Hmm, guess I dont., Know her as well as i thought. Options

[MeanBastard]

Hmm, how do you guys/girls/shemales know when there is something wrong with a significant other? No facial expression, nice little facade. The significant other seems happy, but deep inside is distrought. How can you tell when someone is like this? Yeah, I need help. =/

Another thing, how exactly can you comfort someone when you don't know whats wrong. I know that one should be there and give her a shoulder to cry on or something. What else can I do? "It will be better soon." "Don't cry." Hah, oh man. Seriously, I don't know what to do. Nobody else can help me as I have asked. Any suggestions internet forumers?

[Azn_Angel13]

i don't know about ur significant other question but ur upset friend question, well sometime when someone is upset, they don't want everyone to know why they are upset. sometimes its something private ya know. if its ur close friend, then she would prolly tell u wats wrong. so if its someone u don't know really well, then maib u shouldn't like ask them wats wrong. the chances are that a ton of pple already asked the same question and that bugs them already. wat i do is offer them a tissue to dry up all their tears.

[Ballpointpencil]

Whenever my significant other is upset, I can tell from his eyes. He is good at putting on a mask so that most people can't tell, but his eyes look upset or hooded.
A few different things I do whenever he looks upset, write him a note saying 'hey, I care about you, if something is upsetting you let me know. I just want you to know that you can talk to me, or just sit or whatever' or something along those lines, or pull him over somewhere private and tell him in person. It usually works, even if he doesn't respond anymore than thanking me for caring.

[MeanBastard]

A few different things I do whenever he looks upset, write him a note saying 'hey, I care about you, if something is upsetting you let me know. I just want you to know that you can talk to me, or just sit or whatever' or something along those lines, or pull him over somewhere private and tell him in person. It usually works, even if he doesn't respond anymore than thanking me for caring.

Oh my god you are a genius.

Nvm, I remember I've told her that before. Whatever.

[x shootingstar x]

well.. just tell her you'll give her some time alone if she wants?

the fact is.. you can't really do anything but to comfort.. and comfort.. you can do it in many ways! you don't have to know what's upsetting them to comfort them. just be there i guess..

ha, what i've said is really nothing.

[aera]

one of my best guy friends is like this. he doesnt want anyone to know or anything, but i guess i can tell because i can just feel something different about him. the eyes can tell you something too. i just ask him if anythings wrong and if he wants to talk about it.

another one of my other closer friends also does this. but she hides everything and you can almost never tell. i guess she rubbed off on me a little because i eventually learned to hide everything too. i can tell if she is because im the same as her.

when they laugh or smile or anything, see if their eyes are the same.