embarassed about. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 10 2005, 10:06 PM
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I doubt it, maybe he thinks that you two are the only ones in the room, and since you guys have the same "things" their nothing to hide.
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Jun 10 2005, 10:49 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 149,946 |
No most likely he isnt.
I mean I am ok being nude and hanging aruond in the nude areound my little bro (well he is younger then my by almos 2 years). He has everything I have and hasnt not seen it before. I can jerk off around him too. Most of the time we jack-off at the same time in the same room but that dosnt make us gay. But I am Bi (just for your info) but I aint attracted to my bro. |
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Jun 10 2005, 11:57 PM
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i think its normal ... its your brother, i bet he seen you nude before when you were little little, brothers are like that [ fyi: i dont have a brother ]
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Jun 11 2005, 12:03 AM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
come on he is older. im sure at the boarding skewl they did a lot worse but ya its perfectly normal, especially since u are relatted and well u shouldnt care. He is ur bro so he knows he can do whatever he wants infront of you and you wont go crazy. but if he does something 2 u.... thats another story.... but perfectly normal like everyone else is saying... i think..
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Jun 11 2005, 03:02 AM
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normal. As long both of you guys are "guys" .. my brother change front of my face. 0.o ??
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Jun 11 2005, 03:20 AM
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All the stuff you listed doesnt mean he is gay. Come on now, use your head. Maybe actually is just comfortable that way.
QUOTE also, why are 'gay' and 'normal' mutually exclusive Thats what I want to know |
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Jun 11 2005, 04:08 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Jun 10 2005, 5:53 PM) how does that make him gay? if your worried about him being attracted to you, id fixate on teh 'incest' point, before we worried about gender, but there you go also, why are 'gay' and 'normal' mutually exclusive i agree with james. do you even understand the meaning of gay? |
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Jun 11 2005, 04:10 AM
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 "Silly me, I thought this was a free country" Group: Human Posts: 1,666 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,913 |
You're overracting.
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Jun 11 2005, 04:15 AM
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chauvinist? Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,532 |
i mean, mayb he jst wants u to be like him...
he's not cummin on ur face, actualy....just chill out n grow up. |
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Jun 11 2005, 06:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
QUOTE(llamalam @ Jun 11 2005, 5:15 AM) i mean, mayb he jst wants u to be like him... he's not cummin on ur face, actualy....just chill out n grow up. Where does cumming come from? |
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Jun 11 2005, 10:13 AM
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Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
QUOTE(llamalam @ Jun 11 2005, 4:15 AM) i mean, mayb he jst wants u to be like him... he's not cummin on ur face, actualy....just chill out n grow up. NO NO NO DONT SAY THE C WORD!!!! THATS BAD!! *beats llmala with a stick* |
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Jun 11 2005, 10:27 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
umm your his brother so obviously he feels comfortable around you I dont think hes gay cuz hes not jerkin of to you [duh] so stop being paranoi..
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Jun 11 2005, 10:42 AM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE NO NO NO DONT SAY THE C WORD!!!! THATS BAD!! *beats llmala with a stick* what happened then? |
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Jun 11 2005, 11:33 AM
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Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
go read his post... its like 2 above mine, come on... imaturity these days lol
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Jun 11 2005, 12:14 PM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
i read it.
but i dont see why you had a mini-fit over it. cumming isnt THAT bad. theres a worse 'c' word that i can think of for a start. calm down |
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