Sexual Treatment of Spouses, Finding, or discussing what is right for you Options

[Vozedale]

My intent on this subject is treatment of your spouse when it comes to intercourse, as well as seeking your own feelings, without losing your virginity or being hurt. Also, this subject for for those who may have doubts or feelings about their own or their spouses methods. I would like to emphasize that the treatment of spouse in this kind of situation is important to the feelings and interpretations about sex of you and your spouse. THIS TOPIC DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO HAVE HAD SEXUAL EXPERIENCES.

First, I would like to encourage those of you who have never been in love, that you should not have sex, give love a chance to play a role in your sexual decisions.

Second, I would like to encourage that if are curious, yet unsure to what might be right for you, you should look up information on safety, as well as other information. There is a topic in the boy's locker that has some sites that are good for this information. I also encourage speaking with your parents.
I would also like to discourage feeling left out or pressured by your peers, I am 18 and I am a virgin. My stepdad was a virgin until he was 50 years old. BEING A VIRGIN IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A VIRGIN. Also, abstinence is NOT a loser quality, it is a DECISION and it is YOUR choice to make.

Third, I would like to discourage any posts on sexual experiences, but you may post on positive or negative thoughts or interpretations that sprung from any style. There should be no talking of positions or things you have done.

Lastly, I would like to discourage harsh criticism, feel free to have a discussion, but be courteous, be kind.