I want to be Friends with benefits... |
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 Jun 5 2005, 10:37 AM
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Ok so theres this guy at school [im a junior in highschool] and me and him are really close and hes like the perfect guy for me - breakdancer/emo wears led tshirts and converse sneakers
 but he has a lot of issues like hes sort of suicidal but he doesnt go through with anything he just thinks about it and he likes me and I like him but he said hes not ready to be in a relationship which is fine cuz i dont want to be tied down but everytime im around him i wana jump on him ahhhhhhhhhhhh its hard to hold back and i want to tell him that i want to be his friend with benefits  but im not sure how hell take it.. what would you guys do?
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Jun 5 2005, 10:59 AM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
just tell him. whats he going to do? i mean he likes you and you like him.
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Jun 5 2005, 11:23 AM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
Talk to him about it. Yanno ask him, hey whats your opinion on friends with benefits.
&ifhe says he wants someone like that, then go for it. The most he can do is say get off, right? But make sure you make it clear that you still wanna be friends, even if things dont really go so well. I heard things like this really ruin friendships. hm, so yeah. There's no good boys, or even girls at my school =[ Lucky you, |
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Jun 5 2005, 11:31 AM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
QUOTE(lost [child] @ Jun 5 2005, 11:23 AM) Talk to him about it. Yanno ask him, hey whats your opinion on friends with benefits. &ifhe says he wants someone like that, then go for it. The most he can do is say get off, right? But make sure you make it clear that you still wanna be friends, even if things dont really go so well.  i agree. |
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Jun 5 2005, 12:08 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Well if he says he doesnt want a relationship , then obviously he will be cool with it. I dont think you tell someone that .. it justs happens.
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Jun 5 2005, 12:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
thanx guys
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Jun 5 2005, 12:43 PM
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One more word of advice. Dont put pressure on the situation. If it happens then it happens and if its doesnt then, well, it doesnt.
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Jun 8 2005, 11:03 AM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 5 2005, 1:43 PM) One more word of advice. Dont put pressure on the situation. If it happens then it happens and if its doesnt then, well, it doesnt. I would have to agree with this one. ~*~*~DeCePT10N -ess~*~*~ |
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Jun 8 2005, 05:53 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
ask him if he wants to. if yes, good for u. if no, then whatever.
and there's no such thing as the perfect guy. u like someone for their perfections. u love them for their faults. |
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Jun 8 2005, 10:33 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
hmm interesting. i dunno, i never really understood ppl who are suicidal and all. just a cry for attention really. (sry, but i should kno, i used to be one) and really...is there ne thing in life that can't be fixed?? no way. but hey who knos maybe ur luvin' can turn his frown upside-down. but i dunno, prolly talk to him about it and all. just say u have these feelings, and u understand that u don't wanna get into ne thing, but for now, u just wanna "be together" just not "together". like say u wanna be there for him to do stuff with, but innocently, no feelings attached.
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Jun 8 2005, 10:42 PM
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Just jump on him, who cares.
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