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 Jun 9 2005, 05:43 PM
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I have this friend. She would always make me & my friends go with her.. Sometimes when she askes one friend (which is my friend also lets name her krissy) she would say "come with me" and my friend would go "noo.. i wanna watch the game" when she told me i just went besides the game was boring. She thinks that krissy doesn't like her cuz she doesn't wanna do things with her.. like go with her. what do i do?
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Jun 9 2005, 05:52 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
well this seems kind of like a not so bad situation. I mean your friend krissy should be able to be where she wants to be and go where she wants to go if you know what i mean. but the "other friend" that you're talking about should be more independent. she's not like a little girl that needs her mother to go to the bathroom stalls with her all the time, right? lol im not trying to put her down or nething, srry. but the thing bout her thinking krissy doesnt like her...try explaining some things.
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Jun 9 2005, 08:24 PM
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tell her that its not a big deal... its not like you can change that girls mind, thats how she feels, if she doesnt want to go, dont force her... but besides that, just talk it out, or leave it alone between the two girls
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Jun 10 2005, 02:14 AM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
well, let's get things straight. this is your friend's problem, not krissy's.
i agree with someone up there ^ i think that krissy has the right to do whatever she wants because it's her choice. no one, not even friends, should pressure you to do something you don't want to do. okay, that was off topic. anyways, try reassuring your friend that krissy can't always do everything with your friend. option #2 is to tell your friend that krissy might think that your friend is spending too much time with her. but that might cause more problems 0_o;; |
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Jun 10 2005, 10:44 PM
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I had a friend like that awhile ago, the alone-phobia one, but i talked to her about it and it turned out she didnt even realize she did it, she just picked the person she was used to picking and got used to it
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Jun 10 2005, 10:48 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
just because krissy doesnt go with her doesnt me she doesnt like her. its just that krissy's more into the game at that moment.
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Jun 11 2005, 10:47 AM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
it's really no big deal..
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Jun 11 2005, 03:12 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
it happens to me all the time. try to do what both like. or maybe do that some thing else next time. if your friend doesnt want to go cause she dislikes it. just say no one ever forced you to go.
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