should i give up?, or stay liking him? |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
 May 10 2005, 04:54 PM
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Well here's how it starts off, I started to like this guy in my drama class sometime after we spend a day at a drama theater. I told him to tell him I like him and she agreed she'd talk to him about it and ask if he felt the same. She came back to me with good news and bad. He hesitated to tell her anything after she told him that I liked him. Finally he said "well. . .i like her too." Then he walked away. My friend went up to him and asked what was wrong. He took a long time to answer. until his friend came up and said "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!" He nodded and looked down to the floor. So I still like him til this day and I'm not sure if I should give up on him or not cause it's not really good if I like someone who's already taken. But the thing is eversince I liked him I've been paying attention in my toughest subjects, my grades have shot up, I now study each night before a test, and I'm doing so much better. I really wanna become smart so I could impress him ^^;; yeah, if I didn't like him i wouldn't give a flying hoot what I got on a grade.
So I don't know what should I do? Give it all up or stay liking him. ___+EDIT Since what I'm gonna talk about relates to this entry that I made I'm going to post it here to save space. Today I found out that there's no chance of him and his girlfriend breaking up, yet I'm still going for him. I mean my grades are still high, and i like him very much. My friend asked him what he's gonna do and he said that he didn't know but said that he "loved her very much" Perhaps it's time to find someone else, or just wait? I wouldn't want to regret my mistake later on in life. |
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May 10 2005, 04:57 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3  Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
idk janee i suggest you just go up and talk to him dont give up on him just yet!!!
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May 10 2005, 06:34 PM
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I think you should get close to him and be his close friend, so don't give up on him. I guess you should wait a bit, and when he's single again, take him!
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May 10 2005, 06:44 PM
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don't give up on him- but don't steal him from his current girlfriend...just be friends and if his relationship does go downhill then you'll still be there
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 10 2005, 06:54 PM
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ahaha thanks guys well i still need a few more opinions anyone?
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May 10 2005, 07:05 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
dont give up jane. for one thing, he helps you get better grades. if you give up, who knows, your grades might drop back down. and also, you seem to like him alot. it doesnt matter that he has a girlfriend, as long as you arent trying to break them up, it's okay =)
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May 10 2005, 08:25 PM
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dont give up. he said he liked you even though he has a girlfriend, but at least youre not trying to break them up. and now you get better grades and pay attention in class. my friend told me once that it was good to have a crush on someone because it makes you want to improve yourself and even if the person doesnt like you back, then you still have the improvement. so both ways, you still end up with something.
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May 10 2005, 08:59 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
how long has this been going on for?if its like a year since that happened then maybe u should move on...but if it hasnt been a long time ago, then u shouldnt give up...but u shouldnt be concetrating and doing ur work just to impress him...b/c if he doesnt do anything after he broke up with his gf then ur grades r going to drop....ya...
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May 10 2005, 09:02 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
no don't give up. it doesn't matter if he has a gf, just stay close friends with him, just don't try and break them up
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May 11 2005, 04:14 PM
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QUOTE how long has this been going on for? it's been exactly 25 days since I liked him, (yes i counted) QUOTE no don't give up. it doesn't matter if he has a gf, just stay close friends with him, just don't try and break them up Thanks, nah i would never try to break them up. Any one else got any advice? |
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May 11 2005, 10:21 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
well, i think you shouldnt really like him, cause he already has a girlfriend.
and for your grades, instead of him encouraging you, why dont you let the thought of your sucessful future encourage you? xb ehh, i hope i helped. ;T |
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May 12 2005, 02:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Its stupid to wait. Just give it up. is what I'm saying.
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May 13 2005, 08:45 PM
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 POPcorny dude. Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,648 |
heyy jane this is jenn (moo.) new cb username.
if he likes you and his gf....what a pimp. |
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May 13 2005, 10:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
lol the same thing is happening with my ****bestfriend lol but its oppisite, my ****bestfriend is taken and she likes this other dude which likes her back but she is taken
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May 14 2005, 10:05 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If he's umm...the reason for your grades and everything...then by all means, don't give up on him...But don't try to steal him from the girlfriend either....just stay friends and wait...until he's single....
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 15 2005, 10:26 AM
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Thanks for all your advice, so the majority of it says to not give up on him, and yet some say I should. Well we'll see as the days progress.
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May 15 2005, 01:13 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,466 |
I fancy a boy, (well nah.... dumb thing to say... nice start!) and well, we went out for a little under two months, and that may not seem like a long time, but it seemed for like so much longer... and he dumped me for a mate of mine. Luckily she loves ME more than him, infact she dislikes him a hell of a lot. Anyway, I still like him, because he meant a lot to me. Should I still stay like this? I mean like keep an open mind? what? But another thing, He won't get as close to me as we did even before we went out. Any tips on that? Please say you do!
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May 15 2005, 03:01 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
jane jane. lols. i told you this already but i'll say it again.
first, wait untill you find out if hes trying to make his move on you to ask you out since he does like you, or find out if hes going to stick with his girlfriend or not. i'll ask him again for you for him to decide, then you could choose yourself if you want to still go for him 
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 15 2005, 05:14 PM
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Lols nancy that doesn't make much sense, and if he did do one of those things that's really not fair to "Jillian" I mean if he made a move and was still going out with Jullian. Harsh. x___X
___+EDIT Nancy I'll talk to you online about this ahaha. |
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