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 Apr 27 2005, 07:40 AM
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I'm not sure. My friend used to tell by starting with something like 'Look I know you'll be surprised by blahblahblah' and keep going by saying you will be with your bf/gf BUT you promise you will keep up with your studies/sports/whatever your parents expect from you. It always works that way. Just plainly suck up to them and they'll be happy about whatever you do.
My friend's parents are extremely strict and she tried this way and it works all the time. |
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Apr 27 2005, 03:38 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
me: im going out with dan
mom: okay. don't get raped. --a few weeks later-- me: i'm going out with jigesh mom: okay. don't get raped. Thankies mum. |
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Apr 27 2005, 03:51 PM
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i just told her. its not like she could stop me even if she wanted to
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Apr 27 2005, 09:06 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I snuck around for the first two months or so, but my parents caught on after our first 'date' and after he had called our house to talk to me so many times.
So one day, they just asked me how well I knew Alec, and I simply told them that we had been 'going out' for a few months already. |
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Apr 27 2005, 09:13 PM
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my dad freaked. mom was like i have to meet him
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Apr 27 2005, 09:17 PM
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i'm just afraid of their reaction, since it's a long distance relationship, and they actually know this guy (family friend)
when i was young i told them i would never date him even if i was paid (we argued alot) and now look. 
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Apr 28 2005, 03:55 PM
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The conversation went a little something like this:
Me: So mom....what would happen if I did have a boyfriend? Mom: Just make sure you tell me and be careful. I don't think she would mind because she knows that there's probably nothing she could do about me having a boyfriend. But...I've never really told her about it....even though I know that she'd be okay with it...I don't really want to tell her until.....I'm actually in a serious relationship... 
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Apr 28 2005, 03:58 PM
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i told my grandma and she didn`t believe me she said "that`s nice" and went about her bussiness again lols
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Apr 28 2005, 05:39 PM
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Well...I only told my mum at first. It went somewhere along the lines like this.
Me:Mom, is it okay if I had a bf? Mom:As long as you don't have sex and he takes care of you...Why do you have one? Me:Yup. Mom:I have to meet him, and he better not be dating you for your money. Yup, and then my grandma found out because he hugged me lots. Then my aunt, family friends, and then MY DAD.  My family talks about him and makes fun of him now. My dad acknowledges the relationship and all and tries to be nice, but he still sounds like he's going to castrate my bf... |
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Apr 28 2005, 05:45 PM
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i just said ....
me- well jesus asked me out mom- n what did u say me- i said yes mom- ok then she didnt say n e thing cuz she doesnt care if i have a bf 
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Apr 28 2005, 06:14 PM
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I never told them.
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Apr 28 2005, 11:07 PM
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i never told them. and i probably never will until im like. .maybe 15?
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Apr 28 2005, 11:24 PM
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me:so Dad , mom i have a gf.
dad and mom: u dumass i told you, you cant have a gf. me: but i already have a gf dad: get me my belt mom: *throwing slippers* so you see i will get beat up if they find out |
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Apr 29 2005, 12:19 AM
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I just asked my Mom if I can go go out on a date with my boyfriend. I already was going out with him for five months...and they she asked me if he kissed me and yea.
She knows now. |
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Apr 29 2005, 02:59 AM
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its in the genes that i will eventually have one.. they wouldn't really give a f**k.
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Apr 29 2005, 03:11 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
lol with Jeremy and telling my mom, i remember we were sitting on the couch watching tv, and i was neglecting to tell her for a while, thinking of all the different ways i should say it. Then out of nowhere I just kinda blankly said, "you know, jeremy's my boyfriend".
and she just kinda looked at me...silence. and more silence. And the we kept watching tv, lol it was ackward. But i was glad i told her. But dun worry, she loves him now :) |
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