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 May 1 2005, 09:40 PM
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 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,577  |
ya so i need some help;;
got a new gf and i dont want to screw it up x[ so my problem is i really suck at fone conversations, i always dont know what to say. i hear alot of people say that they spend hours on the fone w/ their bf/gf's but yeah; help me pleasE? |
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May 1 2005, 09:47 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
well it happens to me to i usually end up having a silent phone convo with my bf and its silent for like 2 hours! well talk about something...start a conversation ask her questions just DONT BE SHY.
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May 1 2005, 09:49 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
There are many that talk for hours on the phone....about nothing...heh, I guess they talk to each other because they want to hear each other's voices. Just ask her about her day, her past, what she likes, hates, anything about her....or...just common traits you two have....
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May 1 2005, 10:21 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i wouldn't worry too much about it...girls like to talk on the phone so she'll probably have a lot of stuff to say. but you could talk about whatever interests you when the converstaion is dead...
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| *mzkandi* |
May 1 2005, 10:24 PM
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The more worry about what your going to say, the less that is actually going to get said...did that make sense. Anyways..you have to just let the convo flow. Try to find out things that you may not know about her and the like.
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May 2 2005, 07:21 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
pick any topic and itll go from there.
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May 2 2005, 07:25 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhmm.. you can talk about hwork? =P
but hey, she might not like talking on the phone (; like.. i dont like talking on the phone. it gets boring ;X soo yeahh.. (: jst say whatever comes to mind. jst make sure its not perverted, insulting, or annoyingish =] |
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May 2 2005, 07:29 PM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
just try to go with the flow. if she's a phone person, she'll make the conversation. this guy i'm talking to isn't a phone person at all and always try to get him on the phone and i'm not sure what his problem is because it doesnt seem like he doesnt like talking on the phone. whatever. if she really likes you, she'll deal with the fact that you're not really a phone person. maybe that'll make it so you guys spend more time in person together..
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May 2 2005, 08:25 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
my phone conversation with my bf is usually the same, "how was your day" and they reply and we just talk from there.
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May 2 2005, 10:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,577 |
well thanx for the help; but im a really shy person. and to just start talking about something random is somewhat difficult for me.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 9 2005, 06:31 PM
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Well if you're not good at it i suggest you talk to them in person or something im not a phone person either ^^;;
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May 9 2005, 10:21 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
ask her questions. i talked to this guy on the phone for 3 hours and i just met him that day. just start a thing where you tell one fact about you, and she does the same, and you go back and forth. that way, you learn lots of stuff about her that you can use to buy gifts/look sweet/etc. and you're having a good conversation. it works, seriously. and just talk about her and her hobbies, etc.
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May 10 2005, 12:19 AM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
make her laugh, thats the best
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May 10 2005, 01:14 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk about: ur day, her day, favorite color, favorite food, favorite type of music, memories, hobbies, homework, anything...
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May 10 2005, 01:14 AM
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I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
oops..sorry..posted twice...
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May 10 2005, 11:30 AM
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 i'm hot. you're hot. but she's not. Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,896 |
talking is like seccond nature to me.. i mean like, just talk. talk about your day, ask her about hers. and ask her what she is doing, and how things are going, and if anything new or exciting is going on. also, you'll have an easyer time if you accually LOOK OUT for things to talk about with her. like if you do something during your day, if something happens, and so on and so forth. BUT FIRST OF ALL.. just be yourself and say whats on your mind. ((but be carefull not to say anything WAYY TOO stupid. haha))
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