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 Jun 5 2005, 10:26 PM
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 life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u...  Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448  |
a lot of my friends have boyfriends of their own. they kiss and hug and stuff like that. i'm kind of ... well ... jealous. i mean, i'm good at boy trouble (tips, ideas, etc.) but i'm so helpless that i can't even do anything about me. it's like i give but i can't take.
i'm 5'6, 121 lbs, blue eyes, honey-blonde curly whirly hair. i feel like i've been love drained. love drained - when your luck with the opposite sex seems to go downhill. clueless on your own relationships, blah blah blah. you get it? yeah well i am so tired of jumping from guy to guy, that i do a lot of chain letters on getting with the guy you like or wishing that your true love will come find you and all that other fiction crap. i need help. got any? |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 5 2005, 10:30 PM
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Well don't worry, sometimes it's best if you stay single. Why? You can admire all the cute guys you want. You can have guy friends and not have your boyfriend jealous. You don't have to worry about breaking your boyfriends heart. Don't worry hun, your time will come. And in the meantime, enjoy life as it is. Have fun and let loose in life!
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Jun 5 2005, 10:32 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well from all this downhill stuff, have you turned bitter/cold? maybe that's what's turning guys off. and the looks don't matter as much as you'd think (at least from what relationships actually work out). and don't worry. the right guy will come when the time is right.
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Jun 5 2005, 10:41 PM
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life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u... Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448 |
well how do you think i give advice? grit my teeth and snarle? no i'm nice to my buddies. you'd think i'd have friends being cold hearted?!? they keep me happy.
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Jun 5 2005, 11:20 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
ugh. i have the same problem.
QUOTE angel_revelation Posted Jun 5 2005, 10:32 PM well from all this downhill stuff, have you turned bitter/cold? Someone told me, to my face, that i'm a cold bitter bitch, and it was a major reality check. i've been nicer to people, but i still haven't been lucky in the guy department. But my "advice": Enjoy the single life, you own the place. lol. Be flirty with guys and act cool. stay cool. get cool. calm down and just breathe and turn on the game. love is a battlefield. I give good advice to my friends too, but, i can't do much about me. i know how you feel. |
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Jun 6 2005, 01:58 AM
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life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u... Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448 |
wow ur the first
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Jun 6 2005, 05:02 AM
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yes i feel that way too. except when i think about them. all 3 of them lol.*crushing*
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Jun 6 2005, 05:11 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
It's best to me to stay single. Okay, maybe once in awhile you want a boyfriend or whatever. But I feel your pain. I am single, lol.
But it's probably best because, if you do have a boyfriend, you won't feel the hurt that sometimes you go through in relationships. I had a boyfriend before, and well, it wasn't so great for me. So, yeah. Hope I helped.
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Jun 6 2005, 05:20 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
what's wrong with being single
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Jun 6 2005, 06:12 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed.
you don't have to rush into a relationship right now. being single is not such a bad thing |
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Jun 6 2005, 06:35 AM
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x2 to what everyone said. Contrary to popular belief, being single can be a good thing. You have more time to focus on yourself, rather than having to devote time to your signifigant other. Sure, dating's nice.. but don't just put yourself all over a guy. One day you will find a guy that was worth spending all that time waiting for
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Jun 6 2005, 06:43 AM
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<33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
Exactly ^
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Jun 6 2005, 08:53 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jun 6 2005, 11:30 AM) Well don't worry, sometimes it's best if you stay single. Why? You can admire all the cute guys you want. You can have guy friends and not have your boyfriend jealous. You don't have to worry about breaking your boyfriends heart. Don't worry hun, your time will come. And in the meantime, enjoy life as it is. Have fun and let loose in life!  Agreed. (Wow, you make staying single sound like so much fun.) Remember, you don't need to be in a relationship to be truly happy. You should enjoy your life as it is for now, and Mr Right will present himself sooner or later.
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Jun 6 2005, 11:47 PM
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life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u... Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448 |
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Jun 6 2005, 5:02 AM) yes i feel that way too. except when i think about them. all 3 of them lol.*crushing* omg! did you mean three friends?!? same here, chelsea brittney and danielle i hate danielle though she thinks she's the $#!+ cuz she has a bf who actually wants megan lol what a weenie lol she said that all the black people should get back to mopping the floors and the mexicans should start being slaves and $#!+ a lot of gurls wanna fight her and i can see why too |
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Jun 6 2005, 11:58 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
First, how old are you?
Second, its not that important. Third, if this country weren't ruled by the moral majority of America, sex and sexually intimate physical activities like cunnilingus and fellatio would be done freely and casually (more so than it already is, but it won't be looked down upon). My advice is to get over it. But then again, to each their own. |
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| *Azarel* |
Jun 7 2005, 12:27 AM
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Stop searching for it; by no means, I'm not saying to give up on it - I'm just telling you, it'll happen when you least expect it.
Being single isn't all bad, you know. It has perks once in a while. |
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Jun 7 2005, 04:50 PM
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life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u... Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448 |
QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 6 2005, 11:58 PM) First, how old are you? Second, its not that important. Third, if this country weren't ruled by the moral majority of America, sex and sexually intimate physical activities like cunnilingus and fellatio would be done freely and casually (more so than it already is, but it won't be looked down upon). My advice is to get over it. But then again, to each their own. 14 don't you get tired of waiting? uhh |
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Jun 7 2005, 04:53 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
its ok.. you're young.. and plus relationships always go downhill at a point. you can get hurt you know.. i guess you should just wait for the perfect guy. you know?
 also i dont get tired of waiting its better being single |
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Jun 7 2005, 06:40 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Just keep reminding yourself you don't need a relationship to be happy. It's a guy. Look at Queen Latifah-she's fine all by herself =D
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Jun 8 2005, 12:18 PM
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wow definitely sounds like me
im 16 and i got my first boyfriend the day after i turned 16 (we've been going out for 6 months on the 13th) and i was so upset near the beginning of the school year cuz it seemed like nothing was going right for me (ie: school, friends, family, guys <-- grr) but my advice, dont let it bring you down no matter how hard it tugs at you. sure you can have a crush and like a guy and when hes around be all flirty but i say you should keep the guy on your mind while you try to work on and improve other things, study extra hard!! work hard at sports. design regular objects so you can show them off. once you feel super happy about everything else your confidence will boost and pretty soon a guy will notice you and TADA! its history from there. |
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Jun 8 2005, 12:21 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(hott_n_luvin_it @ Jun 7 2005, 3:50 PM) 14 don't you get tired of waiting? uhh Not at all. I'm not waiting because there are more important things in life I have to focus on right now. Do I miss that intimate relationship with my first (and only) love? Of course I do. But you're only 14, don't get ahead of yourself. You have plenty of time in your life to be swept off you feet. |
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Jun 8 2005, 01:48 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
^That's true but people can get caught up in someone so easily.
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Jun 8 2005, 06:12 PM
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 Hi, I'm Jo. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,563 |
deep down somewhere all your friends are jealous of your freedom. You will basically never be happy either way until you find "the one". you can wait. search. meet guys. play around a little. it always works.
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