friend..lying..?..boyfriend..she met online.., they did it..true? Options

[irock89]

okay.. i have this friend whose name shall not be mentioned, that i have known for almost 3 yrs. She moved to Fresno 2 years ago...We still communicate with each other and she has told me everything about her life there.. She told me how a lot of guys wanted to go out with her and dumped them because she can't have a bf yet..[HER PARENTS WERE STRICT] [i didn't really fully believe her at first, because when i last saw her, she was innocent and didn't really like a lot of guys, and was very SHY too but eventually i really BELIEVED HER.. i don't even know how and why] months later, she finally told me that she had a boyfriend whose name shall not be mentioned that she met up with in a hotel that lives somewhere far from where she lived, and that she knew him through the internet [the yahoo one..], and THAT THEY HAVE BEEN ON FOR 5 MONTHS ALREADY.. She told me that her boyfriend lied to his parents and that he told them that they were going on a field trip for a few days, so his parents booked him on a hotel and drove him on a hotel in Fresno. She told me that she also lied to her parents, she said that she told her parents that she has to attend an asian coalition that has to do with their school and that they have to meet at a certain place. So her father took her there..and yeah, his father left.. and she said she was just going to take the bus home..SHE AND HER BOYFRIEND MET AT THE HOTEL AND SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY DID "IT"..she said they were making out and they got carried away.. so they had sex..and she wasn't a virgin anymore.. [ i was just, i mean, SERIOUSLY, REALLY?] i was shocked.. She told me she went home riding a bus with HIM..she even showed me his pic.. and i was curious if she got the pic from a google search or something and made everything up..so i copied the link.. it was from yahoo..but i can't find the info about him..it just showed "the page cannot be displayed" i had doubts.... maybe she made this up? i mean.. no parent could be stupid enough to let a son go by himself on a hotel without even checking any note from the teacher or school whatsoever i dunno..DO YOU THINK THIS REALLY DID HAPPEN?

[pingpang_0811]

mm... i think your fd doesn't need to lie u..
u know her for a long time and she told u everything.
their parents didn't check maybe just becoz they believe your fd... or she's good acting...
but.... meet once then making love?!?! seem.. too ridiculous.

your fd had this happen due to her parents restrict her too much.

[kryzcoak47luv666]

mm... i think your fd doesn't need to lie u..
u know her for a long time and she told u everything.
their parents didn't check maybe just becoz they believe your fd... or she's good acting...
but.... meet once then making love?!?! seem.. too ridiculous.

your fd had this happen due to her parents restrict her too much.

^^
I agree
It may be possible, makes perfect sense, kids these days have their ways of getting around parents easily, and maybe she was sick of being so innocent, maybe the guy did deflower her.

[irock89]

mm... i think your fd doesn't need to lie u..
u know her for a long time and she told u everything.
their parents didn't check maybe just becoz they believe your fd... or she's good acting...
but.... meet once then making love?!?! seem.. too ridiculous.
your fd had this happen due to her parents restrict her too much.

It makes REAL SENSE..and the making love part.. i unno.. i still doubt it..

kids these days have their ways of getting around parents easily, and maybe she was sick of being so innocent, maybe the guy did deflower her

YEAH.. maybe she did got sick of her over protective parents...

[*mzkandi*]

She could be telling the truth or she could be lying. If she is lying that is a seriously stupid lie but if she isnt well, thats her business. As her friend I'm sure you are concerned for her but meh....what are you really going to about it either way.

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

Well, your the one that knows her. I mean, even if she was lying, would that make her any worse a friend? Maybe she was getting lonley and just made up this guy. It does happen.

[SMUSHiENESS]

i think it is possible. one of my friends, shes 13, she did it with this guy she hardly knew and it was her first time. but it turned out to be a booty call.
if shes your friend she couldve told you the truth.

[angel-roh]

that kinda doesnt make sense. a lot of guys wanted to date her, but she dumped them because she didn't want to date any guy yet.

or did you mean... a lot of guys wanted to date her, but she rejected them because she didn't want to date any guys yet.


that's a crazy story and hard to believe if it's true or not. well since your friend lives faraway from you, she's just probably playing around with you by making up stories that never existed. I guess she's doing that because she's bored and she wanted to hurt someone and make a fool out of themselves.

Don't believe her since you don't live near her. Just be so sarcastic around her making a foolish out of her too lol. I never believe people who live faraway from you. Well some.... if I knew them more than 6 years... I'll believe them... but they have to be those trustie friends.

Anyways, I met Jusin online on YAHOO too. but we never did IT together... we just met online and chatted for like a year...and we got serious...and finally we said our REAL AGES. i faked that i was 23...and he faked that he was 25. but i met him in real-life.. he didnt tell me where he lived... he lived in alaska where i was... and yeah until then, we became bestest friends/closest friends... and i dated him once like last year. so it's been like 9 years i've known him hehe. very coincidence huh? lol yeah.

so yeah dont listen to your friend who lives faraway.. i mean psh they DID IT on the HOTEL and lied that they were going on a field trip. PSH what a unbelievable story ROFL.

[shortiiex]

there was probably more to the lying then she told you........people change

[--x who0ps]

i think she's lying to you. ;X
i mean, she doesnt even have any proof he exists!
she might jst say it to be getting you jealous.
ive met alot of ppl who boast about their imaginary boyfriend saying: oh my bf took me to the mall today and got me a really cuteee purse !
and stuff like that, but then when she showed her bestfriend who her "boyfriend" was, the bestfrriend was totally shocked. why? cause her "boyfriend" was a famous soapopera actor. -_____-;;

so i wouldnt completely trust her if i were you.
bsides, if her parents were strict, yah think that they'd make sure an adult was with her at all times?

[aera]

hmmm... my parents would never fall for it. i think most wont. i have a feeling that only a small part of it i true.

[angelshortipnai]

I think she's telling the truth, I mean, wat good will it do to her if she lied about it.. but hmm if I was their parents, damn, i'm not gonna believe them o_o when they get those kinds of field trips in school, they usually have permission slips to go..I guess she's telling PART of it true and part of it is false

[captured_serenit...]

I have no idea, really if you have known her for a long time, then it shouldn't be a problem, i think that you should believe her, after all ya'll are friends... =)

[HoodieObsessed]

Well, your the one that knows her.  I mean, even if she was lying, would that make her any worse a friend?  Maybe she was getting lonley and just made up this guy.  It does happen.

ya I agree. she could've made it up but I think ti's safe to beleive her, you dont' want to split your freindship

[toodlepops.]

Sorry to say but she's probably lying to you.
Like you said, her parents are really strict but didn't check if the thing she was going to was real?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

THere's better chance she's telling the turth she has known you for a LONG time and told you everything, why would she lie now?

[misoshiru]

there's always a bit of truth to every lie. maybe she's telling the truth, maybe she's not. but the whole story sounds kind of strange though. personally, i wouldn't believe it.