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 May 19 2005, 06:00 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW  Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409  |
okay. so, basically there's this guy at school i've been crushing on since forever. (probably about two years) we went to elementary school together, actually just 6-8th grade, and now we're in high school together. the thing is, we used to be pretty good friends, but now i'm having trouble talking to him because i haven't talked to him a long time. i've gotten with a new group of friends this year that he doesnt really like (what doesnt help is his stupid preppy friend who's always dissing on my friends). but i still like him!! i'm almost positive he used to like me too, but i dont know about it anymore. we sort of avoid each other and ignore each other. i just cant think of anything to say to him!! its so easy to be like, yeah i'll talk to him, but when i actually get the chance to do it, i back down. i took him to sadie but it didnt work out like i planned because i stuck with my friends and he sort of stuck with his, and we were separated for most of the night. its just that i miss him and how we used to be tight. we sort of have similar friends, but i'm breaking away into my "rebel" group (we go to a private school) and his friends are still stuck in their prudish mindset. i just dont really know what to do!! the way he acts sometimes makes me feel like he hates me, but sometimes i feel like he's looking at me, although i could be wrong. but i do catch him glancing at me every once and a while. i talked to a guy friend who he's friends with too, and he said that he's just really shy around girls. but i cant tell what's going on! i dont know what to get things moving again. what should i do about it? HELP!
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May 19 2005, 06:05 PM
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 when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
jus forget both the frineds and try to find him alone one day and say hi. then if he doesnt say anythin or somethin he doesnt wanna get bothered.
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May 19 2005, 08:07 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
you took him to sadie but you didnt talk to him? hmm... well, at least you had the courage to ask him. if he said yes, then its possible that he might still like you.
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May 19 2005, 10:10 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
i can relate with the guy part, but not really the splitting groups part...
yes, i had this guy friend who i was amazing friends with and we were EXTREMELY close...we hugged all the time, held hands, leaned on each other, etc yeah i know it sounds like a relationship, and a lot of people thought so, but we were just really good friends. but i ended up really liking him, and lots of people thought vice versa as well. then he thought i was getting really bitchy and he started ignoring me more and more...and now, since im still friends with most of his friends, we talk occasionally, but we tend to avoid each other and we rarely talk anymore. yeah, i miss him, and a bunch of his closest friends still think that he likes me but i don't think so. and he is stubborn and won't actually talk with me about it. okay so here is my answer....try to talk to him. really. i know you say you're having trouble with that, but just ask if you can talk to him alone for a while and explain how you feel or something. Okay, so i've never done that, but i've come close, and you'll probably manage to sort things out, ya know. good luck :) |
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May 22 2005, 04:22 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
find a time when you 2 are alone and then start a comversation.
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May 22 2005, 04:46 PM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ May 22 2005, 4:22 PM) find a time when you 2 are alone and then start a comversation.  lol comversation... ok u have to know what he likes to talk about or favorite things... try to talk with him about it or something... try to help him spark a interest in you of some kind. |
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May 22 2005, 07:15 PM
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just forget his friends who hate your friends. and just go up to him one day and be like "oh do you remember when we ______ cause yesterday i was at home and i did the same thing!! i was cracking up like crazy!" it's good if you laugh along too lols to make you look "non-stupid." lols
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May 23 2005, 08:34 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
well first off, get over ignoring and not having ne thing to say around each other, cuz if u want to be around him that badly, then u're gonna need to be comfy with him (TRUST me, this will help in the long run). just strike up random convos with him. and if he hates his new "group" so much, then take him outta there and show him how much fun he can have with YOU. u gotta get ur self out there!!!! i hate it when girls are always saying i like him but i;m shy blah blah...well then how will u ever let him know how u feel?! u gotta give him signs, and ignoring him, or getting tounge tied won't do it. all u gotta do is put urself out there and start talkin!
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