scary movies, with a date.. |
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 Apr 26 2005, 06:37 PM
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im going to the movies with my girlfriend tomorrow and we are going to go see Ammityville horror, which i heard was real scary, and i was wondering something.
when she gets scared or when a scary scene comes up, should i put my arm around her and hold her? i know that i should everynow and then, but im not totally sure when i should and how often and all that stuff. any suggestions? |
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Apr 26 2005, 06:49 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
...I dont know any girl that wouldn't like that...especially in a scary situation. Women like men that are there for them a lot...go for it man and have fun!
-Kevyn |
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Apr 26 2005, 06:52 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Do whatever you feel like you want to do...if you want to put your arm around her...go for it......the worst thing that can happen is that she gives you an odd look...
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Apr 26 2005, 07:19 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
She's your girlfriend, you should put your arm around her to comfort her. If I were to watch a scary movie with my boyfriend, I would kinda expect him to do that to me.
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Apr 26 2005, 07:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If the movie is scary and she gets scared....yes..you can put your arm around her...if you want to...I guess you can hold her too....since you two are dating...I doubt she will give you an kind of look...Don't stress too much...be natural about it....I don't think she'd want an arm that's tense around her....
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Apr 26 2005, 07:33 PM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
......oh and...dont forget to pay her way ^_^
-Kevyn |
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Apr 26 2005, 08:05 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
yes... girls would expect it and if you dont, they would be disappointed.
even though i would personally go to a comedy because scary movies really scare me... |
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Apr 26 2005, 08:25 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
QUOTE yes... girls would expect it and if you dont, they would be disappointed. even though i would personally go to a comedy because scary movies really scare me... Agreed completely, about that paying part. let her pay if she wants to. |
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Apr 26 2005, 08:30 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
QUOTE(SpedMonkee @ Apr 26 2005, 6:37 PM) when she gets scared or when a scary scene comes up, should i put my arm around her and hold her?  Yes, yes you should do that. Who knows what will happen next. 
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Apr 26 2005, 08:30 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should go for it, every girl loves it when their bf does that
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Apr 26 2005, 09:19 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
She would love that. Hold her really close but don't like make it so she can't see the movie. Just put your arm around her and if she starts freaking out hold her... closer.
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Apr 26 2005, 09:20 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I think you should hold her when ever you want to. I'm pretty sure it's something she'd like so just go for it whenever you want. Don't just do it during scary movies.
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Apr 27 2005, 12:45 AM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
Hold her hands or put ur arms around her. Maybe a soft kiss on the cheek too. lol =)
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Apr 27 2005, 09:34 AM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
yeh... u shud def put your hands around her... well after all you guys are going out right? well when i watcha scary movie with my bf i'd def. want him to comfort me.
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Apr 27 2005, 09:45 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
you score major points for being brave and comforting her.
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Apr 27 2005, 12:50 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
just go for it wen u feel like u should. just do it.
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Apr 27 2005, 03:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
when i was there, there was this couple in front of me and she put her head on his shoulder. it was cute. oh, btw, there's a lot of scary parts so you could hold her the entire movie.
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Apr 27 2005, 03:10 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
LOL. Okay, you should hold her during the "right moments." You'll know when they come. Sometimes being held TOO much is a bit annoying though heh. :x make sure you find the good moments though ;)
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Apr 27 2005, 03:27 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
haha i liked the amityville horror. Hold her hand and like when a scary part comes just hold her and she will be in your arms. I like that.
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Apr 27 2005, 05:43 PM
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 hardbodyactiv...always so hard Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,804 |
 listen pal...all u gotta do is b urself. dont sweat it dude.If u really wanna b the mature kewl b/f then u can tell her b4 u go in that if she feels a bit scared and wants 2 hold ur hand or put her head in2 ur shoulder shes welcum 2. That way ur inviting her 2 express herself which takes away ur uncertainty regarding whether 2 creep ur arm up onto her shoulder, which is kinda lame and after a while ur arm goes dead lololol. If u get the whole hand holdin thing goin it usually involves ur hand restin on her thigh, or urs...WOW mybad 
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Apr 27 2005, 05:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Huggle with her after a scary scene, you know, put your head around her shoulder and then wait for her to put her head down, and then you could hug her even closer.
 *sigh* The many things I have yet to get from a guy... 
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Apr 27 2005, 08:35 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
To put it simply: yes.
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Apr 27 2005, 09:03 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(Kneuklid Romance @ Apr 26 2005, 7:49 PM) ...I dont know any girl that wouldn't like that...especially in a scary situation. Women like men that are there for them a lot...go for it man and have fun! -Kevyn Yeah. Most girls like that. Go ahead and do it.. I'm pretty sure she'd enjoy it. I mean, who wouldn't? She's your girlfriend, she should like it. |
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Apr 28 2005, 07:04 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i guess it depends how scary the parts are. at the moderately scary parts, just squeeze her hand, and at the horrifying parts hug her i guess. but then again maybe she doesnt get scared easily. look out for her reactions, and act upon them
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Apr 28 2005, 11:06 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i say. .first rest your arm on the top of the back of her chair. <-- did that make sense?
then put your arm around her shoulder, and i guess keep it there for the rest of the movie? |
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