sex, my friend |
 Mar 17 2005, 12:02 AM
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my friend had sex with her boyfriend. and she is only 12 years old. her boyfriend just told me everything. they 69ed and then did unprotected sex. my friend ( the girl ) wont say anything about her and her boyfriend. i know that they slept together but i didnt know that they had sex. i'm realllly scared for my friend. what should i do?
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Apr 3 2005, 02:59 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Mar 17 2005, 12:09 AM) geez. 12 year olds should be studying in school, not getting boyfriends. anyways, maybe she should get tested..?  agreed. its real sad... |
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Apr 4 2005, 05:58 PM
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 DInosawr...Rawr. =3 Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,134 |
holy crap?! your friend is only one year younger than me and she's already had sex?! Well, first off...find out if she's actually pregnant...I dunno how, get her tested or make her take a pregnancy test! Hopefully, if she doesnt get pregnant she will learn to be alil bit more CAREFUL and if she does get pregnant than i hope that she's learn a lesson in all this.
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Apr 4 2005, 06:10 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i hope something goes wrong with her :-)
people like that deserve it. im sorry if u have sex at a realllllly young age and not take precautions.. u deserve to get pregnant or get an std |
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Apr 4 2005, 06:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Are you gonna believe him over her? Most guys DREAM of the oppurtinity to do that, they know it won't happen so make it up. I wouldn't take his word for grant. Let your friend know your their for her after you lecture her. That's what I do with my friends. It's a little different, but my friend peirced her stomach with a safety pen which isn't even steril. The reason she did it was to impress a boy...I yelled at her, then told her I cared about her, and not to do that because it could get an infection and etc. Then she listened and yeah... so just talk to her so she'll have a shoulder to lean on.
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Apr 4 2005, 07:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407 |
wtf? is she like desperate or something? sex is already bad enough for a teen. but UNPROTECTED sex at the age of 12?! that's just ... wow
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Apr 4 2005, 08:43 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
QUOTE(kcgirl91 @ Mar 31 2005, 10:44 PM) the gurl doesnt know what to do! that's like saying,"I'm not gonna tell anyone that my friend got raped cuz she wouldnt like it" her friend should still have the right to have some privacy. |
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Apr 4 2005, 09:02 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
hope she never got her period yet.. ask her.. talk to her about.. maybe consult her mom/ parents....
QUOTE they 69ed and then did unprotected sex whts 69ed? .... at 12.. yikes.. that really really young. QUOTE i hope something goes wrong with her :-) thats evill... but anyways.. maybe she'll learn to think twice now.
people like that deserve it. im sorry if u have sex at a realllllly young age and not take precautions.. u deserve to get pregnant or get an std |
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Apr 4 2005, 09:26 PM
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 you high baby? Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,267 |
she is too young to b having sex.. if she doesn't have her period then it should be okay.. you should talk to her about it though~
mayb her b/f's just full of shit n is jus feeding his ego telling u this* |
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Apr 4 2005, 09:30 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,113 |
why do kids haf sex such young age my gosh
 aneways even if yu r scared for her you really cant do much...it was her decision to do this. if she does get pregnet its really not stoppable even if yu tell someone 
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Apr 4 2005, 09:49 PM
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QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Mar 17 2005, 12:24 AM) wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it  but anywho, get a test! LOL haha that's funny. newaiz, like every1 said, tell her to get a test |
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Apr 5 2005, 12:47 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
sex without a condom or something? thats dangerous and besides, she too young for it
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Apr 5 2005, 12:59 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Mar 16 2005, 10:24 PM) wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it but anywho, get a test! Wow, that really is a horrifying image...  thats really bad, and shes gonna feel all the guilt, and whatnot from doin it so early! ew ew ew--two 12 year olds!!!!
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Apr 5 2005, 03:12 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,638 |
well I think she can be test. But If her mom knows it her mom would kill her or sumthing lol.But I think she should be test!! Bcuz I think shes wrong and of course I knw you are so worried about it..And how come a 12 yr old girl would let him have sex with her.Thats weird.I have a boyfriend but we are just like bestfriends But i never had sex or sexual contact with him.well
 I just cnt believe she would do tht I think you better tell her mom about this.Because its so serious.Or talk to her boyfriend if his ***** has split! *eewwww* well I have no problem of my life with my boyfriend we always hang out like bestfriends and never had a first kiss!! We play baseball and stuffs (WE HAVE NO SEXUAL CONTACT!) thats all okhay..WEIRD!
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Apr 5 2005, 03:15 AM
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stop befriending whores
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Apr 6 2005, 04:47 PM
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 midwest princess Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,168 |
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 8:43 PM) her friend should still have the right to have some privacy. Iim not saying the friend should not have anty privacy. im saying that the gurl's friend should not just stand by and let this happen. She should try and help her friend or else she's not being a good friend at all. lil.miss.sinny 
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Apr 6 2005, 05:05 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
they both have to be at least 18 to be legal.
tell her to go get a test... and some common sense. any problems that arise is her problem. |
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Jun 5 2005, 02:35 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
get her tested..
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Jun 5 2005, 06:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Mar 17 2005, 1:05 AM) well, uhhhh, if she hasn't had her period yet than I wouldn't worry too much about getting pregnant  ^^ ok thats sort of a myth, just because you havent had your period doesnt mean that your not capable of getting pregnant because the eggs are still released in the filopian tube its just that the hormones which produce the blood vessels in the uterus are not released cuz u havent reached puberty yet.. so it is possible to get pregnant especially since shes 12 yrs old and probably starting puberty Have you ever thought about that your friends boyfriend is lying, my friend had a boyfriend who would just lie and say that they were shagging all the time meanwhile they both were virgins, Dont take his word for it just ask her [dont confront her] about it and see both versions of the story |
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Jun 5 2005, 07:19 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
SHES 12? Girl, you better get your friend to the clinic, if its unprotected sex, its dangerous. Who knows what could be passed down?
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Jun 5 2005, 07:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Convince her boyfriend to talk to her about it. If she won't tell you about it, chances are she wont take advice from you either. She should go to a clinic and get tested.
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Jun 5 2005, 07:33 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
I'm 13 and I haven't had sex. And I don't plan to. XD Until waaaaaay later.
Yeah, it is bad, though, they're people in our school district having sex in the bathrooms. X__x You might wanna make sure she's not pregnant or something. Have either of them had sex before? |
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Jun 5 2005, 09:04 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
it's her choice. she'll be lucky if she hasnt gotten her period yet
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Jun 5 2005, 09:54 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
thats her mistake, make her live with the consequences. You can still get pregnant even if you havent had ur period yet...
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Jun 5 2005, 10:16 PM
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Where were this girl's parents at the time. I think she should get tested.
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Jun 5 2005, 10:26 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
-_- I was afraid this would become a post one day. But anyways, I'd say go to the clinc right away. But if she haven't had her period yet, I'm not so sure. Wow, I actually am turning 13, and that's like my age! That's scary....
 But seriously. Where in the heck where her parents?? |
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