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 May 14 2005, 11:30 AM
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You want to know why it feels like everytime you ask me to hang out, it feels like you have "yank my arms" to go?
I'll tell you why. It's because in front of our group of friends, you have to constanly remind me of my flaws. Every crevice of my body has been insulted by you and yet I just sit there and swallow every insult you've thrown at me. I came into college oblivious to some of my imperfections. But as the years go by, the more I am unable to stare at myself in the mirror because of YOU. I know perfectly well that my nose is flat, that my forehead is wide, that my skin is not soft, that my face is too round, that my lips were not full and that I was not beautiful. I don't need anyone to constantly remind me of how I look. Why does it concern you so? Look away if it bothers you so much. Every girl thinks that she is cute or pretty in some way or there is a piece of her that she thinks is gorgeous. SO, how DARE some of you take that away from them? ESPECIALLY when you are not perfect yourselves. Don't you get it? It is because of these stupid people like you who love to say unnecessary things that shatter these girls' self esteem. And there is your answer to why I have low self esteem. You break down my self esteem just to make our friends laugh. But do realize that everytime you do it, a piece of our friendship is lost. And after awhile, these girls that you make fun of....just want to get plastic surgery, hide from everyone and just disappear....like me. |
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May 15 2005, 03:27 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
wow, deep. .
is this related to you or dedicated to anyone?? |
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May 15 2005, 04:00 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
QUOTE(imadorkabledxd @ May 14 2005, 11:30 AM) I know perfectly well that my nose is flat, that my forehead is wide, that my skin is not soft, that my face is too round, that my lips were not full and that I was not beautiful. I don't need anyone to constantly remind me of how I look. Why does it concern you so? Look away if it bothers you so much.  you shouldnt spend time with somebody like that. obviously they are NOT you're true friend. why dont you try just saying this to them in front of their face. if you dont, that person will just continue this process and soon enough make everybody ELSE feel bad. that person needs to understand straight up that this isnt the way a friendship should be and shouldnt hurt one person just to impress 5 [give or take] others. "EVERYBODY IS HERE FOR A PURPOSE"we shouldnt risk or lose anybody just because it is only hurting 1 person. |
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May 15 2005, 05:19 PM
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Whoever that person is, he/she has a really shallow mind, tell her/him, f**k off...mind her/his business.
QUOTE(imadorkabledxd @ May 14 2005, 5:30 PM) You want to know why it feels like everytime you ask me to hang out, it feels like you have "yank my arms" to go?
I'll tell you why. It's because in front of our group of friends, you have to constanly remind me of my flaws. Every crevice of my body has been insulted by you and yet I just sit there and swallow every insult you've thrown at me. I came into college oblivious to some of my imperfections. But as the years go by, the more I am unable to stare at myself in the mirror because of YOU. I know perfectly well that my nose is flat, that my forehead is wide, that my skin is not soft, that my face is too round, that my lips were not full and that I was not beautiful. I don't need anyone to constantly remind me of how I look. Why does it concern you so? Look away if it bothers you so much. Every girl thinks that she is cute or pretty in some way or there is a piece of her that she thinks is gorgeous. SO, how DARE some of you take that away from them? ESPECIALLY when you are not perfect yourselves. Don't you get it? It is because of these stupid people like you who love to say unnecessary things that shatter these girls' self esteem. And there is your answer to why I have low self esteem. You break down my self esteem just to make our friends laugh. But do realize that everytime you do it, a piece of our friendship is lost. And after awhile, these girls that you make fun of....just want to get plastic surgery, hide from everyone and just disappear....like me. |
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May 16 2005, 08:51 PM
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QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ May 15 2005, 3:27 PM) wow, deep. . is this related to you or dedicated to anyone?? it's about me :P |
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May 16 2005, 09:08 PM
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ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
oh! haha, i knew that
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May 17 2005, 12:10 AM
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WOw, that is amazing and a very deep. I love it.
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May 17 2005, 01:46 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
That's a beautiful piece.
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