mom problems, don't know what to do.. |
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 Apr 24 2005, 03:23 PM
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 DAM ITS SHELBY  Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864  |
 Yesterday at my basketball game I got angry because I was playing bad..so my mom thought I was angry at everyone else. She said it was embarassing so she left me at the gym in the middle of my game. She made me go home with my dad. I was suppose to go with her. She was gone the whole day yesterday. So..this morning when I woke up I tried talking to her and she kept it small like I could tell she was angry. So we actually start talking. She was talking about her friend going to law school. My brother and I ask why she didn't go because she said she was jealous her friend got to go. SO SHE JUST GOES OFF ON ME! She says that she is never appreciated by my whole family, how she does all the work, how we are ungrateful, how she is having a hard time. I don't know what to do..
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Apr 24 2005, 03:27 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
try explain to ur mom that u werent mad at everyone..tell her that u were mad at ur self for not doing good..and give ur mom some time...sounds like shes mad at something other than u...
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 24 2005, 03:30 PM
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My mom was like that before. Feeling as though she was unappreciated. We bought her flowers and took her out to dinner. You should do something special to show her you do appreciate her. Like if you cant buy a gift, write her a letter telling her how much you love and appreciate her. Moms get stressed sometimes but show her that she is truely loved
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Apr 24 2005, 04:44 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
your mom needs a vacation.
give her three weeks somewhere, to visit relatives.. wtevr. it`ll show you guys how much you need her, and you`ll learn to appreciate her and it`ll give her time to relax and stuff. i know cause my mom was jst like yours, she was always mad going: YOU GUYS THINK THAT IM YOUR SLAVE? YOU CAN JST balhbalhbblh no need for detail and she jst came back yesterday from a two week trip to korea [visiting her siblings] and now she's all relaxed and everything. plus, i definately appreciate her a whole lot now. i dont like waking up at 6 to make my breakfast and lunch 
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Apr 24 2005, 04:50 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
my mom lashes out like that every once in a while too..she goes off about how everyone takes advantage of her and how we dont respect her and how she does all the work while we all sit on our asses..blah blah blah..
we usually clean house for her or take her out to dinner when that happens..to show that we do appreciate her..but we dont do it for just that day//week or whatever..we try really hard to keep the house clean and clean up before she comes home and yeah.. it could also be because mothers day is coming up or something..around mothers day my mom always gets like that..she feels like we just kind of ignore her or brush her off sometimes..but its not like that..so yeah..i dunno.. just talk to her..see whats up..ask if you can help her with anything or if there is anything she wants to talk about..try asking her if she wants to go out to lunch or something, just to spend time with her..just you and her..show her that you care ((i know you do..but apparently she feels like you dont)) anyway..i hope everything gets better..keep us posted :) |
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Apr 24 2005, 05:03 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Tell her what was really wrong with you. Tell her that you were angry because you sucked at the game...no offense.....tell her it wasn't her fault and that you appreciate her for all that she has done for you and the family...meh...Mother's Day is coming up...I'm sure you can make it up to her then.
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| *suddenly she* |
Apr 24 2005, 05:30 PM
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just randomly do something nice to let her know that she doesn't have to prove anything to anyone and hope she doesn't go kaboom.
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Apr 24 2005, 06:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
my ma was like that before. talk your mom and tell her you weren't mad at the basketball gamer at everyone else. ask her what's wrong and have a good talk to her. tell her you love her and she's appricated. then do soemthing specail for her and enclude everyone in your family with that special thing.
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| *stephinika* |
Apr 24 2005, 06:56 PM
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ugh i hate it when my mom freaks out like that. just give her some "silent time"...she'll get over it. once she's in a good mood just tell her you weren't mad at anyone.
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Apr 24 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Tell your mom about the whole mad at yourself rather than your team thing. Try helping your mom around the house once and a while too, she probably just released bottled up anger..y'know? So help around every chance you get.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Apr 28 2005, 09:26 PM
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tell her what really happened.
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