SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO BE PISSED AT ME, ..advice would be so helpful right now.. |
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 May 11 2005, 04:30 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3  Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793  |
my friend totally HAS NO RIGHT to be mad at me
 My friend (we'll call her S) was going out with this guy, and i started liking this guy (we'll call him J) that S use to like. i didnt think it would matter if i liked him cause she already have a boyfriend and besides J never belongs to her so its not like she claims him  well she broked it of with her bf and i told my close friends i like J which were also S close friends. well S found out that i like J and she got SO pissed of she started talking alot of crap behind my back (she just found out yesterday) and she started saying that the people i told werent her "true friends* cause they didnt tell her that i like J. now i dont care if shes pissed at me but at other people that has nothing to do with this?! thats just wrong!!! and shes saying that people i told are backstabbing her for not telling her but if they told they would be backstabbing me so whats the point!?! this is a conversation on aim she had with one of the poeple i told:::ii x **** ****: BECUS I THOUGHT SHE CARED ii x **** ****: BUT NOW ITS ALL JUST B***SH*T TO HER AINT IT?! ii x **** ****: IM JUST LIKE A F***ING TOY WHO SHE USED N THREW AWAY?! ii x **** ***: WHY IS IT THAT SHE ALWAYS FEELS LIKE SHES RIGHT?! ii x **** ****: WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE WHO I LOVE SO MUCH ii x **** ****: WOULD F***ING BACKSTAB ME LIKE THIS ii x **** ****=S |
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May 11 2005, 04:32 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
it's just not worth it to complain
girls are bitches. |
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May 11 2005, 04:33 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i dont get why she's mad. .
i understand why she's upset, but i mean. .you put her feelings before yours. you said you wouldnt go out with J because you knew that S wouldnt really like it.  -- edit i forgot to add. you didnt backstab her, and neither did we. because you told us to not tell, and we didnt. a promise is a promise. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 11 2005, 04:35 PM
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Well it's true that she doesn't have a right to be mad at you and how is it called backstabbing, I mean she told me not to tell you something and I didn't it and you didn't think it was backstabbing did you. I mean you like someone big deal I mean you can't control who you like.
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May 11 2005, 04:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
i agree with juliana and jane(=
as much as a close friend i am to susan; i have to agree on yu this time. i mean; a guy is a guy, why should two best friends fight onver one guy. and she never gone out woth him, so i think, she cant really say that yu cant like him. |
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May 11 2005, 04:54 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
tell her that she is stupid and she needs to STFU!
 she does have no right to be mad. she is probably just jealous. maybe SHE isn't the real friend here...not you. 
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May 11 2005, 04:56 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
She's just jealous you like him. Gosh, doesn't she know you have feelings, too? She needs to Stfu. I swear.
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May 11 2005, 04:59 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
you're not backstabbing her.
trust me. shes just bitching around....PMS lately? |
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May 11 2005, 04:59 PM
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reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
you're not backstabbing her.
trust me. shes just bitching around....PMS lately? edittt ah sorry, my internet went all weird. i didn't know it had already gone through, sorry for the double post. |
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May 11 2005, 06:05 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
well you cant control who you like. liking someone that your friend likes is not backstabbing. knowing your friend likes someone while you dont but asking them out is backstabbing. and she has a boyfriend right? then why is she mad?
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May 11 2005, 06:13 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,761 |
WELL I N0E DAT SHE AINT G0T RIGHTS T0 B PISS AT Y0U..ND I D0NT GET H0W IT IS CALL BACKSTABBING...SIGHS..<3
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May 12 2005, 12:41 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wow umm... yea you should definitely talk to her, and if she's still screaming or w.e. then just forget her altogether. sounds like she's like a major drama queen
 and explain the situation to your friends... like i mean you liked him, but S had a bf already and it's not like you tried to make a move (did you?) or anything, etc.
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May 12 2005, 12:45 AM
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wow. your friend sounds like a complete drama queen. seriously. she should get over herself...you did nothing wrong, besides, she HAD a boyfriend...try to talk to her if you can. good luck.
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May 12 2005, 07:52 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
she doesnt sound like a very good friend :[
talk to her and explain, and if she doenst want to listen, its not your problem anymore. |
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May 12 2005, 07:59 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no you didnt backstab her. it's her own fault that she's mad even though she has no right to be. ignore her.
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May 12 2005, 11:53 AM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
QUOTE(airam @ May 11 2005, 4:32 PM) girls are bitches.  haha that is so true sometimes. i know i can be too. i think S is just stupid, no offense cuz she had a boyfriend righ? i mean all you did was like the guy, its not like you did anything wit him (did ya?) dats totally not backstabbing her. a promise is a promise even if your keeping it from your other best friend. it shouldnt matter if you liked the guy cuz she had a boyfriend. i think it bothers her cuz she feels like its her property and she's one of those girls where everythin has to evolve around her. i personally think she has no right to be mad. you let her cool off and if she feels like talkin, talk to her. if not then whatever, its not worth your time if she's goin to get huffity puffity over you liking a guy who she has nothing with. |
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May 12 2005, 11:58 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
=/ You'll probably make up in a few days anyway. Girls are just..like that. Maybe she still possibly has a little thing for him? I know that if I had gone out with a guy, even if I currently had a bf..there might a a few feelings left over. So if my friend started liking him..I'd first want her to ask if I'm alright with it. And I'd probably be fine with it. Sometimes it's just better for them to ask before..I'm gonna stop right here..I've lost my train of though.
I hope things work out =/ |
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May 12 2005, 01:13 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(airam @ May 11 2005, 1:32 PM) it's just not worth it to complain girls are bitches. so true. ...except me and my freind, we're perfect  
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May 12 2005, 02:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Your right she really does have no right to be pissed at you. Wow, she's already going out with a guy... Sigh.. what more does she want?
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May 15 2005, 12:55 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You are right. She has no right to be mad at you because you like a guy that she never even went out with after she had a boyfriend and everything. She has no right to claim him to begin with either. Besides, no one revolves around her, if they did tell her, they would be backstabbing you...well and I guess it wasn't like she deserved to know or anything...so I guess...they were just being good friends by not telling her since it was none of her concern or didn't even relate to her. Tell her she needs to get a life and move on...and to stfu.
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May 15 2005, 03:27 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
oh wow. that's really messed up.
BACKSTABBING? EXCUSE ME? please. and it's not like she CLAIMED J. so retarded. |
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