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 May 15 2005, 07:28 PM
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 <-[RaWR]->  Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133  |
Its hard to see your ex with somone else. you can get jealous and all that crap. but to say the truth Im not jealous.Its just that I know shes not over me and I know Im not over her. But I still cant talk to her, its like when you first fall for someone. Your sure and then your unsure, and then you just dont know what to do. Only this time I cant talk to her. I need to let her go can I get some advice on how?
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May 15 2005, 07:47 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Just try not to think about her alot and try to look for someone new. Everybody feels that way every once in a while.
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May 15 2005, 07:59 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
QUOTE(aznhunnie6o1 @ May 15 2005, 7:47 PM) [color=hotpink][size=1][font=Arial]Just try not to think about her alot. . .  agreed. try doing that also by focusing maybe more on your grades. . or you're friend life. . or try to get something to do that you know will take alot of effort and will take a long time. try not to be around her as much also. |
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May 15 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Just focus on something else. If you're both not over eachother than why are you apart? Find another girl or something.
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May 15 2005, 08:54 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
^exactly. if you two arent over each other, why arent you two together?
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May 15 2005, 09:05 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it is hard to forget someone, but you can occupy yourself with something else
it's ok to get jealous, i get jealous when my 'ex' talk to someone else (and we only went out for like a month) |
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May 15 2005, 09:22 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
r u really about to let her go?? if you KNOW that you 2 are supposed to be together, then (i kno this sounds cliche, but its so true) follow your heart. pull her aside and ask her about her feelings. just get her alone to talk (make sure u mention its just to talk, for now..lols) and talk it out. she's a girl, and if u have a feeling that she's not over you, then she totally isn't. trust me, girls don't forget those types of things, especially love. if you absolutely need to get over her, then i'd say try to occupy ur mind with sum1 else. find sum1 who will luv ya more then she did.
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May 15 2005, 09:25 PM
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I been into this situation before. i know how you feel man. Theres nothing really you can do. Just let time goes and find a new one and focus what you gotta do.
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May 15 2005, 09:30 PM
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that is so immature
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May 15 2005, 10:28 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Find something to distract you. Find a new girl...or hang out with your friends more. Don't think about her so much.
And it's perfectly fine to get jealous. Me and my ex went out for a month, and we've bee split up for half a year now..and I still get jealous whenever I see him talking/flirting with another girl in the hallways or in class. *Shrugs* But remeber, life goes on. |
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May 15 2005, 10:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
like eeveryone else has said, you just have to put all your time & energy into something else, like a favorite hobby, sport, school/grades, etc. so that you won't even have the time to think about her.
but hrmm, so if you both like each other as you say, what happened? i mean... shouldn't your ex be dating you and not some other guy? i think someone said to pull her aside and talk to her about your feelings, but if she's happy with her new bf then don't make things harder/more confusing for her by saying that you still have feelings for her... |
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May 16 2005, 12:56 AM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
If you're not at all jealous, then how can you not be over her? Jealousy is a sign of embedded emotion and if you're not emoting then it seems as if you're over her.
Anyway, if you say you're not over her and you can't talk to her, maybe you need an alternate means of conversation. IM-ing and e-mail are good ways of expressing your feelings and lessen some of the stress of actual talking. They allow you to formulate your thoughts carefully rather than just speaking from the top of your head, which can be nerve-wrecking, not to mention you might say the wrong thing, and so on and so forth. |
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May 16 2005, 02:00 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
ahhh..i know what u mean...
just give ur self time and concentrate about other things like school work, sports, or whatever u like to do... |
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May 16 2005, 09:58 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I've been in this type of situation before....just try and move on, not think of her....and just find new hobbies.....give it time basically...
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May 17 2005, 09:16 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Thats why I date most people that dont go to my school but its still hard to move on from my first love. I check his xanga alot and miss him hella alot but I have to find a way to move on and i am.
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May 18 2005, 04:31 PM
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<-[RaWR]-> Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133 |
Ive been doing what you guys have been saying to do for a long time and well those things just dont really seem to matter as much if shes not in my life.I feel like Im gonna be one of those people who are so into what they do that they dont see whats right in front of them. I dont want that to be me. Thanks for the advice though.
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May 18 2005, 06:30 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
this happens alot. you see one of your ex;s and get jealous. i dont see anything you can do but try? (im sorry if that wasnt helpful but im still trying to figure out how to do that)
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May 18 2005, 06:52 PM
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Hmm that tends to happen, I guess you should take up an activity (basketball) that might get your mind off her, or maybe you could try avoiding her.
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