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 Apr 28 2005, 09:48 PM
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lets say i jus asked a girl out, she said yes.. n i write i love u n shit.. in my profile.. n my xanga or w/e n tell her that.. ppl be complaining oh its to early to say i love u.. but then if i liked her b4 that, isnt it ok to say u love her.. but then again.. even if u do, n it too early for others.. u say the "date - i love u" like that to show that u care, respect n shit.. u guys get me??
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Apr 28 2005, 09:49 PM
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it`s not a good idea to say i love you when you hardly even know the girl yet, i can understand "strongly like" but think about it love is a big word I LOVE YOU is for like married couples and all that. this is my opinion tho.
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Apr 28 2005, 09:51 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
well, maybe you could lessen on the i love you. most of the time, people say "i love you" because it sounds better than "i like you". just say something different as in "im so glad i met you"
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Apr 28 2005, 10:10 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
it can never be too early to say "i love you". you dont jst start saying it at a specific time in your relationshiop.
 you say it when thats how you really feel. but based on what i see, i think your "i love you's" are hollow. |
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Apr 29 2005, 06:16 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Dude...you say it when you mean it....but....yeah....ok.....you use the word too easily so I don't think you really mean what you say when you say those three words...
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Apr 29 2005, 06:18 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
You don't mean it....I bet you can't give a good decent definition of love...not to be mean or anything...I just don't hink that you love her.....
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Apr 29 2005, 07:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I see a lot of people of my grade or whatnot and they're all "Bob, I love you 4/10/05" or whatever (that was just an example, btw.) And quite frankly, personally I wouldn't want to do that. I mean, love is love and I think you should say it when you feel it, not only because they're your girlfriend/boyfriend. But I see kids saying "I love you" so and so in their profile when they're only going out. I don't even think it's true love.
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Apr 29 2005, 07:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well they are saying that you are saying 'i love you' too early because you just hooked up w/ the girl and right away your saying 'i love you' -- that doesnt make sence because you just 'met up' with the girl -- like you havent spent enough time to get to know her to love her... it took me about two-three months to say 'i love you' to my bf, it took him even days longer -- it just takes time to love somebody... i mean truely [in my opinion]
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Apr 29 2005, 07:26 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
say it only when you know you mean it, other than that it's practically meaningless
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Apr 29 2005, 07:43 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Apr 29 2005, 8:02 PM) I see a lot of people of my grade or whatnot and they're all "Bob, I love you 4/10/05" or whatever (that was just an example, btw.) And quite frankly, personally I wouldn't want to do that. I mean, love is love and I think you should say it when you feel it, not only because they're your girlfriend/boyfriend. But I see kids saying "I love you" so and so in their profile when they're only going out. I don't even think it's true love.  i hate it when people do that  once, this girl made this whole profile (like one of those profiles when you click a link and this whole profile page comes up) about how she loves some guy...after ONE DAY, then she was showing it to people in a forum, the next day they broke up. things like this make people look like such idiots.i don't understand how you could love her...you just asked her out, that does not mean you two are boyfriend and girlfriend, it's just merely a date. even if you believe that you love her, you shouldn't advertise it everywhere so early in a relationship...you need to wait until you're both completely comfortable with each other...it would make me feel uneasy if someone asked me out and tole me he loved me, or told everyone before he told me (which seems like what you did because you put it everywhere)...  |
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Apr 29 2005, 08:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,772 |
ayo.. who said i had a gf.. i was jus makin an example..
but lets say.. u knew her fo mad long b4 u went out.. |
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Apr 29 2005, 08:46 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i think...u should say it only if u mean it. if u meant it then thats good. if it's just out of "respect" u shouldnt have said it at all. it's never to early if ur actually feeling it.
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Apr 30 2005, 12:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
it's your life. you can do whatever.
but, the thing is, "i love you" can be overused to the point where when a couple breaks up with each other, one person might get really really heartbroken 'cause "i love you" could've meant so much to them. no one says "i like you" anymore when they go out with someone 'cause it might not seem strong enough as "i love you", but if you can't decide, use "<3". lol. |
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Apr 30 2005, 01:02 AM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
*sigh* just what is love anymore to people?
-Kevyn |
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Apr 30 2005, 02:48 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Don't say I love you. I mean, in your profile it's okay to say "i x3 you" or whatever. But don't use the term "love" that loosely. I mean, if you do love her, then it's okay. I mean, you could say "luv" I guess. But "love" has a totally different meaning.
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Apr 30 2005, 10:14 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
lols why you even bother listening to other people their not you. everyone does that i love you thing n big deal just ignore them
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Apr 30 2005, 10:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
love is a really strong word just like the word "hate"
i dont think anyone this yound is ready for the word love yet lov is just too strong; maybe you could use lov afer its like a year or over when your with someoen |
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Apr 30 2005, 10:23 PM
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Don`t use te word do loosely i mean i know you liked her for some time before but i mean at least say it when you mean it.
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May 1 2005, 09:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
if you really really really really mean it. sure why not.
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