family troubles..., can you help me? Options

[krismiss678]

so i want to vent about something...my cousin is having a lot of problems. with her family, not herself. =[. her dad is dating this woman that no one in our family likes. shes really mean, and she is total trailer trash, and her son is an a-hole that is a smart aleck to EVERYONE. they come over to my cousin's house like all the time and eat all of their food. well, the thing is, they both smoke pot, like fo sho. and my cuz thinks her dad is smoking pot, which i know is true because he used to be a pot head when he met my aunt, and then she like saved his ass from the trailer park he lived in before and cleaned him up and married him. ever since she died, hes been getting deeper and deeper into being a weird person again and now i think hes finally gone off the deep end. my cousin obviously hates this woman and my uncle apparently doesnt care or just hasnt noticed. hes always criticizing her and yelling at her now. he even takes up for the son when there are arguements. last night i slept over there because i was in SC on the way home from a beach trip in NC and i had to stay with them so i could come home today. the woman AND her son slept over. which is obviously wrong, because i know what they were doing...and they might need to be a little bit more discreet about it. they even slept over when my uncles parents were there. thats so disgusting. like, we dont need to know when you're doing that kind of stuff, and they dont need to be sleeping over there anyway with my cousin in the house.. so anyways, the son just like sat in the room we were watching a movie in...and we were like in our pjs watching this movie and like about to go to sleep in there, and he just sits down with his headphones in the recliner (its like an entertainment room type thing) and like pretends to go to sleep. we asked him to leave politely like a million times because even though he wasnt really bothering us, we just wanted to have some "girl" time, to talk about things and when we told him that he was like, "well, im going to be sarahs step brother soon and everything she can tell you, she can tell me." i was just like "look, ive known sarah ever since she was born. since the day my aunt and uncle brought her home from the hospital, and we're extremely close. you want to tell me that you can talk to her like she talks to me?" but without the attitude. so sarah tells her dad and hes like, talking up for billy. and then he yelled at sarah. i was just like WHAT?! hes the one sitting in our room bothering US. we want to go to sleep and hes sitting in there with the music blasting through his headphones like staring at us while he "pretends" to sleep. ugh. it burns me up. i seriously just want to adopt sarah into our family so she can be raised with stability. i cant take hearing the way her dad talks to her sometimes. its so...hateful...i just dont know what to do. they wont get married for another four years because of my aunts money that she left for sarah for college, and if they get married, the money goes away. and the only reason my uncle can afford anything is because of my aunt. gosh. what do i do??? can i get him in trouble for smoking pot and have her taken away from him and bring her here? she kept asking me like if my parents could adopt her so she could get away from all of this non-sense. she really needs to leave his house. just help me if you can. thanks.