What should I do...?, Help.. please? |
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 May 8 2005, 03:27 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d  Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708  |
Me and my boyfriend (we can call him... B*) have been going out for a week and 2 days now. He asked me out like a week or 2 after breaking up with his ex girlfriend (we can call her.. H*). H* still liked B* when he asked me out and me and H* never exactally had a great relationship... I said some stuff about H* last year and she doesn't like me.
Now alot of H*'s friends are hating on me and B*, saying things like "their the worst couple" "she (being me) is a slut" "He's a jerk" all that bad stuff. Their even leaving hate comments on his xanga chatterbox... He tells me he doesn't care... But it's really affecting me. I feel like it's all my fault that people hate him and stuff. It just really hurts me and I don't know what to do... I know I shouldn't care about what other people think... But it's really hard not to... Any advice on what I should do? |
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May 8 2005, 03:31 PM
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 [insert emo lyrics and cry] Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,070 |
sounds like an algebraic equation to me, and math is not my higher stand point.
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May 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah! Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850 |
All I can say is, that is so not cool. I mean, they have no right treating either of you that way. Neither of you deserve that. Just because you're dating now, doesn't mean they can slut around saying stuff like that. I mean, they can be mad, whatever. Teenage girls can be horrible blood-sucking creatures. I know, I am there right now, and it sucks. Middle School and High School is full of drama and "he's my boyfriend, bitch". There's not much you can do. He may say it doesn't hurt him, to you, cause.. He doesn't want to look weak in front of his girlfriend. That's sweet. Just, keep him. Don't let whores like that come between you. That may sound extremely corny, but it's the truth. Just... Tell them they need to end it because he's not their problem anymore. They have no business anymore. Hope that helped...
Lacey 
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May 8 2005, 07:19 PM
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If you really do care for each other, than screw them. They are just jealous of what you have. But just lean on each other for support and you'll both get through this. All i can say is give it time...
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May 8 2005, 07:24 PM
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 Disgrace to the asian race Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,080 |
Stay strong and it will pass.
As ^ said, they are just jealous. They will see that nothing will come between you and him, they will eventually stop. |
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May 8 2005, 07:30 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
woah ..... i dont think its your fault at all .. they're the one that is hating and that they're mistreating you guys just because he asked you out right after he dumped her.. maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you guys should cool it down a little bit and later on go out with him because you want your boyfriend ex to drop it and then you guys should go out or they would continue talking shit and that would affect you more .... i know how you feel.. everyone hating you just because your going out with someone that people likes / loves.
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May 8 2005, 08:31 PM
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Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
QUOTE(captain_screw_up @ May 8 2005, 4:39 PM) All I can say is, that is so not cool. I mean, they have no right treating either of you that way. Neither of you deserve that. Just because you're dating now, doesn't mean they can slut around saying stuff like that. I mean, they can be mad, whatever. Teenage girls can be horrible blood-sucking creatures. I know, I am there right now, and it sucks. Middle School and High School is full of drama and "he's my boyfriend, bitch". There's not much you can do. He may say it doesn't hurt him, to you, cause.. He doesn't want to look weak in front of his girlfriend. That's sweet. Just, keep him. Don't let whores like that come between you. That may sound extremely corny, but it's the truth. Just... Tell them they need to end it because he's not their problem anymore. They have no business anymore. Hope that helped... Lacey  Yeah. I really like him and I want us to last... |
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May 8 2005, 08:35 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
if you really love him;; like him, or w/e you shouldnt give a damn about what others say. and if b*'s ex girlfriend is hating on you & him it means she's jealous. just take it as a compliment
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May 8 2005, 08:53 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
QUOTE Stay strong and it will pass. If not, go kick their ass..... As ^ said, they are just jealous. They will see that nothing will come between you and him, they will eventually stop. ^haha ignore them. theyre all jealous and H* is mad that he asked you out right after he dumped her. |
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May 8 2005, 09:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
She's jealous. That's all there is.
I probably sound like a hippie, but maybe you could try talking to her? It might work if she's not THAT much of an unreasonable person... |
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May 8 2005, 11:16 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
it's not your fault at all.....they're just jealous. if you really can't put up with it, sorry if this makes you seem like a goody-two-shoes, but you might just have to go talk to someone about it.
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May 8 2005, 11:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Hit the biatch in the face.
 Ok ok, so maybe you should talk things out with your B*. And if possible, try to talk things out with H*, no matter how much you might hate it. Just suck up your pride, and talk to her about this prblem, and who knows, you guys might acutally be good friends.
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May 8 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Be yourself. Unless you suck Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,315 |
Completly ignore them. If they see it's not hurting you they'll stop, and your boyfriend can remove the chatterbox. That's not a huge deal. Other than that don't make any kind of contact with them unless you absolutly have to.
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May 9 2005, 03:11 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,777 |
if u really like him and think its worth the try then stay w/him and ignore all those immature nd jealous pplz who arent even gonna be around in the near future
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May 9 2005, 11:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(Ladii_em @ May 8 2005, 8:24 PM) Stay strong and it will pass. As ^ said, they are just jealous. They will see that nothing will come between you and him, they will eventually stop. Agreed...sooner or later, it'll go away... |
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May 10 2005, 12:16 AM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
wait, so H* + B* = ex girlfriend divided by chatterbox to the 9th power?
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May 10 2005, 01:16 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
just ignore them...i kinda know what u mean..just ignore them for now..if they find out that it has no effect on u, they probably will stop..dont show them that its irratating u...
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