would you tell that person, you like them? Options

[TYPiKALFEMME]

okay i have this problem where i like someone so much that im so scared to tell him and that he'll tell his friends and say why is she asking me that? im just afraid of rejection {YES i know its part of life} but what would you do?

[dahding]

rejection is a part of life, as u said. ur going to have to get used to rejection sooner or later. might as well make it sooner. and also, if ur afraid that he's going to be an ass about it, he's not the right guy then. that's just mean.

[*stephinika*]

^^
exactly. well said dustin. but yeah...its up to you. go for it...who knows what could happen. good luck!

[FireArrow]

You can always drop little hints instead of asking directly

[--x who0ps]

iono i jst keep my thoughts to myself ;]
im not the type to tell ppl if i like them.

[yintung]

i wouldn't tell that person either. i would wait for him to tell me.

[misoshiru]

rejection is a part of life, as u said. ur going to have to get used to rejection sooner or later. might as well make it sooner. and also, if ur afraid that he's going to be an ass about it, he's not the right guy then. that's just mean.

well said, i agree. but it's still hard, but some time in our lives, we just have to take risks. haha.

[bad_girl]

go with the flow.. what goes around comes around. do what ur heart says. if they reject u.. it's thier loss.

[InvisiblePopcorn]

I would tell him, because I always tell guys I like that I like them. Don't be afraid; just think of what you could be missing out on if you don't tell him! Good luck!

[someflipguy]

Learn from each rejection!

But, I would tell a person straight up if I liked them!

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

yeahh tell them. i kno its difficult or easy for differnet girls, like for me its really easy. but i used to be afraid to tell to, but yu just have to tell. if they dont like yu, heyy yu tried and yu wont go on wondering if there was a chance. if they dont` move on. it mayy be hard to move on but trust me , you will.

[angelrevelation]

AAAHH NOOOOO i would NOT!! 0_0 maybe later on in life i'll build up the courage, but definitely NOT now....!!

but if you're up for it, you should (hehe dont mind me) good luck

[yukichan]

iono i jst keep my thoughts to myself ;]
im not the type to tell ppl if i like them.

ya me too..

[*suddenly she*]

1st time, i told over aim haha. that was weird. 2nd time.. well. we just knew already. 3rd, i wrote a note.

stupid hormones. i don't really care right now.

[blah1234567]

get one of his friends to tell him taht you like him. thats what i did and now the guy who i like likes me back...

[imm]

i'd ask, and get rejected, and keep trying till it does happen, cuz i've done that b4.  its harder now cuz im older, and girls are getting more smarter.  i need a new "go at it" plan.

That's just plain annoying.

Anyway, don't try any stupid tricks through friends or anything, it'll only get your relationship messed up. Just go up to that person and ask away, don't beat around the bush or anything, cause that's just stupid.

[EmmalieV]

Well , what i do is tell my friends to tell him , rejection that way hurts less =D

[Litt0_TeeZy]

i've learned in the past that you just have to go for it. life's too short to wait...there was this one guy that i was in love with...he seemed perfect to me in every way...too bad i didn't tell him. he had the SAME feelings for me...we discussed it a few years later...and we were like DANG IT DANG IT DANG IT! lol. so right now...i wait and make sure i actually like them..then i tell them. or i'll start flirting A LOT to where they get the hint...but my friends say i flirt with everyone o_O haha. o welps ;D

edit//// oh yeah...don't do the whole getting your friends to ask him...guys find that really annoying...i know girls do...so guys would feel the same about it...

[*salcha*]

well, you'll never know until you ask right?

[aznbabiicutie]

edits// well. i told him that i liked him and i gave him a 2 day limit to response. if he doesnt response or says no. i'll just move on. and now i'm hoping ^_^

[unfortunatekiwi]

wow. so many people have this problem. honestly though, you have nothing to lose. like you said, rejection is a part of life. so what if he says no? just move on. it's not that hard.

[wincyyellow]

i am facing the same problem too...but...if you are not hopeless,you can try to tell him...

[doglover_76]

i think you show ask and if he says that he doesnt like you then just get over it but if you never ask you'll never know

[No1_2_NoBody13]

OK me personaly...i wouldnt just come right out and say that you like him...i would flirt with him a little...and then you no just write him a lil note saying that you like him....i mean the worst he can do is reject you right??? well if he likes you...he'll start to show it a little more and then when you to no each other reallly well ask him out or he'll ask you out...thats what happend to me...but i mean its not like you two have to stop talking if he dont likes you....

[LittleLulu]

HAH i already told the guy i like that i like him........
but u see.........y do u like this guy>??? cuz...if its cuz of his personality.. that means u KNOW he's nice n wont be all mean when u tell him u like him...

since ur soo scared... does it mean u like him for his looks??...i liked alot of guys for their looks before...more or less... i have to admit it....but this guy...righ now...that i like.....he;s smart n funny n tall n reli reli nice...n he aint no hottie but i didn't care... i like him alot...n i told him....................n BAM! <3

im soo happy =)