how well do your friends give advice? |
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 Jun 7 2005, 11:44 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
ehh, my friends give pretty crappy advice i think. its not really even advice, whenever im sad/mad/depressed, they just try saying something to change the topic. and whenever i talk about a guy, they just get annoyed and tell me to shut up. well they dont really tell me, but i know theyre thinking it
so what about you |
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Jun 7 2005, 11:51 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
I am the advice giver of my friends.
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Jun 8 2005, 12:14 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
when i first read the topic, i thought it said how do u give advice...
anyways.. i give advice on whatever my friends need advice on..And they do the same for me.. if your friends dont give u good advice, ill be happy to help u on whatever u need...but i dont really know u that well... 
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Jun 8 2005, 12:31 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Well, I have this one friend that's amazing with advice. 10 minutes talking to her, and I suddenly feel so much better. She's the best
 Haha um, the rest of my friends are pretty good advice givers? |
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| *mzkandi* |
Jun 8 2005, 04:06 AM
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I am not the best advice giver myself on certain situations and my friends are the same at times. But we are always there for each other no matter what.
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Jun 8 2005, 06:22 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
two of my friends: free psychologists in a way. they give the best advice and i <3 them for it.
otherwise, i'm an advice giver. |
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Jun 8 2005, 07:16 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
I agree with you ichiban, pretty much all my friends are crappy advice-givers. I actually find my guy friends better at giving advice.
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Jun 8 2005, 01:46 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I'm the giver, I usually don't need advice as much as just to get stuff off my chest.
But yes, I give advice and I'm told I'm good at that. |
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Jun 8 2005, 04:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 785 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,525 |
QUOTE(CrazayChristian @ Jun 8 2005, 12:46 PM) I'm the giver, I usually don't need advice as much as just to get stuff off my chest. But yes, I give advice and I'm told I'm good at that.  that's how it is with me. i don't really need advice i just like to talk to them and get stuff off my chest. but my friends say i should be a psychologist. ahaha |
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Jun 8 2005, 05:23 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I don't really go to my friends for advice, and I usually am the one that gives advice.
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Jun 8 2005, 06:13 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
i give advice. and i get it back in return. never works out too well though.. its better following your own instincts
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Jun 8 2005, 06:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,732 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,327 |
I hardly ask my friends for advice, because most of them are immature and wouldn't understand.. :/
...I need some new friends... |
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Jun 8 2005, 06:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,214 |
I give advice to them when they tell me their sad or if there's a problemo. (: And If I have a problem, they give me advice too.
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Jun 8 2005, 06:33 PM
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 Alice Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,185 |
I think I'm the advice-giver out of my friends. That's at least what I think because they seem to feel better when they talk to me. (Trying not to brag
 ) Like someone else I don't really need advice I usually just need to get stuff off of my chest. My friends are pretty good at making me feel better, but not really for advice giving. (< this isn't exactly the best winking face...)
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Jun 8 2005, 06:38 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
blah i suck at giving advice. i dont think i give any O_O. i only help my friends out on hw. =\ most of the time its freinds giving me advice =)
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| *stephinika* |
Jun 9 2005, 01:01 AM
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depends on the friend. i have some that give decent advice, but there's no one spectacular. they listen well, they just don't do much advice. *shrug* meh
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Jun 9 2005, 07:53 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 149,021 |
I know what you mean, seriously.
I give all the advice to my friends, so when i need advice from them they just go "Sorry, i don't know what to say" Its really frustrating... and there isnt really much you do abt it, find someone that will give you good advice, or just someone you can talk to.. even try and tell your friends.. and if they're really good friends they'll try and help more. I found someone that i cld tlk to... but i also learnt to manage any problems on my own so im not dependent on anyone else. |
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Jun 9 2005, 08:26 AM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
generally speaking, I give the advice. I guess my friends think I'm good at that or something. I have a few friends that I call if I need advice, or need to vent, or whatever. When I do call them, they are quite good at it. ^.^
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Jun 10 2005, 02:30 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
lol i def don't go to any of my friends for advice anymore. well, i go to my friend grace...i trust her. And i go to my boyfriend jeremy. but besides that, i don't go to many people for advice. lol it's all about the trust thing
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Jun 10 2005, 07:15 AM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
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Jun 11 2005, 01:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
I'm the one giving my friends good advice. When I'm sad/ or have a problem they just ask me what's wrong. And I tell them and they all go " Ohh..okay!" And they leave me alone.
My boyfriend gives out really good advice though. So I go him. |
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Jun 11 2005, 01:17 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Uhh.. My friends don't care enough about me to offer advice. But that's partially because I don't trust them enough to tell them personal things. There was someone that I became pretty close with and she shared her problems with me. She told me that I would be really good child psychologist and that I was the only person that could understand her and give her good advice. Too bad I hate her now.
 Your friends don't sound like great friends to me. If they aren't considerate enough to listen to what you have to say or at least talk to you about your things. |
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Jun 11 2005, 07:31 AM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
ive tried goin2 my friends, but they're not usually much help... tht's y i come here
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