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 Apr 19 2005, 07:05 PM
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 un cool.  Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269  |
its not cheating. some it could be conceidered being overly nice. it just depends on how far the firting goes.
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Apr 19 2005, 07:16 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
ya i agree it really depends on how far the flirting goes but just a lil flirting nothing big or anything is not cheating .
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Apr 19 2005, 10:33 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i dont think u should. i try my best not to cuz wen im with guys i tend to flirt without knowing. its in my nature but wen im aware i try to calm down n stop doing that. i dont think its rite. no its not cheating but i wouldnt appreciate it if my boyfriend flirted with a few girls for fun.
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May 18 2005, 07:00 PM
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hmm do you mean if you're with someone already? Then I think so.
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May 18 2005, 07:10 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
well if yur going out with someone its okay but its just plain RUDE. (i dislike people like that) but if your single FLIRT ALL YOU WANT!!!
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May 19 2005, 04:47 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I guess, if you're already going out w/ someone, then why are you doing it? lol But if you aren't..then..o.O. However, its unfair to the person you're going out w/ when you flirt w/ others.
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May 19 2005, 10:29 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
it's not really cheating, but maybe honestly you should ask who you're with if they're uncomfortable with it. i have a crush on a guy and we used to ALWAYS flirt...and we were really close...not anymore, but we still talk and i still like him and if he talks to another girl i get jealous. -_-
i cant really say though, im not going out with anyone and i flirt with a few people but only two people mainly. |
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May 23 2005, 11:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
yes it is so cheating
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May 24 2005, 05:48 AM
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it depends...
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May 24 2005, 03:39 PM
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 hicka bicka boo =P Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,785 |
well.. if you're hav a bf/gf, then you shouldnt be flirting with someone else. i think thats just wrong.
its not exactly cheating, but its hurting the other person. |
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May 24 2005, 06:31 PM
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 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Apr 16 2005, 4:33 PM) it really depends on the way or how far this person is flirting and also just what the boyfriend/girlfriend thinks.  I agree. If you know your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't like it at all, then it's just best not to. |
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May 24 2005, 06:37 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
it's not really cheating, but it's wrong. i really have to stop.
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May 24 2005, 08:06 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
umm...i dont really know...it depends on your definition of flirting...i mean if you're verbally flirting or giving friendly hugs then i dont think that's too too bad...now if you're all touchy feely and such....and you're kissing all over some guy...then heck...i'de sey that's cheating...xD only my opinion though...xD
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May 24 2005, 08:16 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
QUOTE umm...i dont really know...it depends on your definition of flirting...i mean if you're verbally flirting or giving friendly hugs then i dont think that's too too bad...now if you're all touchy feely and such....and you're kissing all over some guy...then heck...i'de sey that's cheating...xD only my opinion though...xD ^ i was just about to write that xP yeah; if they are touching and all that; i'd consider it cheating. but if it was only talking; it's not exactly cheating; but it will piss the gf / bf off badly. |
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Jun 3 2005, 02:32 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,888 |
First, let's explore what exactly a flirt is:
flirt n 1: a seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men [syn: coquette, vamp, vamper, minx, tease, prickteaser] 2: playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest [syn: flirting, flirtation, coquetry, dalliance, toying] v 1: talk or behave amorously, without serious intentions; "The guys always try to chat up the new secretaries"; "My husband never flirts with other women" [syn: chat up, dally, butterfly, coquet, coquette, romance, philander, mash] 2: behave carelessly or indifferently; "Play about with a young girl's affection" [syn: dally, toy, play] v. flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts v. intr. To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures. [/QUOTE] IMO, Hugging, play fighting, and other similar actions is not cheating. Kissing (more than a Hello/Goodbye Kiss) would be considered over the top. From a guy's perspective I've talked with several women who flirt heavily with their guy friends. Most of them do not think of it as sexual in nature and are not aroused by it. One female only realized what it could have appeared like when one of her friends accused her of being a tease because of her flirtatious ways. She had no idea before then. From a personal perspective: I've recently started dating an admitted flirt. She's an awesome gal, but acts totally different in front of her guy friends vs us just going out solo. Couple that with a long-distance relationship, a very odd situation where it's just better for the both of us right now that no one knows we're dating and imagine how flirting makes a non-flirter feel. Play-fighting to the point where they are grabbing her ass and groping her, and pulling her onto their lap in a less than just-friends kinda way. Others will massage her shoulders, turning into a sensual caress and even hold hands. All in front of her "significant other" who has to remain silent and essentially be ignored. The thing that gets me is she kept asking if I was ok. It's as if she KNEW it was pissing me off but kept doing it to see my reaction. Is it cheating? No. Would her friends behave differently if they knew the guy she was dating was right there? maybe. Is it extremely frustrating? Heck yeah. I'm not typically a jealous guy. Someone I'm dating has guy friends? Cool. Want to hang out with them? No problem. But confronted with that situation, and let's just say I was like Mount Saint Helens underneath. |
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Jun 3 2005, 02:45 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,912 |
if its harmless flirting then its ok, just as long as they dont take it any further then just joking around.
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Jun 3 2005, 03:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
no unless ure really inlove with a person and it hurts to see them flirt with others then it could be considered cheating or "playing" dem
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Jun 3 2005, 03:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your boy/girlfriend watching.
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Jun 4 2005, 03:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
QUOTE(dragyn @ Jun 3 2005, 3:56 PM) Cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your boy/girlfriend watching. no. if your girlfriend had sex with another guy in front of you. you wouldn't call that cheating? QUOTE Is it cheating? No. Would her friends behave differently if they knew the guy she was dating was right there? maybe. You are saying that it's technically not cheating. However, from a personal pov, it could be considered cheating. |
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Jun 4 2005, 04:34 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
it would be very very close to it but it wouldnt be 100% exactly called cheating.
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Jun 4 2005, 07:02 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
mm. it depends how far you go with the flirting.
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Jun 5 2005, 12:52 AM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
depends how far it goes and how often
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