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| *Azarel* |
 May 22 2005, 10:14 PM
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They work.
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| *mzkandi* |
May 22 2005, 11:24 PM
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I agree with Anna, they can work but so does the search button
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May 22 2005, 11:24 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe  Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Long distance relationships depend on the person.
If you're the kind of person that constantly needs physical affection, obviously not seeing the person you like/love for long periods of time is going to cause alot of pain and stress. I've been in three long distance relationships. #1 He moved away from me to NY; we tried dating, and lasted for six months until I broke up with him. I got tired of just being able to talk to him, since I was still in school and couldn't visit him, and he didn't have the money to visit me often. We're not really talking right now, but we're on good terms; This was about three years ago. #2 He lived near me, but went to college about three hours away. Seemed like alot at the time, but we dated for about three months; It was quite serious; It wasn't so bad so we got to see each other every other weekend, since he'd come home to visit then. Ended up breaking up with me for some odd reason. We're good friends now. #3 He ended up living about five hours away. I'd drive down to see him whenever I could, since we had just started dating.. Then he found an apartment, and asked if I wanted to move in with him; Been with him ever since. This one wasn't that much of a long distance relationship when we were dating. We were friends through long distance for many months, and lost contact for almost three months because of this... But, hey, waiting pays off, at least in this case; living with the love of my life. :) Again, it depends. If you can handle being without that person until the next time you see them, then hey, go for it.. Otherwise don't waste your time, especially if you think about taking advantage of the situation and see other guys while that person lives so far away and might have a hard time finding out about you and whomever else. |
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| *XLilAznGrl592X* |
May 22 2005, 11:33 PM
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lol srry i didnt search i just went through the forums and pressed CTROL + F hoping that there wasnt something on this already... wow the last post was long and im so sleepy im gonna read that 2morrow lol
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May 22 2005, 11:38 PM
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They depend on the couple.. by long-distance, do you mean ONLINE or like, once in awhile seeing eachother but most of the time being separated ?
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May 22 2005, 11:47 PM
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i think they're dumb ..
but like .. as long as tha couple can see each other like once a week at least . then it works .. but like ONLINE relationships .. that's wack .. |
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May 22 2005, 11:51 PM
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not for long =(
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May 23 2005, 12:02 AM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
they work depending on how much you can put into the relationship. plus they give an "i miss you" feeling and you cant get sick of them or bored of them i guess. plus it also kinda says if you can really trust the person or not. im actually in one righ tnow O_O and we are happy. ima visit him in summer
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| *Azarel* |
May 23 2005, 01:12 AM
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QUOTE(jnukes @ May 22 2005, 9:47 PM) but like ONLINE relationships .. that's wack .. 
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May 23 2005, 05:57 AM
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they work just fine...
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May 23 2005, 06:36 AM
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i think they work
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May 23 2005, 06:50 AM
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They don't work for long for some reasons. That's hard... temptations are around.
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May 23 2005, 06:53 AM
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Depends on how dedicated anf faithful each person is to their mate. If they both really care enough to keep the relationship healthy, then it has a better chance of working out. It's not just that they all "work out" or that they all "don't work out".
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May 23 2005, 05:50 PM
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I'm sure they will work as long as you guys talk to each other... if you guys really love each other it will work. you gotta have faith in your partner. as of now i'm not in a long distance relationship but once sept. rolls around i will be since my bf is going away for college and i know we can get thru it. <3
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May 24 2005, 06:50 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Some long distance relationships work...but many do not. A long distance relationship will work if the person....both actually....are OK with not seeing each other every moment of the day....or....how much they love each other and if they are really willing to dedicate themselves to the relationship and to each other.
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May 24 2005, 08:26 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
For a while but my first love was a long distance relationship. It was the best/worse of my life but worth it. It can last if you make it last.
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May 24 2005, 10:40 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Well it depends. If you're commited to that kind of relationship then yeah it can last. I know some couples who had a long distance relationship since they were in middle school and now they're married.
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May 25 2005, 04:04 AM
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long distance relationships are really tough
follow your heart. if he/she is worth it, you will want to put in the effort. But just remember there are a lot of fish in the sea |
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