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 Apr 29 2005, 02:23 AM
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 mmm....beer....  Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854  |
Well, ok, i liked this girl a lot, and she liked me. this went on for a long time. but then she started going out with my best friend so i tried to go out with this other girl, which happened to be her friend, and so this other girl i held her hand much times and it meant a lot but she eventually hated me because i still liked the first girl. she hated me for a while.
then about after 1 month, she started to be my friend again, and now i like her even more! this is the second girl. We only held hands  but i really like her and i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me and won't go out wiht me...I don't know what to do...because, i really like this girl, but she probably doesn't trust/want to go out with me anymore because...well this is what she said to everyone on her myspace 'hero's' section "justin- this kid is crazy. i don't know how he puts up with me everyday. everyday, he lies to me, and i hate him for it. he knows we are still friends and the end of the day he knows it's all good. but he doesn't know that what was there is now lost.' i used to tell her i 'loved' her ... ( i think before i used to use that term too loosely ) ...and i used to ask her to marry me because i loved her...and this is why she think i am lying to her.... what can i do? |
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Apr 29 2005, 02:50 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
there isnt much you can do right now..well in my opinion..you need to just take is SLOW, give everything time..do stuff to prove to her that you will be honest with her..dont try too hard because then she will see you are trying too hard..and dont try to prove it to her in one day by doing 500 things..it will take time to gain her trust back and get back what you guys used to have...all you can do is be honest with her and see where that goes..
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Apr 29 2005, 03:00 AM
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yuep... take it slow.. u can't do much...
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Apr 29 2005, 06:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,007 |
i think everyone will be cheated on, or cheat on someone in some point in their lives. its human..
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Apr 29 2005, 08:29 AM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
take it slow thats my advice. this will work out sooner or later
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Apr 29 2005, 09:30 AM
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Be patient like the others said, take it slow. If you take things too fast then it wouldn`t be a good outcome.
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Apr 29 2005, 10:34 AM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
you caused it you deal with it
dont ever seek revenge cuz its always gonna come back to the first girl its called karma |
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Apr 29 2005, 12:53 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
try to forget her... she has no right to call you a liar cause you arent =]
~Cat |
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Apr 29 2005, 07:32 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's your fault. But...you can always just be nice to her..care about her...and maybe she'll hate you less and start to open up to you....and then...you can tell her how you've changed and your feelings for her...
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Apr 29 2005, 08:34 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
u f**ked it up. u have to suffer the consequences. that's that. the problem with men in general is...they're never serious. u have to mean it wen u say u love her n that u want to marry her...like mean it with all ur heart n not just a 'a lil bit'
its not fair to her that u went out with her wen u liked another girl. that's just not fair n that was cruel. u deserve wat u got. deal with it. it's ur fault forget about her. i mean there is always hope that u can get back with her maybe in the far far future but u f**ked up ur chance so at least for now get over her |
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Apr 30 2005, 12:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
tell her that you have no feelings for the first girl anymore, and tell her that she's the only one you want.
then again, you shouldn't have got with her when you still liked the first girl. |
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Apr 30 2005, 03:51 AM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
QUOTE(taintedtrash @ Apr 29 2005, 4:12 AM) i think everyone will be cheated on, or cheat on someone in some point in their lives. its human..  i cant agree anymore with you. ---- you did screw it up big time. i dont think you really took the time to understand your feelings and handel it maturely. The only way you can prove your sincerety is time. she would not open up to you that easily anymore, after doing what you did. But if you are serious, and willing to mingle until she trusts you again, then all goes well. You never know, perhaps you might have even lost interest before that time comes. Then, atleast you figured out your true feelings and would not play her a second time. |
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Apr 30 2005, 02:28 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Well, first of all, why would she hold your hand if she didn't like you? All I think you can do is come out and tell her you like her and ask her about her feelings for you.
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