would you tell that person, you like them? |
 Mar 8 2005, 11:04 PM
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Heart | broken -Once again.  Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,092  |
okay i have this problem where i like someone so much that im so scared to tell him and that he'll tell his friends and say why is she asking me that? im just afraid of rejection {YES i know its part of life} but what would you do?
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Mar 12 2005, 06:30 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
i think i'll
just simply go to them and say: " hey u kno wht? i've a huge crush on u" ...lolz Love ya*muah |
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Mar 13 2005, 12:27 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
rejection..like you said..is a part of life. Get Over It. If you think he's gonna tell his friends when you tell him how you feel and laugh about it..then why even bother thinking about it? He's obviously not right for you....But just talk to him....or write him a note if it makes it any easier for you..
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Mar 13 2005, 12:30 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
i tell them anyways... they will feel special then hahaha. i tell them that i like them, but i dont say "wana go out with me?" i wait for them to say that.
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Apr 30 2005, 10:08 PM
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i would cause then at least they will kno if u do or not... i told sum1 i like them and they liked me bak! so its always good to tell the truth
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Apr 30 2005, 10:32 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
i guess; telling them faster is better. you'd be even more hurt if you found out later that hes not intrested, and you find you;ve wasted a lot of time.
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Apr 30 2005, 11:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
my friend did that.......at first she was freaked out...but then she said she glad she did it...she feels more comfortable
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Apr 30 2005, 11:28 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
maybe. i was sooo scared to ask my crush. i didnt though and im glad because now i got a great boyfriend
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Apr 30 2005, 11:57 PM
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hehe,this reminds me of a story.one time i had a huge crush on this guy,so i had his little sister ask him 4 me,and it didnt turn out too well.just go for it,eventually you'll find someone better.
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May 1 2005, 12:52 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I only tell if I think I am ready. I almost tried to tell this guy I liked him. But all this stress and pressure stepped in. I say, wait intill you think you are ready.
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May 2 2005, 11:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,559 |
i would try to get to one of his friends and ask them if he likes you......if so then go for it........also try to flirt with the guy a little....let him know u are interested without actually saying it........also sometimes a guy really likes it if u are direct and just tell them.......there are tons of options........hope everything goes good for you!
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May 3 2005, 12:03 AM
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 The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
I would..
Breath... Stretch Shake then let it go! LOL I knoe it's nerve wraking.. but i'm going throguh the same thing.. Just follow those steps!! Lol |
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May 3 2005, 12:04 AM
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I liked this guy I went to college with for 2 years. The minute I saw him I liked him but I never had the guts to actually say anything. He just graduated last week and I never got to tell him how I feel. I would say GO FOR IT! You've got nothing to lose.
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May 3 2005, 04:52 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I think you tell him. If he rejects you, then don't worry. There's other guys out there who'd be good for you.
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May 3 2005, 06:00 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
I wouldn't tell, but I'm chicken so don't do that. I say go for it. Just joke around about it. "Hey-you'll never guess what I have to say to you" or something. Come prepared with a joke incase of rejection. (Yes..I believe jokes will cure the world one day.)
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May 3 2005, 06:00 PM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
-double post
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May 3 2005, 06:03 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Well. I haven't told someone that to there face...in a long...long..time.
But back in the day, I was really good friends with him. We talked on the phone everynight. Everynihgt eitehr I asked him or he asked me "who do you like" Then we'd be like "no one.." then one day we were guessing...and we kept naming names. Then it came to eachother and the answer was "maybeeee" Yeah so I didn't use...the exact words. It wasn't a "hey whatsup i like you btw"...It was gradual. |
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May 3 2005, 07:01 PM
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lols i was gonna tell the guy i like that i like him in person but i found it so much easier if a friend told him instead, if you get rejected hey at least you did what you had to do.
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May 3 2005, 10:35 PM
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erm.. Ask him when hes alone. Buh if u think hes gonna make fun of u is he worth it?
The worst he can do is say no rite? Ask a friend to see what he thinks of u if you're nervous. |
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May 3 2005, 11:13 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Ok... Its not like your asking him out or anything... Just like.. write him a note telling him you like him... It's not that hard.. If he doesnt like you, then you can just get over him.
I got my recentest boyfriend by telling him I liked him in a note. 
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May 3 2005, 11:56 PM
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 kATARiNA Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,352 |
i would tell his fren and just maybe his friend would help...
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May 19 2005, 03:41 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
I ended up telling them because it kept bugging me.
"It's better to regret something you have done than something you haven't done." He might just like you back. (But never get your hopes up real high - that will just bring you down more if he doesn't.) It will just keep bugging you and bugging you and bugging you if you put it off. But it's completely up to you, really. |
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May 20 2005, 12:36 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,697 |
i told this guy i like him and tell him not to tell anyone, but then i think (pretty sure he did) he did and he said he didnt
 even though some ppl already know |
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May 21 2005, 11:54 PM
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probably not... cuz i'd be 2 scared 2 -.-
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May 22 2005, 02:07 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i`d give him a hint, and if he can`t take a hint, i`d tell him.
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May 22 2005, 08:40 AM
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i liked som1 and never told him b4 and ended up not liking him anymore...
 lol...
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