why can't I ever be alone!?!?, gah Options

[captain_screw_up]

well, I went out with this dude and we broke up last monday. when we were going out my boyfriend three-wayed his friend zach. we talked to him a lot and then my boyfriend broke up with me cause 'we have too much in common' (which I believe is stupid!! ah well.. whatever). Zach decides he still wants to be friends with me (oh yeah, my ex boyfriend moved here recently. zach lives in a different town.) so we talk on the phone! my ex is a really jealous type. he still likes me though.. so, it's weird. but, my best friend likes him too. i don't know what's going on. he's supposed to ask me back out (maybe, I dunno though). i don't know what to do. i love my friend.. i really like my ex. this is unbearably confusing.

what on eart should i do!?!? i don't wanna hurt either of them.

it seems every time i like someone, one of my other friends does too. i usually don't mind, but dang.

signed,

the confused....

[mickybeans]

ooh, i know what you mean. i've been in this situation before but you gotta go with your heart. i knowit sounds corny but its true. its not fair that your friends like him too. if your friends loved you that much, they should respect the fact that you like your ex bf still.

just follow your heart, thats all i can say (: hope everything works out!

[dancingkait]

^btw i love your avatar mickeybeans :)

but as for your problem. do what your heart tells you. if your friend is loyal and understanding she should support your decision. try to avoid any confrontation in this situation. that could lead to more bigger problems! good luck with this :)

[Paradox of Life]

Man, I've been reading this all over the boards. I agree with mickeybeans. You have to do what you feel is right for yourself. If you friend liked him, she would've already tried to ask him out or something, but you are way ahead of her! Take this oppritunity and if your friend has a problem, maybe she isn't really your friend.

[*mzkandi*]

If you like your ex still then be with him, your friend will be alright, dont worry.

[loljuliana]

well. .friends usually last longer than boyfriends. i dont think that you should go back out with your ex. you already had a chance with him. i dont think you should hurt your friend. it's going to start a fight, and it's not worth losing a friend over a guy.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

well. .friends usually last longer than boyfriends. i dont think that you should go back out with your ex. you already had a chance with him. i dont think you should hurt your friend. it's going to start a fight, and it's not worth losing a friend over a guy.

Agreed

[enyceXaddiction]

yea if you really like him then go out with him again

[AsianUniQ]

Its because of the fact that we all followed our hearts, makes us all fools. Your freind SHOULD respect you right? not! Because she is following HER heart and now she ends up talking to your ex. It seems to me that your ex's reason for breaking up with you is just an excuse, a stupid one. He might regret it too, seeing that he still likes you. He seems to be on a quest of learning here. I think he is lost, because he is doign some exploring to find his options here. And yes, thats following the heart. We all don't know what we get ourselves into. So I don't know if you can get him back........besides the fact that only he can come back to you.........but its up to you, following your heart or not, to let your mind get over him......or let your heart accept him. I tink it would be nice to have him back.

[twisted_stripes]

FIRST OF ALL. PICK SOMEONE? if you have.. WHO? whoever you pick.. STICK TO HIM.