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 May 9 2005, 08:06 PM
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I've been goin out with this guy for a long time now..We both love each other a lot and its crazy cause we are always talking or together..But he is always on his "best friend" i mean he says that they are just really close but my friends tell me they see them holding hands and him with his arm around her..its crazy im so confused..
 Lately we've been arguing about this topic he tells me that its dumb reason to be fighting over but i dono.. but im not sure if i should leave him or stay with him!..if i stay with him i dont think i could take them being all over each other pleasse hellp! 
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May 9 2005, 08:10 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
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he could be holding her hand and putting his arm around her because shes going through some tought times and needs him to be there for her. and if the two of you are crazy about each other and love each other, then i dont think he'll cheat on you. maybe you should talk to him, and try not to argue. listen to what he has to say and dont interupt. and if he doesnt give you and answer, another possibility is to ask the girl, but there might be a fight. |
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May 9 2005, 08:11 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you should keep talking about it. don't lecture him, just tell him how you feel. he shouldn't say that it's a stupid topic because you feel strongly about it.
tell him why it upsets you that they hold hands and etc |
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May 9 2005, 09:18 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ask him what is going on without starting a fight with him. if he doesn't tell you then the worst thing to do is to ask his best friend.
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May 9 2005, 10:11 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
tell him, but not in an accusing way. just say you've heard stuff and you dont want to fight because you love him, but you're a little weirded out by what he's doing. and just ask him. if you really feel so strong about it, he shouldn't dismiss it like its stupid. if he really cared for you, he'd discuss it with you.
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May 9 2005, 10:12 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i agree with akinachan..maybe shes going through a hard time and needs someone..so ya..
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May 12 2005, 10:18 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
deff talk to him. communication is key in any relationship. if he gets all testy and crazed because u brought up this topic (mind you: bring it up calmly and seriously), then i'd say there's something fishy. he shouldn't get all mad because u're concerned about him. if he does love you then he'll want to talk about it and make sure that u feel as comfortable as possible.
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May 13 2005, 01:56 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
QUOTE(chii @ May 9 2005, 6:11 PM) you should keep talking about it. don't lecture him, just tell him how you feel. he shouldn't say that it's a stupid topic because you feel strongly about it. tell him why it upsets you that they hold hands and etc  I agree with chii. Have a serious talk with him about it. |
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May 13 2005, 04:13 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
QUOTE(chii @ May 9 2005, 5:11 PM) you should keep talking about it. don't lecture him, just tell him how you feel. he shouldn't say that it's a stupid topic because you feel strongly about it. tell him why it upsets you that they hold hands and etc i agree because just breaking up w/ him if you like him would be kinda of sad. but i really think that you should talk to him and maybe it will clear somethings up. |
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May 13 2005, 05:41 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i agree with chii. don't lecture him, but tell him how you feel.
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May 13 2005, 05:26 PM
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Yeah have a talk with him if he complains just ignore him and say how you feel about him holding her and stuff.
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May 13 2005, 07:31 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
don't assume, but you shouldn't be not doubting either. make him tell you the truth, or he just isnt worth it.
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May 13 2005, 10:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
hmmm... i would be feeling the same way .. i really dont know what to say about this
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May 14 2005, 01:07 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Why don't you talk to him? Tell him how it makes you feel when you see him holding her hand and being so close to her...tell him that even though you two are friends....best friends even...it still makes you feel uncomfortable when you see him like that....then let him explain...and work it out...but if you still feel uncomfortable about it and he doesn't respect you and just back off and lessen on the holding hands, etc.....then I guess you'll just have to leave this guy....
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