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 May 9 2005, 07:03 PM
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no i will not vote for pedro  Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,126  |
i like this girl... im best friends with her... and i knew her for a quite awhile... and i like her... i want to go out with her and be closer with her... the thing is... if she says no... the friendship is at stake.... WWJD??? what should i do....
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May 9 2005, 07:05 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Moved to Relationships
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May 9 2005, 07:52 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
it all depends... are you close enough to put it all behind you (if she says no) and still be just as close friends as before? if you like her enough, then take the risk. but maybe you should wait a bit, see how things are between you (if you get any hints from her or w.e.)
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May 9 2005, 07:53 PM
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i think you should ask her how she feels about the whole situation, considering she might like you back and might be just as scared as you are. If the friendship is strong, that shouldn't hurt it. hope everything works out.
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May 9 2005, 08:14 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
it really depends. if you two are rreally close, then if you ask her out and she says no, then you two will still be close friends. but if you two arent that close then she probably wont talk to you as much. one of my closest guy friends asked one my friends out (theyre close... kinda). she said no, but theyre still pretty good friends. if you like her that much, then ask her. if she says no, im pretty sure she'll still want to be friends.
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May 9 2005, 08:14 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
^ Yeah pretty much that
Telling someone how you feel is always plan A. Become really close with her and tell her how you feel. If she says no you guys should stay friends if you really were close. But don't create any akwardness when you around her after you tell her and she says no. Do your best to keep up the friendship. If she says yes then I will be very hppy for you  .
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May 9 2005, 08:27 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,619 |
you could ask her out on a date, not necessarily (sp?) ask her to be your g/f yet. if she goes with you to a movie and dinner or something like that, you have some good chances, she would then know you like her and that might make her more open about her feelings for you. and by just asking her on a date, not g/f, if she says no, then you have better chances of still beign friends.
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May 10 2005, 06:21 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
take the risk.
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May 10 2005, 07:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Validating Posts: 60 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,567 |
this is exactly what I was going through
just somehow let her know how you feel- if she likes you then yay- if not, you are friends, I'm sure she'll be fine with how you feel as long as you don't act too different |
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May 10 2005, 09:01 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
take a chance and ask..and i doubt shes going to treat u different just b/c u like her...go up to her and ask..good luck!
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May 10 2005, 09:36 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
don't ask her out. just stay friends. you have to ask yourself: do i want to ensure our relationship for ever or do i want to risk it for something that i don't even know is going to happen?
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May 11 2005, 08:07 PM
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First make sure she knows that you like her. And then do what you want ask her out.
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May 11 2005, 08:17 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
That's a tricky question. My friend was in that situation too. I guess, just remain friends for now. Get to know her more first. Find out if she likes you back. Then ask her out.
Also- another friend of mine liked his best friend too. He told her he liked her, but she rejected him.. but they are getting even closer till today. Something else, to think about. Hehe. Good luck! |
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