is it too early to like someone else after a, break up? i m confused. |
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 May 26 2005, 06:46 PM
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after breaking up wif ur bf or gf? how long do u have to wait before ur able to like someone else. i've known pplz who broke up wif their bf of gf and liked someone else and asked them out. and i used to think they were backstabbers. but now i m a backstabber, cus i juss dumped mai bf a week ago and i m starting to like a close friend of mine ( i think i like him if not i think i like hanging out wif him alot and talking to him and watever). so is it too early or okay? even though i like this dude ( i think i do idk) i still think about mai old bf. i get jealous sometimes when i c other girls talk to him, but at the same time, i don't really care. so i m so confused! do i still want mai bf and using this new dude as like a subsitute or something? HELP!
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May 26 2005, 07:52 PM
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 thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
is it right to say that there is even a time limit? there is no time limit.. live and let live.. dont let something pass you up just because you think about your old b/f.. especially if you broke up with him... get over it.. if you had a reason to dump him... then forget it
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May 26 2005, 08:03 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,710 |
i agree. There should'nt be any time limit. If you're over your old bf then go for it.
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May 26 2005, 08:27 PM
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well my ex kinda backstabb me sayin he doesnt need a gf right now coz im distractin hom from school but 3 days later he found a new gf .. i was like WTF??! ... well it`s ok a week later i got someone new =]
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May 26 2005, 08:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,924 |
typo - him*
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May 26 2005, 08:40 PM
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 Newbie of Goddess Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,346 |
There is no time limit for LOVE, somebody take one minute to love, somebody take one year to love. So what? If you Love him just go for it since you already broken with your ex. (Remember that you are single now & is your freedom to meet new friend)
well, both of you (you & ur ex) are human of course you two still have feeling to each others. But this feeling may not is LOVE, maybe is CARE only. Learn to let go when it's come to the end. |
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May 26 2005, 09:03 PM
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oh jeez hahaha
if you broke up with the guy there was obviously something wrong with him.. so there is no time limit on when you should start liking the next guy. it's not even wrong to like a guy while you're going out with guy.. 
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May 26 2005, 10:02 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
time limit? half the time people break up TO go out with someone else. time limit time shmitit...it also depends on HOW the break up went..smooth and nice...or rocky and ugly..that's a nice little factor.
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May 26 2005, 11:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
yeah.. confusing isn't it? but i'm not in this situatoin..but i thought about it. i would be so confused if i was in that situation.
do you just feel attracted to this close friend of yours? do you really want a serious relationship with him? or do you just want someone to flirt around with and play around a lil bit. I know.. having a crush is sometimes fun.. or mostly fun. having a crush and flirting with ur crush and making ur crush likes you is just fun! but are you looking forward a serious relationship? |
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May 26 2005, 11:50 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I don't think there is a time limit.
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May 27 2005, 12:55 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
It really depends on the person. And do you REALLY like this guy, or is it just a rebound?
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May 27 2005, 03:11 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
there isnt a time limit..if u r over the person hu broke up with u or hu u broke up with, then its ok to like someone else..
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May 27 2005, 03:40 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(lilliannnn @ May 27 2005, 10:03 AM) if you broke up with the guy there was obviously something wrong with him.. so there is no time limit on when you should start liking the next guy. it's not even wrong to like a guy while you're going out with guy..  Agreed. You're single now. You have 100% freedom to flirt and date someone else. Same goes for him. Once you break up, you don't own them anymore.. |
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May 27 2005, 06:35 AM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
there's no specific time on when you can date another guy after you break up with your bf. if you think you're ready for a new bf then go for it
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May 27 2005, 06:38 AM
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 deleted Group: Member Posts: 3,168 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,276 |
nope if you're free you're free. i usually wait 3 days before i start considering again but that's just me...
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May 27 2005, 07:28 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Maybe you didnt care about him as much as you thought you did?
Im like that , me and my bf break up , I find another guy and poof hes out of my head. |
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May 27 2005, 11:44 PM
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QUOTE(x shootingstar x @ May 26 2005, 11:14 PM) yeah.. confusing isn't it? but i'm not in this situatoin..but i thought about it. i would be so confused if i was in that situation. do you just feel attracted to this close friend of yours? do you really want a serious relationship with him? or do you just want someone to flirt around with and play around a lil bit. I know.. having a crush is sometimes fun.. or mostly fun. having a crush and flirting with ur crush and making ur crush likes you is just fun! but are you looking forward a serious relationship? yeh that's wat i m saying. do i really like mai best friend rite now? cus i used to like him since 3rd grade and he knows i used to like him cus i told him. but i guess i juss luv flirting wif him a lot. and foolin around. maybe a hug here and there. i've nvr thought about having a relationship wif him. a hug and hanging out wif each other. is that like asking for a serious relationship? i m only in 7th grade so idk wat u call a serioius relationship. and itz sad, cus i don't think he feels the same way about me as i do about him. mai ex is starting to piss me off neways. him and his new attitude. that's why i dumped him fyi. |
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