Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[ Options

[thatoneasiangirl...]

Let your daughter still play with Lindsay. Don't let Lindsay father's actions stop her from playing with Geena. But try to talk to Lindsay's mom about the situation or otherwise, just don't let that nasty man into your house.

[literemix24]

..I think you should talk about it to Lindsay's mother. And besides, you KNOW you're not a skank, I bet shes just jealous. Lol If he doesn't stop, contact the authorities. Even though your daughter might lose a friend, think about what might happen later on, to your daughter and/or you.

[dragyn]

Wow. That is incredibly inconvenient.

Originally I was going to suggest inviting your daughter's friend over to your house, but then I realized that you would either have to pick her up, or have her dropped off, which still puts you near this guy.

However, you can file sexual harassment, and you can make sure that he knows you will if he continues. If you do decide to file sexual harassement, eventually, it might be a good idea to tell his wife first, because it would seem completely out of the blue, if you just out and filed sexual harassement w/o any warning. She might be even more inclined to think you made it up than she already is. If he continues this for too long, you should tell her whether she believes you or not.

I suppose, just try your hardest to minimize your "parent-talk time" between pick-ups and drop-offs, though I'm not sure you should leave your daughter with a man like that (though I'm not assuming that you do, I'm simply pointing out it might not be a good idea).

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If his wife is resistant to what you have to say, tell her you're willing to try and prove it to her. One way or another, some form of proof may be useful, whether you're trying to convince her, or the authorities.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Oh I think you should tell Lindsay's mother, you should let her know what's happening. But I think you should continue letting your daughter play with Lindsay, and perhaps try slapping the husband the next time he does that, tell him to stop it and that its not right.

[BrokenDream]

That man should know better as he is a married or a man in a relationship with kids and its totally wrong as he is harrassing you. Just talk to him and explain that your not interested. If you dont trust him around you, you cant trust him around your daughter.

I used to know a perverty man, he was my dad's "friend" and he used to come to our house like at 11pm to chat with my dad but i was always downstairs i dont go to bed till around 2am. I used to wear my pjs when he came to see us and he used to touch me and tickle me, he wasnt touching me like in my private areas or anything but he was like a totally freak. My dad hit him lol

Wow, that's exactly what I was going to say.

Sorry about what happened to.

[hott_n_luvin_it]

you aren't any of those things unless YOU truly believe that. you need to talk to him. or better yet call the police! report sexial abuse, do anything you can to keep him off of you!

[BrokenDream]

I'd say, if he doesn't stop, call the police for help. This guy has issues with you.

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[yycleo]

Since the mother doesnt like u at the 1st place.
the results of telling her about it is
(1) she dislike u more, thinking u are lying
(2) she trust u and will divorce
(3) she doesnt trust u fully, thinking u r lying, but will also keep an eye on the father

the chance of 2) i think is very small
so i think there's no way u can get rid of the dad

so try speaking 2 her dad 1st and tell him wt u'll do if he continues
never be alone with him
try 2 be nice with her mom and tell her about it when u think (3) is more likely 2 happen then (1)
or try 2 make a hint or talk about it as if its just a joke in front of everyone
that way, her dad will notice ur gonna do something if he continues while her mom will just think ur joking

sorry 4 my bad english
really hope this will help

[Mileep]

I think that man is a pervert. He got balls you know. You don't know how people are these day!..

[megan_x3]

Hmm.. i think you should really talk to Lindsay's mom about it even though she has bad thoughts about you. It doesn't really matter, i mean i know how you feel. Your thinking about your daughter but you also dont want your daughter to not have a friend to play with. Maybe try to keep Lindsay's dad away from you and Geena and bring your daughter and Lindsay out to somewhere safe where Lindsay's dad won't be there. Be safe ! and don't let that perverted gay guy follow you and harass you in any way. Warn him...and if he makes any move .. CALL THE COPS ! AND MAKE CHARGES AGAINST HIM !

[missknowitall141...]

i agree with what nicole said. she is right. and i know this is more then a little off topic...but i love your xanga...vin diesel is so hawt .

[__xxfrappachino...]

wow..ur problems make mine seem like nothing in comparison..
what i would do is probably have geena stop going over to lindsay's house because if he's the kind of person that can do such things to you, who knows what will happen if geena goes over there in a few years from now? that way they're still friends and you won't have to see lindsay's dad anymore =] problem solved (i hope)

[toodlepops.]

Charge him with sexual assault. If that's possible.

[takeapolaroid__x]

omg i have practically the same problem but hes not touched me. but its with my uncle and dad

maybe he thinks that since you had the kid at such a young age, he thinks that your like a slut or something (IM NOT SAYING YOU ARE THOUGH!!!) so he takes advantage of that.

shoot him in the head and dump him in a river for me

[Joss-eh-lime]

kill him. i mean..did i just let that slip??

call the police. its sexual harrasment. he could go to jail for that. so poo on him. BAHAHAH. stupid pervs.

lmao!! kill him.

tell him im not going to let my daughter come over here unless you treat me with respect and stop behaving like a teenager.

then GRAB you daughter and storm out. haha for dramatic effect.

then like invite lindsey to be at your house or go to the park. dont be over there. .

[shortiiex]

who cares if she doesn't like you...get them both in a room and just say what you need to say...but does she know that you know that she doesn't liek you?

[3ssx]

well. continue to let your daughter play with lindsay.
just try to stay away from Lindsay's dad, and trying to talk to Lindsay's mom might not be a bad idea. Perhaps she can talked to Lindsay's dad.

[tommyhilfiger_gu...]

first, try to resolve your communication w/ her mom (tell her you aren't a skank), then you can find out why her husband's so nasty

then, tell the husband to stop and if he doesn't call the police, and press charges

AND make sure you don't ever let that man come closer than 3-5 feet, i mean, pulling your UNDERWEAR? ewwwwwwwwww

[starlette]

you are not a skank, and make you fiancee stay with you so the dude will back off. I say you should go to the police though. Or have her come to your home. Or maybe let them play on a different day, or at a different time of day so the mothe ris around. And I repeat, you are not a skank. you are very strong and I deeply respect you.

[Paradox of Life]

^ I agree.

Try not to be around him that often because then he'll have more oppritunities to "make remarks" and "touch you". Wear less revealing clothing if you know you're going to be around him and his wife. Just stay away from him and he'll become less attached, if he is at all. He's probably just teasing you and playing around with you, but I seriously find that disgusting and I would just steer clear away from him. He's a pervert, plain and simple and there's nothing you can do about it.

And his antics are not his wife's responsibility so don't even try talking to her about it. It'll only get things more stirred up.

[technicolour]

Harassment. Sue him. Take some type of legal action.

[islandkiss]

I don't know what to say. I completely loathe people who tend to act like that. I think that you should tell Lindsay's mother about what has been going on. Or treaten Lindsay's father that you will inform his wife if he doesn't stop.

[mouse_3k]

Punch him in the face. Kick his little perverted booty.

[*reflection*]

you are not a skank, and make you fiancee stay with you so the dude will back off. I say you should go to the police though. Or have her come to your home. Or maybe let them play on a different day, or at a different time of day so the mothe ris around. And I repeat, you are not a skank. you are very strong and I deeply respect you.

i agree. you must be very strong to raise a kid at a young age. call the police or take legal action. tell the mom about it cuz even though she's a bitch i think she should know

[Xprezsion]

Wow that must be very uncomfortable. Maybe try to set up playdates over the phone and for Lindsay and Geena to play at your house if possible. Otherwise let them hang out at the park, anywhere else besides Lindsay's house. Goodluck!