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[bambamboozle]

I- I don't even know where to begin. Ew. My friends asleep and lets just say, I stumbled upon some of her mothers, ew, "porn", on her computer. By total accident- I was looking for pictures we took earlier today. But ew ew ew. Gross pictures of my friends MOTHER doing gross things. She told me her mother a was slut but I didnt believe it 'till now. Ew. This girl is like my best friend though so it feels wrong not telling her. But ew. That's all I can say. Ew. What to do (and why is the world so gross)?

[*mzkandi*]

Take a deep breath. I would be shocked and speechless if I had see that too. I think you should be careful about telling your friend though. The average person doesnt really want to know that there mother is involved in such things.

Also I would like to edit because Toya brought up a good point. I would advice you not tell anyone what you saw. People talk and it would be hurtful to your friend.

This post has been edited by mzkandi: May 30 2005, 01:43 AM

[freeflow]

yea i agree calm down just a lil bit . if you do tell your friend be ready for anything to happen because she mite not take that soo easily even if she told you that her mom was a slut . i dont even think she would want to see the pictures of hermom either . just make sure that you dont go around telling others what you saw because that would really make your friend mad. if you do tell your friend as i said just be ready for anything to happen. any type of reaction .

[yukichan]

I agree with ^^..dont tell others about what u saw..ppl will talk about it and spread rumors..

[jennyjenny]

Uh, ew.

Well, you could mention it the next time you talk with your friend about this subject. And yeah, don't tell anyone. If word gets out that your friend's mother has porn, she would be humiliated.

[GoodCharlotteRoc...]

ewwwwwww sick! do NOT tell ANYONE except ur friend maybe! u could maybe talk to ur friend about...don't be suprised if she gets pissed off tho...............be careful wut u tell ppl!

[*xcaitlinx*]

i'd be glad it wasnt my mom.

[_sarcastic_]

agreed with the people above, don't tell anyone.
calm down, and think about how you would tell your friend, and when you do you've gotta prepare yourself for any reaction she might have

[misoshiru]

i'd definately be shocked.

and personally, i wouldnt tell her mom. it's between her mom and her family.

[levileh]

I would keep quiet...no, SILENT...about this. Switch places with your friend. If somebody told you your mom was doing porn, and they had seen it...

*shudders*

It's not risking your relationship with your friend, her relationship with her family, or, as previously stated, risking it getting out.

If you seriously can't take not telling anyone, look for the pictures you took and "discover" the mom pictures again, but with your friend right there. This is still pretty risky though.

[vampireduster]

I agree with ^^..dont tell others about what u saw..ppl will talk about it and spread rumors..

yes that is very true

[ThePrincessofTKD]

lol i`d keep it to myself and when you and your best friend are joking around, just joke around about parents lookin` at porn and see how she feels about the subject.

[Melissad1016]

Take a deep breath. I would be shocked and speechless if I had see that too. I think you should be careful about telling your friend though. The average person doesnt really want to know that there mother is involved in such things.

Also I would like to edit because Toya brought up a good point. I would advice you not tell anyone what you saw. People talk and it would be hurtful to your friend.

I agree completely! You have to be gentle if you tell your friend. Put yourself in her shoes and think how you would want the news told to you. And of course keep it a complete secret.

[SMUSHiENESS]

GASP* i would be horrifed too.
i suggest that you push it out of your mind and not tell anyone. ><

[slowtyper]

i would be horrified if it happened, dont tell anybody..thats how rumors start

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

I would shut up and pretend it never happened....seriously-if your going to tell anyone it should be your friend. Don't just blurt it out though. Take it slow. This is her mom we're talking about.

[miss barnes]

just keep it to yourself

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

i don't really know what i would do unless i was in the situation. but of course if your going to tell anybody make sure it is JUST your friend.

if she is a really good friend of yours then maybe you should tell her. but don't just come out and say "hey your mom does porn" lol. that would be bad. if you feel deep down she has the right to know this then go ahead and tell her.

or...

you can pretend it never happened. maybe if you keep a secret like this from your friend might be best and if she does somehow find out about this, it wouldn't be from you.

we don't know your friends personaility. you know what i mean? like we don't know how she would take this. you know her best since she's your friend...so do what you think is right.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Take a deep breath count to 5, keep you mouth shut, although your friend should know what you saw. BUT NOBODY ELSE!

[*not_your_average*]

Well, like mzkandi said, break it gently to your friend. And don't tell ANYONE except your friend.

[loljuliana]

you could break it slowly to her. if you dont wanna tell her, just bookmark it. she'll stumble across it sooner or later.

[angelshortipnai]

i suggest u talk to her VERY calmly and slowly..don't just blurt it out, 'cause if i was your friend i would kick your butt, lol j/k. but yea, as every1 says, DO NOT tell ne1 other than your friend...I wouldn't even tell ne1 other than my friend 'cause you'll never kno if they'll tell ne1 u know?[wow, that's confusing]

just make a plan or something, so she could see it for HERSELF if u dont want to tell her. tell her like, "hey, u kno the pics we took, i wanna see it"
then it should be on the computer then she'll look for it. then she'll see the pics of her mom..

yup. good luck. and try not to think about it too much o.o

[gOODpIRATE]

oooo chicky, that must be hard, and shocking . if i were you, i would keep it to myself, and try to get over it (because eventually you will). if she dosn't already know, they i suggest that you sort of let her find out on her own.

[megan_x3]

dont tell anyone like everyone said. people who are really blah will spread rumors about your friend ... =( keep it to yourself and maybe its the best idea not to telll your friend .. my friend told me that one of the girl in my class mom , she takes pix of her own vagina .. ? =/ thats weird .. sounds some what similar to you.

[hollesther]

Omg, that is just wrong. "It was a total accident " . Lol, just playing . I don't think you should tell your friend. Because if she says her mom is a slut, she probably already knows that her mom does that "stuff" . It would be weird to like talk about that with your best friend. Because like she knows you know that her mom does that er-stuff..