dad's on drugs, err Options

[vampireduster]

just get him some help. we have tried that so many times with my cousin. my aunt has given up on him and his waiting a call from the cops saying he is dead or something.

[misoshiru]

wow that really sucks. maybe your family should go for counseling?

[*Weird addiction*]

Wow, Sandra. That must be a real tough times. I mean I would be horrified if my dad was on drugs. I would be REALLY DAMN horrified.

Anyways, if I were on your shoes... I wouldn't call the cops.... because I don't want my dad to be sent to the prision. What if they found marijuana and something illegal. And the cops wouldn't believe me and have to take me in to because they think I tried some without letting my mom know about it. and maybe also my mom because they think she found som and had some. So this could be a total disaster. If your dad beat you up again, just get a bat. And if he gets violence, do call the police. I mean if he does violence on you that means he doesn't care about me no more. So I hurry up and call the police if there is a huge violence going on like if I hear furnitures crashing by my own dad's hand or beating up friendly neighbors when they didnt do anything wrong. or shoot guns at someone because he's too drunk.

that's what I would do.

Well you see, i actually hate my dad. I want him to suffer, i really want to call the cops but my mom doesn't want to...she's scared, she even yelled at me when i suggested it...

He's actually at home now... he came to wish my sister a happy birthday. Her birthday was yesterday though. He's talking wierdly, omg... he came with a bag, ok, i KNOW he's on drugs...my parents are fighting now...bleh

I'm sorry, Sandra.
I really think you should inform the cops... Maybe you should discuss it with your mother before doing so though.
*hugs*
If you want to talk, I'm always here, dear.

Thanks brie

[racoons > you]

^

same stands for me, as well

meh... ok... i think you need to have aproper talk wit hyour mother... really sit her down and talk about everything.... and then call the cops anyway.

because (and admittedly i dont know her at all) she doesnt seem ina state to make the right decision. it is down to you

[chicky]

Hey sandra6645, I am in your shoes, I know my dad and older brother are on drugs. It is hard, because even though they know how much it upsets you they still do it. It especially upsets me that my dad is on drugs, because like he is meant to set an example, and like my brother is on drugs, but my dad doesn't say anything about it. I already have an uncle in jail for drugs, and it is hard when he rings up sometimes, because I don't know what to say to him. Like I can't really tell him if I go out somewhere, or eat something nice say for dinner, because it's not like he can do those things. I would think with having an uncle in jail for drugs, my father and older brother would wake up and realize that could happen to them, but they don't. My brother I know used to grow marijuana, I don't know if he does that anymore. But he still has a locked cupboard so maybe. But I think that he is selling marijuana because sometimes his friends knock on the door and only stay for a minute or two, and like if you wanted to talk to him for that short, you'd just send a text message, or ring his mobile. If I say anything to my brother he will just get all angry. I just don't know what to do, and I am all confused.

[SMUSHiENESS]

i think you should call the cops, or get him into private rehab. Talk to you r mom and try to work on something that you both agree.

[gladz612]

you should take your mom and go away... if he's gonna hit u and ur mom.. call the cops!