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 May 10 2005, 07:00 PM
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well- I told James (the guy I liked) that I liked him, he proceeded to act the same around me and tickle me and such...yesterday he asked for my number, we talked on the phone for about an hour, then he asked me to go to the park near our houses...we met, hung out, talked, held hands and hugged (which is a first for me, I don't get close to people), and he held me in his arms for nearly an hour...
well, we hung out at school and he called me again today and we talked for a long time now, the thing is, I don't really know if we are "boyfriend and girlfriend", some of my friends say we are "official enough" but I'm not sure and I don't know how to approach him about it- its sort of weird just asking.... and then, I don't know what to do sometimes- cus he'll call me beautiful or something and I just end up making a joke cus I don't know what to say a little help here... |
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May 10 2005, 07:02 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i dont think you 2 are going out until he actually asks you out.
and i have the same problem; i dont know how to respond to compliments. =\ |
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May 10 2005, 07:04 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Yeah I don't think it's ENTIRLEY official yet, until he says the magic words
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May 10 2005, 07:04 PM
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well... I think you guys are "boyfriends and girlfriends", I mean like you guys held hands right? Normal friends don't do that...
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May 10 2005, 07:24 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
err if he hasnt acctally "popped" the question then it means you two arent going out.
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May 10 2005, 07:47 PM
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If he hasn't asked you, then it isn't official.
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May 10 2005, 08:19 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
its unofficial. its assumed that you two will go out, but until he asks, its not official.
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May 10 2005, 09:07 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's not very official yet unless he asks you out. if you're not sure why not ask him?
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May 10 2005, 09:09 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(FoOd @ May 10 2005, 8:47 PM) If he hasn't asked you, then it isn't official.  Basically , dont think otherwise. |
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May 11 2005, 11:38 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
its unofficial. but try and bring up the subject next time and get him to ask so it can be
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May 11 2005, 11:44 AM
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QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ May 10 2005, 4:02 PM) i dont think you 2 are going out until he actually asks you out. and i have the same problem; i dont know how to respond to compliments. =\ ya same, I'll jsut say "thanks" if it's a passing comment, but if it's like someone admiring you, like a bofriend? I'm hopeless...usually I'll say sometihng like "no I'm not" but uhh I wouldn't sugest that, cause that kinda leaves him ina rut and makes you seem self centered I guess... ...hmmm, I honestly don't know what to say..maybe "you are beautiful too" ? hmm |
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May 11 2005, 12:50 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Aww.. Well I think you should just call him it.. Dont make it a serious discussion.. not yet at least. Just try saying like "hey boyfriend".. and see if he says anything
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May 11 2005, 03:56 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, like everyone said, it's unofficial. But something like that happened with my previous boyfriend and my current one. They never officially asked the question, but it was understood that we were going out.
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May 11 2005, 04:16 PM
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Unless he asks you out you're still single.
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May 13 2005, 10:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Validating Posts: 60 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,567 |
going out now...
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May 13 2005, 10:07 PM
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lol well i dont think its official, maybe its just me being a city girl and all but everybody i know does that [i mean the boys do] like to all of the girls i know and what they say to us doesnt mean we're going out ... lol this is kind of a laugh but i think you should ask just in case to make sure it is official or what not
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May 14 2005, 10:14 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Like everyone said...it's unofficial until he makes the effort to say the six words...sorry if this is sad news for you....but I also don't think you should overthink anything else about the two of you....until he says those words..
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