How do u get over the GREATEST girl ever, How to get over a GREAT girl |
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 May 1 2005, 05:23 PM
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 j'adore =)  Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848  |
dude you're only 11! there are much more important things to worry about. maybe if you were older i'd say this. act normal, get a social life that doesn't involve girls (or that girl in particular) and get your friends to take your mind off it.
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May 2 2005, 01:45 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
I respect anyone in all ages. No matter if you're 11 or 100. I believe we all go through the same emotions and though process. I mean I believe it must be a big deal for you, so i'm gona look at your situation as a serious one, because its a big deal to you.
I have done/been through everything on THAT list, and none worked for me. going out with another girl? wouldnt that be liek using her to get over soemeone? Pyscho is not too healthy, you mgiht embarass yourself if your ex find out. Kill yourself? She's not worth it is she? Be an alcoholic? Thats just an excuse to not think about her, but after being sober again, you'll end up missing her twice as much to make up for the time you spent drinking. Stalk? Don't you just seem desperate and hopeless doing that? My philosophy is, the time it took you two to go out, is the amount of time it takes you to get over her. Everyday that you spent with her, is everyday that you will think of her after a breakup. That sounds about right? Right? I'm sensing that you lost a lot of confidence in yourself. You lost self control. You become hopeless. And all it take is time to recover. What you can do is, do things that you plan to do in a lonnggg time but never had a chance to do. Like clean up your room, you will feel realy productive and be proud of yourself, hence your quest for recovery begin. Find hobbies, find somethign accomplishing to do. I find that one thing that helped me out alot, is going out with friends. Yhou'll too busy having fun, for once , maybe for once you didn't have your mind set on HER. And consistency of goign out (while sober) will eventually drift you away from her. And also. Tell yourself that you are better than this, you can find a better person. Is she even worth it? NO!! so from now on............starting a new life, you will find someone that IS worth it.............wow this relationship really woujld change you. You jsut simply become a better person. Take this chance to find yiour new self. IM me and lemme know of the consequences. I3abyBoiRomeo |
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May 2 2005, 02:02 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Ah, I usually go psycho after a break up. I try to act normal though.
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May 2 2005, 02:03 AM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
u're only 11.. u shudnt be that psycho abt it and if she was so great... why wud u break up with her
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May 3 2005, 09:01 AM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
haha you're so young... i can ensure u that in no time u'll find a much better girl.
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May 3 2005, 10:57 AM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
i think you should act normal and take life day by day, move on slowly but surely. you have the rest of your life to find another like her or even better. but for now i think you should concentrate on you, do things to take your mind off of her. go out with the boys, take up old hobbies once again. some people date others right after to make them forget, i don't think dat rlly helps, but for some it does. just do things to occupy your time and take your mind off of her. it helps, cuz i did it. two jobs would help, but your 11 so not many jobs out there hiring your ago. but heyy, you could baby sit or cut lawns or something.
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May 3 2005, 12:47 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
find a new friend. Cause she gonna do the same...
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May 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,595 |
Hey, gotta take it as it is.
You still have your life after all. It's not like you're gonna die, there's nothing to lose, just move forward. Take the step to move on, because sometimes letting go is better than holding on. Through time, it'll eventually heal its wound. If hurt is what you really felt. 
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May 5 2005, 02:53 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
at your age, and you found the greatest girl eveer already??? well hang on a little longer, maybe you'll find a greater greatest girl ever existed.
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May 5 2005, 07:21 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I found another girl, but it didn't help so.. I suggest going physco!
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May 8 2005, 06:45 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah! Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850 |
Well, it's not really a standard thing. It's personal. Different people get over other people many different ways. It's strange. But, all the advice I can really give is.. Just take it slow. Scope out new people. Try and not think about the person. I know it'll be extremely hard cause I've been there.. but, yeah
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May 9 2005, 03:52 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,777 |
uve prob heard this before but ill say it again TIME HELPS so just wait it'll fade eventually i promise.
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