wat's the next step??, thenext stage in a relationship |
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 May 23 2005, 08:47 PM
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 Tasty.  Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784  |
so me and my bf have been going out for like 2 weeks now (i kno not long) but when we're together, it seems that all we do is cuddle and make out (not that i don't like it...i LUV it) but it seems like its getting repeatative, like thats what happens at the end of all our dates. and i don't think i'm ready for the whole sexual part of it (like 3rd base...blah blah u kno), and i kno he's alright, but do u guy know of ne thing to spice it up?? wats the next step?? oh and this all seems to happen in our cars, lol. grr...i need more pizzaz!
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May 23 2005, 08:50 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
maybe in a room instead?
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May 23 2005, 09:10 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
erhh, perhaps you can .. give each other hickeys? xb
or uhmm.. you can jst talk about stuff. you dont always have to makeout&stuff. xb |
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May 23 2005, 10:07 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
hugging? kisses on the lips or cheeks instead of making out
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May 23 2005, 10:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, you don't always have to make out... You can always just talk to each other; walk around, go out to eat, etc.
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May 24 2005, 01:04 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
pay spencers a visit and buy a few things.
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May 24 2005, 01:24 AM
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you could do things like let him give you a piggyback ride or take long walks. Play with each others hair (thats actually something I like to do)
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May 24 2005, 03:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
well yeah.. it will slowly lead to sex. but if you want don't want to feel like that.. just talk more to him i guess.. resist making out and things.
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May 26 2005, 05:53 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Agree with mzkandi. Piggyback rides are soo cutee!!
 Long walks on the beach at sunset are better.. 
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May 26 2005, 07:57 PM
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 thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
i think yall are moving way too fast.. and plus always doing it.. kind of makes it seem more like you do it because you think you have to.. just try to be sensual without it.. try moving it passed all the things a couple stereotypically does.. if that makes any sense.. find out how much he really likes you and hold out on him or something.. haha something fun..
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May 26 2005, 09:58 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
that's a weee bitt too fast for me..but really..find cool hip alternatives other than sex. now i sound like one of those crummy commericals on tv. i guess they work.
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May 27 2005, 01:02 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Talk instead of making out or physical stuff. I mean you can do both. But if you ONLY make out then it's sort of just like friends with benefits.
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